Final proof that I'm a clueless geek who has no life...

[Viper GTS]

There's this girl in HR that I've been admiring for some time now. Of course being me I just walk by, I'm not really one for conversation.

Yesterday, out of nowhere, as I'm walking by, she says "Hi!" I was kinda shocked, said hi, & kept walking. Then she did it again. :Q Came into work today, sure enough. Same thing. Three times so far today. Just now she actually called me over, asked my name, etc. I asked her if she said hi to everyone, or just me. "I say hi to everyone, but you always look so happy that I thought I'd brighten your day a little." All I could say was "Thank you."

WTF is my problem? An attractive female is going out of her way to talk to me, & I'm at a total loss for words.

:|

Viper GTS <-- Is a clueless geek.

 

[Platypus]

Love hurts....

 

[TheSassyHeifer]

<giggle> that's cute!

 

[thereds]

Man! Someone needs to teach this guy some technique.

 

[Superdoopercooper]

Viper... dunno what to tell you... cause I woulda done the same thing. I was a chump with the ladies back in High School... and I got married right after college so I can't say how i'd react if that were to happen to me now.

It'll happen if it was meant to be.

 

[Siva]

saying &quot;Hi&quot; is a start, I'm lost beyond that.

 

[Yeeny]

Aww, thats adorable! I love men who are shy, its just so cute!

 

[jorken]

Yeah, we didn't really need proof but thanks for the confirmation anyway

 

[Bakwetu]

I hear ya' This has happened to me to
Now, does she say hi to you because she thinks you're such a miserable creature that she pity you, or is she interested?

 

[Optimus]

<< but you always look so happy that I thought I'd brighten your day a little >>


Do you mean to say she said you &quot;look so unhappy&quot;? 'Cause thats the very first thing Elita noticed about me she says - that I looked unhappy and she wanted to cheer me up and make me smile...

 

[thereds]

<< Aww, thats adorable! I love men who are shy, its just so cute! >>



I guess its cute and all but how does a shy guy ever get a girl he wants if he's shy. This is a question that is asked by shy guys all over the world.

 

[Viper GTS]

Now, does she say hi to you because she thinks you're such a miserable creature that she pity you, or is she interested?

I rather suspect the former.



Viper GTS

 

[thereds]

bah! It can't be that bad Viper.

 

[Yeeny]

I myself find men that are shy so much sexier then a man who is too confident. And Viper, speaking for myself, I suspect that maybe there is a reason she wants to make you smile, and its not pity.

 

[Deicide]

I'm a shy guy, but I got my gf by growing a pair and asking her out, it wasn't too tough.

 

[thereds]

<< I'm a shy guy, but I got my gf by growing a pair and asking her out, it wasn't too tough. >>



Man, good for you!! It's hard to grow a pair and some hair to ask a girl out. Rejection is a bitch! But nothing is lost or even gained if one doesn't try.

 

[ArkAoss]

GooooooooooooooooooOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOooooooooooooooOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooOOOOOOOOOOOoOOoOOAAAAAAAAAal!!!
go viper!! go for her, man!!

 

[Electric Amish]

You're not alone. I'd have done the EXACT same thing.


<< Aww, thats adorable! I love men who are shy, its just so cute! >>


Hey, I'm your man.

amish

 

[thereds]

I think I speak for all when I say: Viper, it's time to bootay.

 

[happykitten]

It's perfectly normal to be a little nervous... you mentioned she kept coming over, so she probably found your shyness sweet and endearing. I've been attracted to a few shy guys in the past, and found it fun making the first few moves... but, if I didn't get a response, I'd move on. Try and initiate more of a conversation with her next time, or she may give up. >O.O<

 

[rlism]

Haha, u didn't do so bad, anything brief keeps you outta trouble... just make sure you smile back! A good smile is worth more than any amount of small talk you can come up with.

 

[LAUST]

Yea dude the worst that can ever happen is she says &quot;No&quot; and it's no big deal even if their not interested and you get that answer a lot of the times they find it cute and are flattered.

But if she wants to see you smile that means something positive

 

[Viper GTS]

I might be interested, but there are a few complications:

1) Sarah. 'Nuff said.
2) I'm 18... I'd guess her to be low 20's.
3) From snippets of conversation I've caught as I walked by, I think she has a kid. Not that I mind that, but if she has a kid most likely she isn't looking for another one (me).

What's really funny is she is making me smile. It takes a lot to do that. Even to the point that people I work with noticed. Just seconds after one of her greetings, one of my coworkers came by the other direction: &quot;Stop smiling, you work at (company)!&quot;

I guess it's just kinda nice getting the attention.



Viper GTS

 

[tigerwannabe]

nah, you're just shy like me get brave, dude &amp; ask her to lunch! if you read my hugs thread, you'll see that being up front is how i started hugging on cute girls. by the way, i have plans in the works to hug this REALLY cute girl who works upstairs

 

[Static911]

go get her tiger

best of luck

i'm still praying for a miracle wit the girl i like

static911