I think I cut down on my homescreen redraw issues. I have ProLauncher installed, and sure enough, even after a fresh ROM and messing with the Launcher settings, it started to redraw. So I cut out some widgets, and cut it down to 3 homescreens instead of 5 or 7. I made use of the swiping icons on the bottom. I tried PureMessenger. On top of PureCalendar, the RAM had hard time swapping resources. So uninstalled it for a refund. Ashame, because it was cool. The FB and Twitter widgets combined don't take the resources PureMessenger did.
I love my Droid, but this device is older, and the only thing that makes it show it's age is the small amount of memory.