Originally posted by: gigapet
Originally posted by: LolaWiz
Originally posted by: ValkyrieofHouston
There is an art to being sexually empowered. There is a fine line between sexual prowess/ sexy and raunchy/lewd... a kind of attractiveness that draws the attention of others. I would rather see girls/women learn this and learn how to command respect and use their sexual power in a more positive way. I have nothing against girls or women having sex, nothing against wearing sexy clothes, it is the raunch factor, the whole attitude... the "Girls Gone Wild" stuff that I am seeing becoming more and more prevalent. Just because I was an escort for many years does not mean I conducted myself in those ways. Nor any of the ladies in the biz that I knew. I worry that alot of these college campus crimes, and kidnappings killings and such... even the Spring Break crimes are a symptom of some of the attitudes and actions as pointed out in the article I posted.
you are correct in thinking this.
There is a happy medium with everything and things go wrong when there is too much of an extreme on one end or another of the spectrum.
So, my question to you OP, is how do women/girls get that sexual prowess/sexiness that is of the "classy" kind and does not fall into the raunch that is so previlent?
(please don't think i am being a smart ass asking this. I honestly would like to know)
if you are going to show off your boobs you don't need a super mini skirt at the same time.
dont walk around with your thong hiked up outta your pants
dont engage in sexual activity in public places(unless you are doing so for thrills with a monogamous partner)
Don't Kiss n Tell
Flirt openly but you don't need to start giving a BJ on the dancefloor and talk like a penthouse letter
Don't be timid or shy
be confident
be out going
don't be self conscious.....at least when we are around
Don't bang an entire circle of friends and not expect rumors of you being a hoe to start.
i dunno i suppose there are mroe but that should get you off in the right direction