Fun at the pool is not so fun...

[Viper GTS]

Grownups don't act like you.

Out of sheer curiosity, how was your parents' relationship?

You seem to have no clue how a good relationship works.

Viper GTS

 

[isekii]

That's why you'll never get any poontang.

You're prolly be the next Ted Kaczynski

 

[Viper GTS]

http://www.christian-forums.com/u32276

That you?

You were obviously raised in a religious environment (conversion at age 5), most people I know who were raised that way have a much better grasp on relationships.

Viper GTS

 

[skywalker66]

My parents have a good relationship, yes.

Originally posted by: Viper GTS
http://www.christian-forums.com/u32276

That you?

You were obviously raised in a religious environment (conversion at age 5), most people I know who were raised that way have a much better grasp on relationships.

Viper GTS

Yes that is me, good detective work.

I dunno, I think I have a pretty fair grasp on relationships.


Why do you say that I have no clue how a relationship works?

 

[Perknose]

skywalker66, you seem to post constantly about lacking confidence, often over girls. You do not lack confidence. In fact, you have a robust self esteem. How else could you so CONFIDENTLY continue to post here given the richly deserved ridicule you encounter?

No, you don't lack self esteem in the least. You are not timid. A truly timid person would have long since run away in tears. But you actually lack the essential ability to care what anyone else truly thinks.

This is because you an incredible fvcking narcissist. A classic case, really. You are encased in the bulletproof, bombproof, FLAMEPROOF, triple locked safe of your own ego. You see only your own reflection, and your own problems, and you dwell on them endlessly, and think everyone else should do so, too, without ever questioning why.

Why else could or would you continue to post here?

You are the skin condition for which there is no known ointment -- smelly, oozing, stubbornly persistent.

Your layer of shallow, unreflective, smug pseudo Christianity only adds to your essential unlikability.

I'll bet, in real life, you don't have one single true friend. That is because you are a narcissist, and don't really give one good goddamn about anyone else.

This is not a sitcom, but you ARE Newman.

HELLLOOOOO, NEWMAN. :disgust:

 

[mAdMaLuDaWg]

Originally posted by: Perknose
skywalker66, you seem to post constantly about lacking confidence, often over girls. You do not lack confidence. In fact, you have a robust self esteem. How else could you so CONFIDENTLY continue to post here given the richly deserved ridicule you encounter?

No, you don't lack self esteem in the least. You are not timid. A truly timid person would have long since run away in tears. But you actually lack the essential ability to care what anyone else truly thinks.

This is because you an incredible fvcking narcissist. A classic case, really. You are encased in the bulletproof, bombproof, FLAMEPROOF, triple locked safe of your own ego. You see only your own reflection, and your own problems, and you dwell on them endlessly, and think everyone else should do so, too, without ever questioning why.

Why else could or would you continue to post here?

You are the skin condition for which there is no known ointment -- smelly, oozing, stubbornly persistent.

Your layer of shallow, unreflective, smug pseudo Christianity only adds to your essential unlikability.

I'll bet, in real life, you don't have one single true friend. That is because you are a narcissist, and don't really give one good goddamn about anyone else.

This is not a sitcom, but you ARE Newman.

HELLLOOOOO, NEWMAN. :disgust:

:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

 

[erikistired]

Originally posted by: skywalker66
Alright, I just got back in for the night, and I figured I'd post this on here to see what you fellows think.

All the sophmores at my college (I go to a Christian college) had this thing tonight at this community center where they have these cool pools, water slides, etc. and then they had volleyball, sumo wrestling suits, and that fun stuff. Its one of those dealies where its open all night basically and people can leave when they want to.

Well, when I got there we listened to a speaker for about an hour. Then after that I fooled around a bit and shot some hoops (a few ppl were shootin hoops but no one wanted to play a game) and talked to some ppl, but then all of a sudden...
everyone went swimming.

now dont get me wrong, I think swimming can be fun. But its not so fun when you are so self conscious about yourself and your body. I am 20 years old, and looked a lot better when I was 18, than I do right now. I used to play sports and stuff, but now that I'm in college I'm no longer good enough for any college sports, so I'm not as active, and of course I've gained a little bit of weight since the end of highschool (probably like 15 pounds)

I'm 5'9" used to weigh 160 and look alright. now I weigh 175 and dont look that pleasant. I'm not fat, but I am kinda flabby.


Anyways, I decided not to go swimming just because I didnt feel like showing off my flab (and the pool was going to close in 2 hours). I'm self conscious of the way I look, especially around women, and there are a lot of women at my college that are in good shape. Being in shape at my college is kind of the thing, ppl are focused on external appearances, nice clothes, their bodies, their hair, etc, (I go to a small school, about 2500 ppl)


Was this a bad idea, to skip out and leave at that point? (2 hours before things were gonna shut down) I had only been there for about an hour and a half.

I know that ppl tell me I'm not fat and that I shouldnt care and be as self conscious as I am, but I just cant help it.

I did not feel comfortable going into that pool. Especially with all the girls from my school that were in the water, and the guys standing around me that were in better shape than me.

you should beat your skull with a rusty hook. next question?

 

[skywalker66]

Originally posted by: Perknose
skywalker66, you seem to post constantly about lacking confidence, often over girls. You do not lack confidence. In fact, you have a robust self esteem. How else could you so CONFIDENTLY continue to post here given the richly deserved ridicule you encounter?

No, you don't lack self esteem in the least. You are not timid. A truly timid person would have long since run away in tears. But you actually lack the essential ability to care what anyone else truly thinks.

This is because you an incredible fvcking narcissist. A classic case, really. You are encased in the bulletproof, bombproof, FLAMEPROOF, triple locked safe of your own ego. You see only your own reflection, and your own problems, and you dwell on them endlessly, and think everyone else should do so, too, without ever questioning why.

Why else could or would you continue to post here?

You are the skin condition for which there is no known ointment -- smelly, oozing, stubbornly persistent.

Your layer of shallow, unreflective, smug pseudo Christianity only adds to your essential unlikability.

I'll bet, in real life, you don't have one single true friend. That is because you are a narcissist, and don't really give one good goddamn about anyone else.

This is not a sitcom, but you ARE Newman.

HELLLOOOOO, NEWMAN. :disgust:

Viper GTS,

if this isnt a flame about my moral character, I dont know what is.

 

[OrByte]

:music: We love jesus, yes we do! :music:

:music: We love jesus, HOW ABOUT YOU!?! :music:



:roll:

 

[ed21x]

Originally posted by: z0mb13

Originally posted by: The Boss
skywalker66 for elite!!!!

agreed!

something about the honesty of this guy that makes me like him =)

 

[MazerRackham]

Don't let this thread die!!!!

 

[mAdMaLuDaWg]

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: Perknose
skywalker66, you seem to post constantly about lacking confidence, often over girls. You do not lack confidence. In fact, you have a robust self esteem. How else could you so CONFIDENTLY continue to post here given the richly deserved ridicule you encounter?

No, you don't lack self esteem in the least. You are not timid. A truly timid person would have long since run away in tears. But you actually lack the essential ability to care what anyone else truly thinks.

This is because you an incredible fvcking narcissist. A classic case, really. You are encased in the bulletproof, bombproof, FLAMEPROOF, triple locked safe of your own ego. You see only your own reflection, and your own problems, and you dwell on them endlessly, and think everyone else should do so, too, without ever questioning why.

Why else could or would you continue to post here?

You are the skin condition for which there is no known ointment -- smelly, oozing, stubbornly persistent.

Your layer of shallow, unreflective, smug pseudo Christianity only adds to your essential unlikability.

I'll bet, in real life, you don't have one single true friend. That is because you are a narcissist, and don't really give one good goddamn about anyone else.

This is not a sitcom, but you ARE Newman.

HELLLOOOOO, NEWMAN. :disgust:

Viper GTS,

if this isnt a flame about my moral character, I dont know what is.

No my friend, I think he hit the nail right on the head. Just do a search for your previous posts and you'll see a strange pattern. You essential recycle your problems over and over again, people actually spend time posting possible solutions and really try to help you out. Then you post about the same topic a few days later... you never heed any advice. In fact, all the useful advice given to you in this thread has been said over and over and over and over and over again. Yet you do not want to confront your problems but instead continue to dwell on them. You use this board as an outlet for your frustration with yourself and to give yourself the feeling that you are trying to solve your problems but in reality, you don't want to confront them and just want the attention.
In other words, And I quote perknose, you an incredible fvcking narcissist.

 

[PanzerIV]

Originally posted by: mAdMaLuDaWg

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: Perknose
skywalker66, you seem to post constantly about lacking confidence, often over girls. You do not lack confidence. In fact, you have a robust self esteem. How else could you so CONFIDENTLY continue to post here given the richly deserved ridicule you encounter?

No, you don't lack self esteem in the least. You are not timid. A truly timid person would have long since run away in tears. But you actually lack the essential ability to care what anyone else truly thinks.

This is because you an incredible fvcking narcissist. A classic case, really. You are encased in the bulletproof, bombproof, FLAMEPROOF, triple locked safe of your own ego. You see only your own reflection, and your own problems, and you dwell on them endlessly, and think everyone else should do so, too, without ever questioning why.

Why else could or would you continue to post here?

You are the skin condition for which there is no known ointment -- smelly, oozing, stubbornly persistent.

Your layer of shallow, unreflective, smug pseudo Christianity only adds to your essential unlikability.

I'll bet, in real life, you don't have one single true friend. That is because you are a narcissist, and don't really give one good goddamn about anyone else.

This is not a sitcom, but you ARE Newman.

HELLLOOOOO, NEWMAN. :disgust:

Viper GTS,

if this isnt a flame about my moral character, I dont know what is.

No my friend, I think he hit the nail right on the head. Just do a search for your previous posts and you'll see a strange pattern. You essential recycle your problems over and over again, people actually spend time posting possible solutions and really try to help you out. Then you post about the same topic a few days later... you never heed any advice. In fact, all the useful advice given to you in this thread has been said over and over and over and over and over again. Yet you do not want to confront your problems but instead continue to dwell on them. You use this board as an outlet for your frustration with yourself and to give yourself the feeling that you are trying to solve your problems but in reality, you don't want to confront them and just want the attention.
In other words, And I quote perknose, you an incredible fvcking narcissist.

This man speaketh the truth.

 

[GasX]

If Chris Farley and John Belushi could both get all the play they wanted prior to their untimely demise, you should shvt the fvck vp and get your fat ass in the pool with the girls. Alternatively, you could just emulate them by dying young...

 

[isekii]

Lock this b!tch up and anything else about girls and self confidence problems that he posts about.

 

[OrByte]

I think Dr. Phil would say that this man (term used lightly) exhibits 9 of the 14 characteristics of a serial killer.

I think it's actually pretty interesting the amount of energy this person exerts just to whine and complain about his lack of social skills/life.

if he put just a little of that energy into actually doing something....well...

Let us Pray....

Hail mary, full of grace.....

 

[isasir]

Wow, narcissism, very interesting. I hadn't thought about that, but doing some quick reading on it, it is definitely a possibility.

 

[FFactory0x]

Hey man.
Just be yourself. Who cares what people think. Im about 173-175 and have a little fat, not ungodly but a little and im pale and have big pecs, but i dont care. There are people 10x worse than you. I used to be 210 thats when its bad not 175. I mean hell i have been with more hot woman, 2 models as well no lie and it wasnt cause the way i looked compared to others. It was because i have a very confident personality and make them laugh and they have good times around me and feel comfortable. I mean my last GF when dressed up and all is prolly one of the top 50 hottest girls at my school of 20,000. Every other frat guy hated me for going with her cause they tried so hard and failed. Guess what. I put no effort into it. I met her outside one day she lives next door and just shot the sh%t with her not looking for anythig like other guys do and in the end it payed off with her being my gf for a year. I mean she would joke how i put on some weight but she found it sexy. And i would joke how she didnt have big boobs. I mean your problems are small compared to others and a few imperfections aint sh! T. I mean my ex seemed fine around everyone but let me tell you. She had mental problems, would spend hours in the mirror dolling herself up, wouldnt go out if her hair was out of place and would stay home. She couldnt hang out with me and my roomates who she's knows well if she wasnt wearing proper cloths. Thats sick sh!t man not your problem. I bet if you looked around everyone of them had there own problem. Girls are selfconcious about there weight even if there a stick or about thier boob size.
Dont be a big PUSSY, just be confident. I know what your thinking. A girl or whoever will like you for you and once you get into college most people are mature and look past imperfections. It weird when your little or in highschool you zone in on those imperfections but now you just dont notice them.

 

[Horus]

Skywalker66, you kind of remind me of that German couple...

They wanted children, and couldn't figure out what they were doing wrong. So they went to the doctor, and he asked, "Well, how are you having s3x?"

They both replied, "Sex? What's THAT?"

Mind you, they were hardcore Lutherans...but the doctor informed them about what to do, and the went forth and multiplied, like jackrabbits apparently.

Does the bible not say, "Go forth and multiply"? That cannot happen without some degree of lust!

The bible is not a set of rules to live your pathetic, sad life by...they're guidelines for good living! Follow them IF IT IS PRACTICAL!

You're so self-absorbed...look at yourself in a mirror once or twice, and say, "I can be a catholic, and a teenager at the same time...lusting is NOT a sin! IT IS NATURAL!"

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: Mwilding
If Chris Farley and John Belushi could both get all the play they wanted prior to their untimely demise, you should shvt the fvck vp and get your fat ass in the pool with the girls. Alternatively, you could just emulate them by dying young...

Very true.

 

[PricklyPete]

Originally posted by: amish
does it really matter if the girls look at you? i mean, you aren't going to have sex with them so why care what they think?

 

[CVSiN]

Originally posted by: Horus
Skywalker66, you kind of remind me of that German couple...

They wanted children, and couldn't figure out what they were doing wrong. So they went to the doctor, and he asked, "Well, how are you having s3x?"

They both replied, "Sex? What's THAT?"

Mind you, they were hardcore Lutherans...but the doctor informed them about what to do, and the went forth and multiplied, like jackrabbits apparently.

Does the bible not say, "Go forth and multiply"? That cannot happen without some degree of lust!

The bible is not a set of rules to live your pathetic, sad life by...they're guidelines for good living! Follow them IF IT IS PRACTICAL!

You're so self-absorbed...look at yourself in a mirror once or twice, and say, "I can be a catholic, and a teenager at the same time...lusting is NOT a sin! IT IS NATURAL!"

actually it is...

in fact one of the big 7...
Sloth, Lust. Gluttony, Anger, Envy, Greed, Pride.

see ya in hell with the rest of the party

 

[JDub02]

Originally posted by: Perknose


HELLLOOOOO, NEWMAN. :disgust:

Hello, Jerry. :evil:

 

[JDub02]

can't you people just let this die?

 

[Stark]

LOL

i just read the replies to the same thread over at the "Christian Forums" site. Boy, this sure is a tough crowd at ATOT.