Fun at the pool is not so fun...

[Fiveohhh]

Originally posted by: Orsorum
A phrase I learned a couple years ago that's helped is "Fvck it."

Words to live by

 

[ggnl]

Originally posted by: FFactory0x
Hey man.
Just be yourself. Who cares what people think. Im about 173-175 and have a little fat, not ungodly but a little and im pale and have big pecs, but i dont care. There are people 10x worse than you. I used to be 210 thats when its bad not 175. I mean hell i have been with more hot woman, 2 models as well no lie and it wasnt cause the way i looked compared to others. It was because i have a very confident personality and make them laugh and they have good times around me and feel comfortable. I mean my last GF when dressed up and all is prolly one of the top 50 hottest girls at my school of 20,000. Every other frat guy hated me for going with her cause they tried so hard and failed. Guess what. I put no effort into it. I met her outside one day she lives next door and just shot the sh%t with her not looking for anythig like other guys do and in the end it payed off with her being my gf for a year. I mean she would joke how i put on some weight but she found it sexy. And i would joke how she didnt have big boobs. I mean your problems are small compared to others and a few imperfections aint sh! T. I mean my ex seemed fine around everyone but let me tell you. She had mental problems, would spend hours in the mirror dolling herself up, wouldnt go out if her hair was out of place and would stay home. She couldnt hang out with me and my roomates who she's knows well if she wasnt wearing proper cloths. Thats sick sh!t man not your problem. I bet if you looked around everyone of them had there own problem. Girls are selfconcious about there weight even if there a stick or about thier boob size.
Dont be a big PUSSY, just be confident. I know what your thinking. A girl or whoever will like you for you and once you get into college most people are mature and look past imperfections. It weird when your little or in highschool you zone in on those imperfections but now you just dont notice them.

you're so awesome you get 2

 

[OrByte]

Originally posted by: Stark
LOL

i just read the replies to the same thread over at the "Christian Forums" site. Boy, this sure is a tough crowd at ATOT.

link?

 

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: Viper GTS
http://www.christian-forums.com/u32276

That you?

You were obviously raised in a religious environment (conversion at age 5), most people I know who were raised that way have a much better grasp on relationships.

Viper GTS

God damn!!! Talk about a fvcking useless forum!!!

 

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: Perknose
skywalker66, you seem to post constantly about lacking confidence, often over girls. You do not lack confidence. In fact, you have a robust self esteem. How else could you so CONFIDENTLY continue to post here given the richly deserved ridicule you encounter?

No, you don't lack self esteem in the least. You are not timid. A truly timid person would have long since run away in tears. But you actually lack the essential ability to care what anyone else truly thinks.

This is because you an incredible fvcking narcissist. A classic case, really. You are encased in the bulletproof, bombproof, FLAMEPROOF, triple locked safe of your own ego. You see only your own reflection, and your own problems, and you dwell on them endlessly, and think everyone else should do so, too, without ever questioning why.

Why else could or would you continue to post here?

You are the skin condition for which there is no known ointment -- smelly, oozing, stubbornly persistent.

Your layer of shallow, unreflective, smug pseudo Christianity only adds to your essential unlikability.

I'll bet, in real life, you don't have one single true friend. That is because you are a narcissist, and don't really give one good goddamn about anyone else.

This is not a sitcom, but you ARE Newman.

HELLLOOOOO, NEWMAN. :disgust:

Viper GTS,

if this isnt a flame about my moral character, I dont know what is.

No dude. That's not a flame. Just an honest evaluation of you based on your inane posts.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: CVSiN

Originally posted by: Horus
Skywalker66, you kind of remind me of that German couple...

They wanted children, and couldn't figure out what they were doing wrong. So they went to the doctor, and he asked, "Well, how are you having s3x?"

They both replied, "Sex? What's THAT?"

Mind you, they were hardcore Lutherans...but the doctor informed them about what to do, and the went forth and multiplied, like jackrabbits apparently.

Does the bible not say, "Go forth and multiply"? That cannot happen without some degree of lust!

The bible is not a set of rules to live your pathetic, sad life by...they're guidelines for good living! Follow them IF IT IS PRACTICAL!

You're so self-absorbed...look at yourself in a mirror once or twice, and say, "I can be a catholic, and a teenager at the same time...lusting is NOT a sin! IT IS NATURAL!"

actually it is...

in fact one of the big 7...
Sloth, Lust. Gluttony, Anger, Envy, Greed, Pride.

see ya in hell with the rest of the party

Yep. Remember boys and girls, those things between your legs are Horrible Tools of Satan! They are only to be used under the Watchful Eye of God to Further the Domination of the Earth with the Mindless Legions in preparation fo-

Wow, almost gave away the ending there.

- M4H

 

[mAdMaLuDaWg]

Originally posted by: Stark
LOL

i just read the replies to the same thread over at the "Christian Forums" site. Boy, this sure is a tough crowd at ATOT.

Oh just wait until he starts posting the same questions over and over again, he'll probally goto the 'Hell Spawn' forums and become a moderator

 

[Hankerton]

Originally posted by: mAdMaLuDaWg

Originally posted by: Stark
LOL

i just read the replies to the same thread over at the "Christian Forums" site. Boy, this sure is a tough crowd at ATOT.

Oh just wait until he starts posting the same questions over and over again, he'll probally goto the 'Hell Spawn' forums and become a moderator

I just checked that forum out and I had to leave after 2 minutes. It was seriously making me want to vomit!!!! Am I going to hell? hahah, if so, see you all there!!

 

[skywalker66]

No my friend, I think he hit the nail right on the head. Just do a search for your previous posts and you'll see a strange pattern. You essential recycle your problems over and over again, people actually spend time posting possible solutions and really try to help you out. Then you post about the same topic a few days later... you never heed any advice. In fact, all the useful advice given to you in this thread has been said over and over and over and over and over again. Yet you do not want to confront your problems but instead continue to dwell on them. You use this board as an outlet for your frustration with yourself and to give yourself the feeling that you are trying to solve your problems but in reality, you don't want to confront them and just want the attention.
In other words, And I quote perknose, you an incredible fvcking narcissist.

Woah woah.. yes, I create similar posts that have to do with women, but that is because I am very intrigued about this matter. I dont call it recycling my problems. I call it posting up on here for the hell of it, you folks should know by now that likely I wont be doing anything about my problems in the near future. So yes, when I do post I do it for attention, and to hear opinions about the matter that I am discussing. I dont do it always so that I can 'hear an answer' even though u may think that is implied while reading my posts.
A lot of times I just do it, just to hear what other people have to say. The positive things that other people have to say (which I find burried in the middle of all the negative comments)

I'm not solving my problems, and so what? I'll solve my problems when I feel like it. Everyone uses this board as an outlet for their frustration, so who gives a rats ass if I'm doing that?

Fine call me a narcissist, whatever. Is that the worst you got?

 

[skywalker66]

Originally posted by: FFactory0x
Hey man.
Just be yourself. Who cares what people think. Im about 173-175 and have a little fat, not ungodly but a little and im pale and have big pecs, but i dont care. There are people 10x worse than you. I used to be 210 thats when its bad not 175. I mean hell i have been with more hot woman, 2 models as well no lie and it wasnt cause the way i looked compared to others. It was because i have a very confident personality and make them laugh and they have good times around me and feel comfortable. I mean my last GF when dressed up and all is prolly one of the top 50 hottest girls at my school of 20,000. Every other frat guy hated me for going with her cause they tried so hard and failed. Guess what. I put no effort into it. I met her outside one day she lives next door and just shot the sh%t with her not looking for anythig like other guys do and in the end it payed off with her being my gf for a year. I mean she would joke how i put on some weight but she found it sexy. And i would joke how she didnt have big boobs. I mean your problems are small compared to others and a few imperfections aint sh! T. I mean my ex seemed fine around everyone but let me tell you. She had mental problems, would spend hours in the mirror dolling herself up, wouldnt go out if her hair was out of place and would stay home. She couldnt hang out with me and my roomates who she's knows well if she wasnt wearing proper cloths. Thats sick sh!t man not your problem. I bet if you looked around everyone of them had there own problem. Girls are selfconcious about there weight even if there a stick or about thier boob size.
Dont be a big PUSSY, just be confident. I know what your thinking. A girl or whoever will like you for you and once you get into college most people are mature and look past imperfections. It weird when your little or in highschool you zone in on those imperfections but now you just dont notice them.

I congratulate you on your success with women. Here's the thing though, and this is probably what helped you out a ton:
You said you didn't try too hard, like all the other guys do.
My problem is that I always put in an effort to talk to the girl, I try not to be invasive, but I definately show interest. And maybe that is what penalizes me.

Let me guess, did you just kinda become her friend, and eventually it grew into a relationship? How long did that process last? I have a hard time hiding my interest for females, when they are attractive. It's hard for me to see girls as just friends, and to not think about anything more.

I mean the reason I get to know most of the girls that I get to know, is to see whether they are compatible with me or not.
If girls get turned off by guys who do this, then how the hell else am I suppose to get to know a girl? lol.

There are a very limited number of girls that I have sought purely on the notion that I just wanted to be their friend (the kind of friend that hangs out with them). (I can probably count this number on one hand) And not surprisingly, I wasnt romantically attracted to any of them (or they already had boyfriends), which is probably why I desired just a friendship.

For me, here are my priorities:

1. Have a girlfriend
2. Have female friends


If I tried to put #2, before #1, I would only be lying to myself. I would take a girlfriend over a friend thats a girl, any day of the week.

 

[skywalker66]

Originally posted by: Horus
Skywalker66, you kind of remind me of that German couple...

They wanted children, and couldn't figure out what they were doing wrong. So they went to the doctor, and he asked, "Well, how are you having s3x?"

They both replied, "Sex? What's THAT?"

Mind you, they were hardcore Lutherans...but the doctor informed them about what to do, and the went forth and multiplied, like jackrabbits apparently.

Does the bible not say, "Go forth and multiply"? That cannot happen without some degree of lust!

The bible is not a set of rules to live your pathetic, sad life by...they're guidelines for good living! Follow them IF IT IS PRACTICAL!

You're so self-absorbed...look at yourself in a mirror once or twice, and say, "I can be a catholic, and a teenager at the same time...lusting is NOT a sin! IT IS NATURAL!"

unfortunately the Bible directly insists that lust is a sin.

Or at least it is a sin when its with someone else besides your wife.

If I just called the Bible a set of 'guidelines' that would only be a sign of the lack of faith that I have in God's perfection.

 

[MithShrike]

Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Can we get rid of this guy, please?

We seriously need a system where we can systematically nominate & eliminate the idiots.

I would suggest a daily system (one ban per day, perhaps two on holidays), in a couple months we could greatly reduce the idiot population here.

To give people a chance to repent & walk in the light we could make the first one a warning, with a one week re-evaluation before the perma ban.

On the other hand, if someone received above say... 90% votes to ban then no warning would be necessary.

Skywalker would be my first nomination vote, second would be dmcowen.

Viper GTS

nvfx would be my first nomination with skywalker66 as my second.

 

[Saulbadguy]

This is comical.

 

[isekii]

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: Horus
Skywalker66, you kind of remind me of that German couple...

They wanted children, and couldn't figure out what they were doing wrong. So they went to the doctor, and he asked, "Well, how are you having s3x?"

They both replied, "Sex? What's THAT?"

Mind you, they were hardcore Lutherans...but the doctor informed them about what to do, and the went forth and multiplied, like jackrabbits apparently.

Does the bible not say, "Go forth and multiply"? That cannot happen without some degree of lust!

The bible is not a set of rules to live your pathetic, sad life by...they're guidelines for good living! Follow them IF IT IS PRACTICAL!

You're so self-absorbed...look at yourself in a mirror once or twice, and say, "I can be a catholic, and a teenager at the same time...lusting is NOT a sin! IT IS NATURAL!"

unfortunately the Bible directly insists that lust is a sin.

Or at least it is a sin when its with someone else besides your wife.

If I just called the Bible a set of 'guidelines' that would only be a sign of the lack of faith that I have in God's perfection.

JUST STFU AND STAY A VIRGIN.

 

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: skywalker66
Woah woah.. yes, I create similar posts that have to do with women, but that is because I am very intrigued about this matter. I dont call it recycling my problems. I call it posting up on here for the hell of it, you folks should know by now that likely I wont be doing anything about my problems in the near future. So yes, when I do post I do it for attention, and to hear opinions about the matter that I am discussing. I dont do it always so that I can 'hear an answer' even though u may think that is implied while reading my posts.
A lot of times I just do it, just to hear what other people have to say. The positive things that other people have to say (which I find burried in the middle of all the negative comments)

I'm not solving my problems, and so what? I'll solve my problems when I feel like it. Everyone uses this board as an outlet for their frustration, so who gives a rats ass if I'm doing that?

Fine call me a narcissist, whatever. Is that the worst you got?

The trouble with you is that you do it over and over and over again. Imagine if we all posted the same topic over and over again...oh wait, we do that already...okay, imagine if we all started the same thread every day or so complaining of the same problems but never do anything about them. That is you.

It started out with people trying to be helpful but then you go off rambling about the same problems constantly it just frustrates those of us who have tried to help. It's like talking to a drunk when you're sober. It's very annoying.

 

[JulesMaximus]

And please, stop quoting the damned bible. That is equally annoying.

Your friend in assless chaps,

Jules

 

[OrByte]

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: Horus
Skywalker66, you kind of remind me of that German couple...

They wanted children, and couldn't figure out what they were doing wrong. So they went to the doctor, and he asked, "Well, how are you having s3x?"

They both replied, "Sex? What's THAT?"

Mind you, they were hardcore Lutherans...but the doctor informed them about what to do, and the went forth and multiplied, like jackrabbits apparently.

Does the bible not say, "Go forth and multiply"? That cannot happen without some degree of lust!

The bible is not a set of rules to live your pathetic, sad life by...they're guidelines for good living! Follow them IF IT IS PRACTICAL!

You're so self-absorbed...look at yourself in a mirror once or twice, and say, "I can be a catholic, and a teenager at the same time...lusting is NOT a sin! IT IS NATURAL!"

unfortunately the Bible directly insists that lust is a sin.

Or at least it is a sin when its with someone else besides your wife.

If I just called the Bible a set of 'guidelines' that would only be a sign of the lack of faith that I have in God's perfection.

Dude, check out the movie "Saved"
it's right up your alley.

 

[virtuamike]

Originally posted by: OrByte

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: Horus
Skywalker66, you kind of remind me of that German couple...

They wanted children, and couldn't figure out what they were doing wrong. So they went to the doctor, and he asked, "Well, how are you having s3x?"

They both replied, "Sex? What's THAT?"

Mind you, they were hardcore Lutherans...but the doctor informed them about what to do, and the went forth and multiplied, like jackrabbits apparently.

Does the bible not say, "Go forth and multiply"? That cannot happen without some degree of lust!

The bible is not a set of rules to live your pathetic, sad life by...they're guidelines for good living! Follow them IF IT IS PRACTICAL!

You're so self-absorbed...look at yourself in a mirror once or twice, and say, "I can be a catholic, and a teenager at the same time...lusting is NOT a sin! IT IS NATURAL!"

unfortunately the Bible directly insists that lust is a sin.

Or at least it is a sin when its with someone else besides your wife.

If I just called the Bible a set of 'guidelines' that would only be a sign of the lack of faith that I have in God's perfection.

Dude, check out the movie "Saved"
it's right up your alley.

Magic 8-ball says . . . there is no salvation for you. You're fvcked.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Suicide is your only answer.

- M4H

 

[Krk3561]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Suicide is your only answer.

- M4H

LMAO!

 

[FFactory0x]

Hey let me just this. I dont mean this a bad way but i tell my friends this. Grow some balls and just go talk to them. Even Say I want to take you out to dinner. SAY I WANT TO OR IM GOING TO. Make it like a statement not a question

 

[Glendor]

Originally posted by: skywalker66
congratulations, its people like you who give me hope.

I just about blew Dr. Pepper out my nose when I read that!
Here's some more inspiration Skywalker66... Pics of some of the Girls I've Boinked

Sorry, but I couldn't resist...

Buck up dude... Looks aren't everything unless you're shallow.

 

[mAdMaLuDaWg]

Skywalker, if there is anything that annoys me more than you posting over and over again about the same damn thing every freakin day, its you using Christianity to hide your weaknesses and shortcomings behind. You've made your own religion by selectively using it to judge yourself and others by.

Now hear me out on this one, its not your religion, its not the Bible, its not the 99% of AnandTechers, its not everyone else in the world... its YOUR CHARACTER damn it. Stop thinking you know how the world works and stop posting to hear answers you never follow. Ever wonder why you are the only person out of the 89995 user who gets this reaction from the crowd over and over again.. ITS YOUR FREAKIN CHARACTER.

Either accept that you are a loser or do something about it for crying out loud!

 

[skywalker66]

--edited.

 

[skywalker66]

I'm still waiting to hear what someone has to say about this: (a comment I made to this guy earlier)

Originally posted by: FFactory0x
Hey man.
Just be yourself. Who cares what people think. Im about 173-175 and have a little fat, not ungodly but a little and im pale and have big pecs, but i dont care. There are people 10x worse than you. I used to be 210 thats when its bad not 175. I mean hell i have been with more hot woman, 2 models as well no lie and it wasnt cause the way i looked compared to others. It was because i have a very confident personality and make them laugh and they have good times around me and feel comfortable. I mean my last GF when dressed up and all is prolly one of the top 50 hottest girls at my school of 20,000. Every other frat guy hated me for going with her cause they tried so hard and failed. Guess what. I put no effort into it. I met her outside one day she lives next door and just shot the sh%t with her not looking for anythig like other guys do and in the end it payed off with her being my gf for a year. I mean she would joke how i put on some weight but she found it sexy. And i would joke how she didnt have big boobs. I mean your problems are small compared to others and a few imperfections aint sh! T. I mean my ex seemed fine around everyone but let me tell you. She had mental problems, would spend hours in the mirror dolling herself up, wouldnt go out if her hair was out of place and would stay home. She couldnt hang out with me and my roomates who she's knows well if she wasnt wearing proper cloths. Thats sick sh!t man not your problem. I bet if you looked around everyone of them had there own problem. Girls are selfconcious about there weight even if there a stick or about thier boob size.
Dont be a big PUSSY, just be confident. I know what your thinking. A girl or whoever will like you for you and once you get into college most people are mature and look past imperfections. It weird when your little or in highschool you zone in on those imperfections but now you just dont notice them.

I congratulate you on your success with women. Here's the thing though, and this is probably what helped you out a ton:
You said you didn't try too hard, like all the other guys do.
My problem is that I always put in an effort to talk to the girl, I try not to be invasive, but I definately show interest. And maybe that is what penalizes me.

Let me guess, did you just kinda become her friend, and eventually it grew into a relationship? How long did that process last? I have a hard time hiding my interest for females, when they are attractive. It's hard for me to see girls as just friends, and to not think about anything more.

I mean the reason I get to know most of the girls that I get to know, is to see whether they are compatible with me or not.
If girls get turned off by guys who do this, then how the hell else am I suppose to get to know a girl? lol.

There are a very limited number of girls that I have sought purely on the notion that I just wanted to be their friend (the kind of friend that hangs out with them). (I can probably count this number on one hand) And not surprisingly, I wasnt romantically attracted to any of them (or they already had boyfriends), which is probably why I desired just a friendship.

For me, here are my priorities:

1. Have a girlfriend
2. Have female friends


If I tried to put #2, before #1, I would only be lying to myself. I would take a girlfriend over a friend thats a girl, any day of the week.