some men play mind games, but they are amateurs and no good by comparison to some women. some girls are masters of the mind game.
Its like they are x-men or something, there is nothing a girl loves more than a guy having a crush on her, and although she doesnt like him back, she will go out of her way to lead him on so that he keeps obsessing over her.
Mind games are not only people leading you on, they can be many different kinds. And just because you have only dealt with the female side of this coin, don't throw off the male talents at these games so easily. Trust me, I know.
since we are on the topic, about dinners and females. throughout my now 11 month relationship with my girlfriend, i have paid entirely for more than half our meals out together, another 40% we split, and maybe 10% she entirely pays for. It seems like her paying for 1/10 dinners makes her think she is financially off the hook in terms of the relationship. she is the one making all the money yet I am the one who has been paying for nearly everything, girls love to get guys in the money rut and keep em spending. it seems everytime she pays for something, i am supposed to feel a little guilt.
WTH, I'll respond anyway. No, 90% of guys wouldn't tell the same sob story. Maybe 90% of YOUNG guys would. But, you should arrive at a point in your life when the pursuit of poontang is less important than the enjoyment of many other, more worthy goals.