Friend says she was sexually harassed and I get in trouble?

[T_Yamamoto]

She needs to chill the fuck out

 

[K1052]

The fortress of emotion cannot be stormed with the paltry weapons of logic and reason.

I would have just ignored the whole thing and saved myself the trouble.

 

[Zap]

If she felt the behavior was actionable she should contact the proper authorities, not scream at her roommate.

If she felt that the guy's behavior was harassment then press charges. Don't cry and demand the pity of others.

:thumbsup:

If it was that serious, she needs to do something about it. And "something" doesn't mean feeding off her roommate's emotions.

Drama and Male Heroism

While you may not believe it, there are a certain subsegment of women that love drama. And when I say “subsegment” I mean about 65%. They love it more than you, they love it more than chocolate, they love it more than pretty much anything else, including themselves. And nothing drums up drama more than sending out the distress call where the “damsel in distress” is violated by an evil, unnamed antagonist male. And when the distress signal goes out said girls’ boyfriends, love interests, beta-schlub friends or plain old male-bystanders all unconsciously rise to defend her, when in reality they’re doing nothing more than playing into her game.

What game, you ask?

To feed her voracious appetite for attention.

The fortress of emotion cannot be stormed with the paltry weapons of logic and reason.

Haha, nice one-liner.

 

[DCal430]

He is lucky she doesn't press charges, that is assault, and molestation.

 

[Sonikku]

What in the hell is the world coming to when you can't lay one down on a woman?

How the hell do they expect us to court one?

 

[0roo0roo]

probably took one too many womens studies courses 😛

i'm sure in her mind somehow an ass slap = rape culture.

 

[LumbergTech]

I agree with the girl. Don't touch people who haven't invited you to.

 

[Ns1]

probably took one too many womens studies courses 😛

i'm sure in her mind somehow an ass slap = rape culture.

ass slap = unwanted sexual advance = definition of sexual harrassment

 

[SolMiester]

She probably enjoyed it, after all, she went back for a hug?.....she cant of been that put out with him!

 

[Ronstang]

It's only sexual harassment when the woman is not attracted to the guy.

 

[0roo0roo]

ass slap = unwanted sexual advance = definition of sexual harrassment

it depends, and the reaction depends, many things that go down between friends is inappropriate in the work place. maybe he wasn't smooth enough to pull it off or whatever or the situation wasn't right, but doesn't make her excessive reaction any more right. sometimes you have to forgive small things and not be a dick yourself.

 

[SaDiZTiKStyLeZ]

I was suspended a few times for my appreciation of big butts all through K-12. Even in trouble a few times for playing "doctor" in preschool.

Now I'm stupid paranoid about catching some law trouble. So I usually keep my space.
However, when going into a packed strip club with booty everywhere, I be copping a feel all damn night. Not like hot drunk chicks can tell if it was me, or the other 15 thirsty guys she's surrounded by that look like they're about to rape them.

 

[SaDiZTiKStyLeZ]