Explicit photo of Ex-GF on internet...hahaha! (title changed)

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AnimeKnight

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I think you should let her know about the picture... let her be aware of the fact that she had be hidden cammed..
 

Aquaman

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Holy Cow............... that's pretty wreaked.......... I feel sorry for her :(

Cheers,
Aquaman
 

Zebo

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Originally posted by: YugandharAilshire
You may not be doing anyone harm, but you sure are allowing a high probability of harm to continue.

Not that you have any legal duty to stop the harm from occuring. Just like an Olympic level swimmer has no duty to save a drowning person.

But I'd say most people's ethics would force them to "butt in" to a situation where they thought an illegal act was being perpetrated against an acquaintance.

Dude relax.. No wonder U can't get a wt woman. You're fullfilling all thier sterotypes about Indians. Too caussos, too prudent, too lawful IE too damn geeky. Re-read my last post and you'll see what I eman.
 

mztykal

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Just post the keywords you used or a link. So we can judge whether or not she deserves someone to tell her she's got naked pics online. :)
 

tcsenter

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I think I need to clarify something. When I wrote:
I still couldn't bring myself to tell her, though, I can imagine that its an extremely embarrassing thing and I just couldn't do that to her.
I did NOT mean that I couldn't bring myself to tell her that pictures of her were on the internet. What I meant was, I could NOT bring myself to confess to her that I knew about her pictures on the internet. There is no doubt in my mind that SHE KNOWS about it.

Hopefully that clears up a little confusion.
 

Geekbabe

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Lets see, woman possibly has photo of her her lovely self posted on the web

Ex-boyfriend surfing porn sites finds pic and spends ooodles of time in photoshop examing said pic


Which is funnier ?
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tcsenter

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Lets see, woman possibly has photo of her her lovely self posted on the web

Ex-boyfriend surfing porn sites finds pic and spends ooodles of time in photoshop examing said pic
haha! Well, I don't know about you, but I don't know many people who have explicit sexual photos on the internet. I mean, this girl is not a stripper or exhibitionist, nor do I know any strippers or exhibitionists (at least in any capacity other than a patron of strip clubs a few times), so I was resistant to the idea that it WAS her...until I could no longer deny that it was her.

You may see people you know all the time - nude and having sex - on the internet so its but of casual interest for you. ;-)

Me, I'm stunned. Well I was, not any more.
 
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Assuming that tscenter isn't psycho enough to have taken the photo, I think he is fully justified in finding humor and irony in the situation.

very unusual set of circumstances.....
 

AU Tiger

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You mentioned 'actors' in a previous post referring to the photo. This mean she was taking on multiple guys? Did she look drunk or is she known to drink? Would be sad if she had been taken advantage of and didn't know about the picture.
 

Yeeny

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Originally posted by: tcsenter
I don't understand. Why is this a laughing matter?
Well, because there is a little history between us and its fair to say I got shafted in the deal. So this satisfies that little inkling of grudge that I've had..

I just read this thread, and all I have to say is wtf? You know someone you at least used to care about, and I would hope still do somewhat since you still talk to her is being taking advantage of, and is possibly in danger from someone breaking into her house and taping her, and you laugh about it, because it "satisfies" your poor little hurt feelings? No wonder she left your ass, sounds like she was a smart one and got out before it was too late. I hope someone gets a pic of you on the net nude, with shrinkage, and your exes all find it and have a good laugh. And I hope when they do, they DO share it with everyone. :disgust:
 

Yeeny

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You must have skipped over some posts, try going back and reading. There was no hidden video, there was no break-in. Her behavior strongly suggests she was just 'paranoid', because it happened to her once already. Would you not be paranoid if something like that happened to you? Every little bump in the night is going to raise your suspicion.

First off, you say she knows about it, it has happened to her before. But you stated that she would never allow anyone to take a pic of her like that, so how is that possible? Then you said Maybe she got hidden-cammed! Oh that's rich, I thought. in your first post. But now you are saying it wasn't a hidden camera? That now she knows about it? Even though you also said Plus, if you agreed to have a photo taken like that, why would you take it in the dark with a flash on the chance it wouldn't come out? I'm sticking with the grudge holding BF theory who wanted to get back at her in some way. She has a few of those. Maybe I'll get up the nerve to ask her one day. You have gone from hehe, poor her being hidden cammed to nah, she knows about it, no biggie when people ask you why you didn't tell her. That just seems a bit of a switch in stories to me.
 

Fritzo

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Yeah...I noticed that too. How can there be a flash on a hidden camera? I think he's obsessed with his ex girlfriend and made up a story about what he WISH would happen.
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Que-TiP

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you should just post the pic....its no big deal.

p.s. if i found a neked picture of my ex on a pr0n site, i would e-mail it to her and ask her if this is her. Its fun. You should do it too.
 

aphex

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I found porn once that looks EXACTALLY like my friends parents... I havent felt so nausious in my life, because i wouldnt put it past them to do that kinda thing... :(
 

Gaard

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Just tell everyone that you e-mailed her about the pic and that'll get 'em all off your back. ;)
 

tm37

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Originally posted by: Que-TiP
you should just post the pic....its no big deal.

p.s. if i found a neked picture of my ex on a pr0n site, i would e-mail it to her and ask her if this is her. Its fun. You should do it too.

Iwould have to agree:D

Funniest thing I have happen in this light is we ran into a freinds EX Stripping at Dirty Dans at a mutual freinds batchlor party:Q He wasn't there so we all paid to get lap dances, Talk about a very "forced" dance she looked like she wanted to hide under the rug:D. Wouldn't have been so funny but none of us liked her when she was dating our freind so we took the opportunity to embaress her:D
 

radiocore

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Maybe she called you thinking that it was you that set up the cam and posted the pics on the net to get back at her?
 

Yeeny

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Originally posted by: tcsenter
First off, you say she knows about it, it has happened to her before.
Yeeks! I'm starting to become embarrassed for you. Do you have this much trouble comprehending everything you read? What I wrote was:
"...its possible she agreed to the photo, having been convinced it would remain private, but I find it extremely unlikely."
Did you see? Let's dissect that statement. It is "possible" she agreed to the photo, but I find it extremely "unlikely". I just realized I cannot dissect that statement any further because it is already so elementary and clear a 5 year-old could understand it. What's your excuse?

The other half of your statement attempts to conflate two different statements I made. I didn't state "it has happened before", what I wrote was:
"Her behavior strongly suggests she was just 'paranoid', because it happened to her once already."
The behavior I'm referring to is her 'paranoia' that someone had been in her house, possibly to plant a hidden camera (her words, not mine). This statement was not the result of prodding on my part, she offered it freely and seemingly out of the blue. This may involve quite a bit of risk in asking you to do some thinking, but in your estimation, what is the most likely cause for anyone to admittedly be a bit paranoid that someone may be planting a hidden camera in their home?

I had decided not to even ask about the photo on the slim chance I may be wrong, or on the very likely chance that she was hoping nobody would learn about the photo or recognize her.

In a strange twist of events, I didn't even NEED to ask her about it. Her unsolicited comments to me WRT her paranoia about hidden cameras pretty much says it all. I'm sorry you're just not getting it, I don't know how it could be any more clear!
You have gone from hehe, poor her being hidden cammed to nah, she knows about it, no biggie when people ask you why you didn't tell her. That just seems a bit of a switch in stories to me
I'm sorry to say that, by now, you're particular take on matters doesn't speak favorably of your intellectual prowess. It seems that you're putting a lot more effort into trying to find fault with my statements than trying to understand them.

Try reading with continuity. Avoid attempting to reconcile comments you've taken out of their context with other comments taken out of their context. Things just don't work like that.

Remedial English Class is over. Buh-bye now.

LMAO! You are on an internet bbs all Beavis and Butthead like, "Huh, huh, my ex girlfriend is naked on the net and I saw the pics, I'm cool" and you are insulting my intellect? Grow up fool. ;)