EX GF: acting weird

keystroker

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my god she acted so weird tonight. I broke up with my GF a week from monday. Like I said she didn't take it hard at first. I didn't see/talk to her til saturday. My friend wanted to go to the store she works at to use the ATM, i hesitated at first but deep down I wanted to see her. Well we walk out and I see her in her car on break and i go over to her and we hug, I told her I thought she would call after 4 days but she said she was really scared. I said I wanted to talk to her and she said I'll call you, you call me" We are leaving and she KISSED me on the lips (uncalled for, didn't want/need it). My friend said we didn't look like we broke up.

Later that evening I went to six flags theme park with some friends, and she calls me on my cell phone at about 6:30p.m. (i didn't answer it 2 times) because I was with girls. Later on I go to a friend of ours and she calls me at 12:30am. I was letting out some anger and making her feel bad for about an hour. Then I say bye. I found out she called my house at about 8:30pm.

Today she calls me at about 6:30p.m., i was sleeping so i didn't answer my cell phone and she left a message on my cell phone and kept editing it she told me because she didn't want to sound stupid. She called my house afterwards too.Well she wanted to come over (she never comes to my house only once in a while). I thought about it, was thinking to say no just to piss her off. But I said yes. She came over we talked about jibberish. I kicked her out :). When she was leaving we did the kiss but she went for my lips and i went for her cheek. she said "I'll see you tomarrow, *stutter* i mean another time." Ouch, I just smiled. Now that I think about it, its kinda sad because she used to say that every day when we were together. All I can say is that I can't wait until someones parents aren't home to have some fun with the ex.
 

pillage2001

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<< also her b-day is thursday and i'm going to get her $50 GC to victoria's secret. >>



What's with this?? You wanna see her in some sexy lingerie still??? :Q
I thought you guys had just broke up?
 

keystroker

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She wanted it before we broke up.
Friend suggested it.
It seems like a good idea, and it will show her i have feeling for her in that way :).
 

pillage2001

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<< well we agreed to go back to friends with benefits like the old days. >>



WAIt a minute.....explain benefits? ?Sex?? :) Were you the guy that panned a break up after her 18th b'day or something? I'm too lazy to reread the whole thread. :D If I'm wrong. Ignore the line before this. Explain benefits. :D
 

keystroker

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yes the 18th birthday. She said shes not doing anything for her b-day i feel bad :(, like I'm obligated to take her somewhere.
 

pillage2001

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Friends with the benefit of Sex?? Dude, what if you get another GF?? Are you guys gonna have a threesome??
 

Juniper

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Shes probably having high hopes, and you're going to break her heart. Gosh, I'm totally against that, but hey, its not my life. Anyway, just my 2 cents, if now shes acting like that, how will she act when you dump her for real?
 

pillage2001

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<< sh1t, i'm not holding a gun to her head. how can you use someone? its her fault! >>



What do you mean it's her fault?? Is she looking for a guy just to have the pleasure of having sex?? Man, what kind of girl is she? No offence dude, let her go.
 

minendo

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<< sh1t, i'm not holding a gun to her head. how can you use someone? its her fault! >>


sorry but i dont believe in the whole friends and sex thing. im commited to my current girlfriend and thats it. i just believe that sex is to be with someone you love and are with not an ex girlfriend cause you can get some or she wants it
 

geekybear

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no, that's your fault. when you break up with someone, that should mean that as far as romance goes, it's over. you do not break up with someone and then expect sex without them thinking that you still want to be with them. and what's all the crap about the VC gift certificate? like that's not sending signals. i'm sure stringing this girl along is doing wonders for your overinflated ego. and all that crap about being obligated to do something for her b-day-you're just an @$$!
 

keystroker

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it kinda pisses me off that she really is starting to like me more when i'm not available to her as i was before, woman.
 

bigalt

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dude if you have sex within 24 hours of a breakup its not really a breakup (re: the breakup sex was good)

and it takes a long time before you can re-establish a friends-with-benefits relationship after a boyfriend-girlfriend one. Take it from me; two valentine's days ago, I got a package of candy and cookies mixed with broken glass.
 

777php

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The way you explain it gives us reason that you don't respect her as a person. I'm not saying that you do not but it just sounds that way. I also wouldn't feel comfortable with the whole sex with friends concept. I think that for women sex means a whole lot more to them than it does to us.
 

tantos

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All I can say is that I can't wait until someones parents aren't home to have some fun with the ex

This alone will haunt you one day...