It's a completely subjective argument that it "fucks you up" as much as the actual flu.  Odds are, even if you had an adverse reaction to the vaccination, the actual flu would be far worse (for you).  There is nothing that the vaccination does that the flu virus doesn't, and as you already mentioned, the actual virus is replicating while the vaccine is not.
		
		
	 
Nope.  I've had confirmed influenza, tested, etc.  What I get with the vaccine is just as bad if not worse.  My mom was a doctor, had to give me IV fluids, cool my body down, muscle aches so bad I couldn't get out of bed, really high fever, etc  Each time (not every mind you, but most) I got the vaccine.
I'll take the real bug (had it confirmed at least twice a long time ago), it was NOTHING like what I went through with the vaccine.  It took a few years for us to realize what was causing it, it was the shot.  No shot = zero flu or flu like symptoms since I/she figured out the connection some 17+ years ago.  The last time I had the symptoms from the vaccine she called an ambulance because of my fever of 103.  Not going to take that shit ever again.
I trust my immune system.  I don't trust the shot.  Eitherway my chances of getting fucked up are MUCH less not taking the vaccine.
I know none of you guys believe me and think I'm full of shit on this, but it is true and I've never been as sick as I have after getting flu shots.  I'll never take one.