3,000 rpm's is just not enough! (At least for a rice-burner)
I drive a manual 98 Honda Civic EX V-Tec and the only time that I would shift at a 3,000 rpm would be in a neighborhood. In first gear I normally shift between 5,000 and 6,000. In second probably between 4,500 and 5,500. Third probably the same as second. Fith gear for me is only for highway driving, or conserving gas.
Readline is around 7,000 and V-tec cam doesn't switch over until around 4,500.
3,000 rpm's would be fine in my previous car, a manual 87 IROC Z-28 305. The redline in that car was around 5,000.
BTW I have had NO problems shifting around 5,500 or 6,000 rpms and have had my Civic for around 5 years now. It has never required service that was not routine. On the other hand, my IROC that I shifted at 3,000 broke at least once a month (granted it was used).
The only way I can live from going from a 5.0L V-8 to a 1.6L I4 is to make sure that I DO IN FACT ENSURE that I shift after I hit the second set of camshaft lobes (v-tec) on my current car.
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For the record........ I do NOT have a fart-pipe, a wing, or Type R stickers!