Explicit photo of Ex-GF on internet...hahaha! (title changed)

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tcsenter

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pics????? You can pm me
Sorry, no pm's. On the slightest chance someone here may know me, it wouldn't be too difficult to narrow down the possibilities. I've only had two GF's that I've dated for any length of time. If this comes back to haunt her, I don't want to contribute to that happening.
I don't understand. Why is this a laughing matter?
Well, because there is a little history between us and its fair to say I got shafted in the deal. So this satisfies that little inkling of grudge that I've had.
btw, you are in ca? What city?
Stockton.
haha.. that sucks.. so you really think it was her?
When she said "Yeah...I know" after cautioning her about hidden cameras, it removed all doubt I may have had. I know it is her.
man, once the humor of the situation wore off, I realized how sucky of a situation this is. Are you going to tell her about the cam? Is this sort of thing legal?
As I said, the photo appears to have been taken in the dark, with flash. It's not like those hidden video cams, its a full color photograph. All of the evidence, including our conversation, strongly implies she knows about it.

If you want my sincere opinion, she was probably set up by an old boyfriend who had a score to settle. For some reason, that's how all her relationships end. I attract the crazy ones.
 

ScottyB

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Originally posted by: tcsenter
pics????? You can pm me
Sorry, no pm's. On the slightest chance someone here may know me, it wouldn't be too difficult to narrow down the possibilities. I've only had two GF's that I've dated for any length of time. If this comes back to haunt her, I don't want to contribute to that happening.
I don't understand. Why is this a laughing matter?
Well, because there is a little history between us and its fair to say I got shafted in the deal. So this satisfies that little inkling of grudge that I've had.
btw, you are in ca? What city?
Stockton.
haha.. that sucks.. so you really think it was her?
When she said "Yeah...I know" after cautioning her about hidden cameras, it removed all doubt I may have had. I know it is her.
man, once the humor of the situation wore off, I realized how sucky of a situation this is. Are you going to tell her about the cam? Is this sort of thing legal?
As I said, the photo appears to have been taken in the dark, with flash. It's not like those hidden video cams, its a full color photograph. All of the evidence, including our conversation, strongly implies she knows about it.

If you want my sincere opinion, she was probably set up by an old boyfriend who had a score to settle. For some reason, that's how all her relationships end. I attract the crazy ones.

Pics???? Email me :D
 

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Lifer
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Originally posted by: tcsenter
man, once the humor of the situation wore off, I realized how sucky of a situation this is. Are you going to tell her about the cam? Is this sort of thing legal?
As I said, the photo appears to have been taken in the dark, with flash. It's not like those hidden video cams, its a full color photograph. All of the evidence, including our conversation, strongly implies she knows about it.

If you want my sincere opinion, she was probably set up by an old boyfriend who had a score to settle. For some reason, that's how all her relationships end. I attract the crazy ones.

huh, so you think she's BSing the hidden cam part?

 

tcsenter

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huh, so you think she's BSing the hidden cam part?
It is possible that she agreed to the photograph, and that she was assured it would remain private. I seriously doubt that, though, because she is not the type to allow a photograph to be taken of her in a compromising position. I know her pretty well, and I'm betting she just wouldn't agree to a photo like that unless it was with a husband of 20 years. Certainly not with a boyfriend.

Plus, if you agreed to have a photo taken like that, why would you take it in the dark with a flash on the chance it wouldn't come out? I'm sticking with the grudge holding BF theory who wanted to get back at her in some way. She has a few of those. Maybe I'll get up the nerve to ask her one day.
 
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sounds like the day I found a pic of a armenian/persian ex classmate from a few sems back nude on some site..
I dont know if its really her but it sure looks like her.
 

tcsenter

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eh she probably got paid
haha, you know? I wouldn't put it passed her, the wench. She freaked out about a swimsuit calender I had, I mean she ripped it off the wall and went on about it being the same as cheating on her, because I had a swimsuit calender! Crazy broad.
 

Zebo

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Originally posted by: tcsenter
eh she probably got paid
haha, you know? I wouldn't put it passed her, the wench. She freaked out about a swimsuit calender I had, I mean she ripped it off the wall and went on about it being the same as cheating on her, because I had a swimsuit calender! Crazy broad.

You still love her...Common tel the truth;)
 
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What an intertesting ethical structure you have.

Your find humor in leaving an acquaintance of yours in a very dangerous sitaution. You aren't sure that she knows of any hidden cams
in her house other than a "cynical toned" statement she made.

It is highly probable that an illegal act is being committed against her on a daily basis without her knowledge.

Yet you refuse to share the picture for "ethical" reasons.


 

Zebo

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Originally posted by: YugandharAilshire
What an intertesting ethical structure you have.

Your find humor in leaving an acquaintance of yours in a very dangerous sitaution.

It is highly probable that an illegal act is being committed against her on a daily basis without her knowledge.

Yet you refuse to share the picture for "ethical" reasons.

That's his revenge for her leaving him, but if he posted the pics and she found out he would loose all chances of reconsiliation with her:)
 

tcsenter

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What an intertesting ethical structure you have. Your find humor in leaving an acquaintance of yours in a very dangerous sitaution. It is highly probable that an illegal act is being committed against her on a daily basis without her knowledge. Yet you refuse to share the picture for "ethical" reasons
You don't comprehend english very well, its all in my post, go back and read.

And my ethics are quite standard - do no harm. I'm not the one who publicized these pics and I'm not going to contribute to publicizing them further.
 
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Originally posted by: tcsenter
You don't comprehend english very well, its all in my post, go back and read.

And my ethics are quite standard - do no harm. I'm not the one who publicized these pics and I'm not going to contribute to publicizing them further.



What exactly did I fail to comprehend?

1. You found hidden cam pics on the Internet of girl you strongly believe to be you ex.
2. Your ex calls you telling you that she found weird things around her house (open window, dirt tracks)
3. Your ex scours the house looking for a hidden cam. She does not tell you whether she found anything or not.
4. Your ex says, in a "cynical tone" whatever that means, that she is aware of people using hidden cams.
5. You never asked her is she indeed found any hidden cams.
6. You find humor in all of the above.
7. For all anyone knows, there may still be a well placed hidden cam taping her.

What did I miss something? You tell me since English is not my first language.

Like I said, you ethical structure is quite interesting. Similar to a common criminal whose ethics prevent him from jay walking.

 
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You may not be doing anyone harm, but you sure are allowing a high probability of harm to continue.

Not that you have any legal duty to stop the harm from occuring. Just like an Olympic level swimmer has no duty to save a drowning person.

But I'd say most people's ethics would force them to "butt in" to a situation where they thought an illegal act was being perpetrated against an acquaintance.