Ever have dreams about your ex's?

spaceman

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ugh, had a dream about my ex last night, nothing extraordinary,no grocery store romance bs either....
does anyone here ever have dreams about their ex's? do you have any feelings of guilt about having those dreams.
(i have a current gf,i almost feel as if i half betrayed her)
 

Shockwave

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Yes, I have dreams of my ex's.

My head is fvcked though, so I expect it. Nothing like being insane to make your days interesting :frown:
 

spaceman

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Originally posted by: Shockwave
Yes, I have dreams of my ex's.

My head is fvcked though, so I expect it. Nothing like being insane to make your days interesting :frown:

did you hook up with them in your dreams?:confused:
 

Gurck

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Really shouldn't feel guilty... but depending on the mood of the dream (i.e were you happy to be with your ex in the dream?), it could be an indication that something's amiss. Or it could just be a wacky dream with no real meaning at all :)
 

Ikonomi

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Yes, unfortunately I do, and they always follow one of two themes: Either we get back together, or they do something mean to me.

Both types really bother me. I don't know why I have them, and it doesn't seem healthy. Thank goodness it's only an occassional thing now.
 

Gravity

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it's a dream. Nothing more. Don't share it with your current or reap the consequences.
 

spaceman

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Originally posted by: Gurck
Really shouldn't feel guilty... but depending on the mood of the dream (i.e were you happy to be with your ex in the dream?), it could be an indication that something's amiss. Or it could just be a wacky dream with no real meaning at all :)

it was nice to "see" her again as i havent in years.
 

Shockwave

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Originally posted by: ncircle
Originally posted by: Shockwave
Yes, I have dreams of my ex's.

My head is fvcked though, so I expect it. Nothing like being insane to make your days interesting :frown:

did you hook up with them in your dreams?:confused:

And then some ;)

I've only loved 2 women in my life. The one I married, and the other I just dream about on occasion. I suppose I'm lucky to feel this way about 2 women, when some never get the chance to love one. But, it sure fvcks with my head sometimes. :frown:
 

kami333

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Originally posted by: tweakmm
Yes I have and as saxguy said it is rather confusing when you wake up.

I get very moody whenever I have those dreams. Usually along the lines of seeing her on the street or store, stopping to talk, hanging out, then something comes up and I don't get her number so I never see her again.
 

KarenMarie

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If I dream about my ex husband, it is no big deal. We are still very close friends, and have a healthy relationship. When I do dream about him, it is usually just that my daughter is in my dream and he is an extention of that. My current b/f has no problem with that, if I tell him.

If I dream of an ex b/f, it is not ever in a ... we are together... situation, but it is weird none-the-less.

:)
 

NTB

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I just *don't* dream. Not that I know of or can remember. Is this weird? I don't even remember the last time I dreamt something...much less what it was about. Must've beeen when I was little; I know it's been quite a while.

Nate
 

pulse8

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I had a dream about my ex from 4 years ago. It was a weird dream and we were hooking up. Didn't think much of it the next day or since, but it was a little weird.
 

brigden

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Originally posted by: NTB
I just *don't* dream. Not that I know of or can remember. Is this weird? I don't even remember the last time I dreamt something...much less what it was about. Must've beeen when I was little; I know it's been quite a while.

Nate

You poor bastard. I love dreaming. So much so that I often try to implant a theme into my dreams just before I drift off. Sometimes works, sometimes doesn't. I've even found I have the ability to control certain aspects of my dreams.