EX GF: acting weird

[damocles]

<< You're a bastard :disgust: >>



Don't expect too much sympathy if she goes 'Lorena Bobbitt' on you

 

[phatcow]

go for the friends with benefits thing...

definitely...


just make sure she doesent get too emotional....

 

[TuffGirl]

Keystroker, I saw your other threads about this girl...

link ... and

link


This girl is really bad news. I would go as far to say she is a psycho. Stay far away even if you're tempted to use her, just don't.


For further guidance, Ask Tiny

 

[MooseKnuckle]

Grow Up

 

[Azraele]

<< All I can say is that I can't wait until someones parents aren't home to have some fun with the ex. >>





<< i agree. quit using her >>





<< sh1t, i'm not holding a gun to her head. how can you use someone? its her fault! >>



How is it her fault? There's responisbility to be taken here, and it sounds to me like you're trying to rationalize it away. She's emotionally vulnerable right now, and if you "have some fun with the ex," you'll be taking advantage of that state. It's not fair to her and I think deep down you know it, because she's thinking with her heart and not her head right now. If she's ever going to get over you, you need to do the smrt thing and not lead her on.

 

[kranky]

So you talk on the phone a lot, get together, have sex, buy presents and go out on her birthday. How is that different from when you were "together"?

Guess what: you're still dating.

 

[TuffGirl]

<< <<sh1t, i'm not holding a gun to her head. how can you use someone? its her fault!>>

How is it her fault? There's responisbility to be taken here, and it sounds to me like you're trying to rationalize it away. She's emotionally vulnerable right now, and if you "have some fun with the ex," you'll be taking advantage of that state. It's not fair to her and I think deep down you know it, because she's thinking with her heart and not her head right now. If she's ever going to get over you, you need to do the smrt thing and not lead her on. >>


Hey Az, this earlier thread about his gf will reveal what he's talking about. His gf is not just an emotionally vulnerable victim. She's done some crappy things too. Check it out and you'll see what I mean. I'm not saying she deserves to be used, just pointing out that he's not as much of a bastard as he appears going by this one thread.

 

[WhiteKnight]

Seriously, dude, I read the other post and you have just cause to be upset and everything, but really. It doesn't sound like you can just go back to being friends with benefits when obviously she wants more. Don't be a punk.

 

[digme]

i'm one bitter mofo,

so here's my advice,

use the shiaites out of her, - all the benefits- what i would do if i were in your situation, get a BallJ ack every other day, some cooking, like esp. chocalate chip cookies, apple pie, etc. - also make sure u get a good u know what i mean! Dude, u know how many men, i didn't say boyz now, men would love to be in your position?

 

[Azraele]

klee58: Thanks for pointing that out. Perhaps when I said emotionally vulnerable, I should have included a bit unstable (is that the word I'm looking for?) as well. From reading that thread you provided, she has some trust issues and was quite nasty as a result. While I still think he'd be using her if he "had some fun with the ex" she herself is not entirely innocent either.

 

[tallest1]

<< i'm one bitter mofo,

so here's my advice,

use the shiaites out of her, - all the benefits- what i would do if i were in your situation, get a BallJ ack every other day, some cooking, like esp. chocalate chip cookies, apple pie, etc. - also make sure u get a good u know what i mean! Dude, u know how many men, i didn't say boyz now, men would love to be in your position? >>

ROFL!
:Q <---- /me thinks "WTF am I doing?!" & hides

 

[SCSIfreek]

don't get her too emotional man, if she's a psycho beware!!!! one day you might end up dead in a fridge!!! If you wanted to breakup cut that V.C. and sex crap!!! you'll be sorry one way or the other.

Never play around with others emotions

Grow up

agreed!


--SCSI

 

[gregshin]

to all you sensitive feminine guys out there ya'll can get the middle finger!

 

[Zenmervolt]

<< i'm one bitter mofo,

so here's my advice,

use the shiaites out of her, - all the benefits- what i would do if i were in your situation, get a BallJ ack every other day, some cooking, like esp. chocalate chip cookies, apple pie, etc. - also make sure u get a good u know what i mean! Dude, u know how many men, i didn't say boyz now, men would love to be in your position? >>



There is such a thing as life above the neck you know.

ZV

 

[dethman]

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<< You're a bastard :disgust: >>

>>

 

[FatMan42]

My 2-pence: choice - be with her, or don't be with her. None if this half-@$$'d "friends with benefits" cr@p. That's still being with her. Make a decision and stick to it.

 

[pulse8]

<< to all you sensitive feminine guys out there ya'll can get the middle finger! >>



If being a sensitive feminine guy is NOT being an asshole, then call me Richard Simmons.

I love it how some guys think that in order to be "macho" or a "real man" they have to be d!cks.