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Ever been "Hit on" by a member of YOUR sex?

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I get hit on by guys all the freaking time. It sucks. They're very up front.

I don't really MIND if the guy comes up and asks me out or something. I just say that I'm not interested, and they say okay, sorry, and leave. I'm fine with that.

Then there have been a few arseholes who just don't take no for an answer. I don't like them very much.
 
Originally posted by: kb315
Originally posted by: ChefJoe
Eh, used to happen a lot more frequently... back when I was 16-20 and working as a cook. You learn to take it in stride. Sadly, I think it also happened this past weekend when visiting Ohio State University's Grad program... fellow invite was talking with me about joining the program, ordered a white wine, then asked for somewhere "more quiet to talk." I'm not sure how out of it he was at the time though, guy ended up asleep with his head on the bar not a half hour later.
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OSU, tsk tsk tsk

/obligatory OSU sucks input fulfilled/
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Oh, don't worry, I've also been accepted into UMich's program. I'll be visiting in March.
 
i've been hit on by gays. it didn't change my views on them, which are basically that i could care less what they do, and although i'll turn down their offers, it doesn't bother me to be hit on by them. it's flattering if anything.
 
All the time, when I was in Italy, I used to get free drinks from guys... and my friends use to laugh at me. (I was in the Marines at the time). Not any more though (I missed the free drinks)
 
Of course I have, I live in Seattle!

It didn't really change my views on gay people all that much, though it did make me reappraise my possible attractiveness to other people. "Hey, I'm not all THAT ugly!"
 
Originally posted by: Atrail
Originally posted by: Dr Smooth
Anybody remember that thread where some guy got hit on and he called the cops?
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haha are you serious? thats funny

Yes I have.
Didn't change my view.
Made me feel uncomfortable.
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IIRC, some guy complimented ATOT member on his highlighted hair and then asked him if he wanted to do something. The ATOT member justified calling the cops by saying that children lived in the neighborhood or something.
 
Originally posted by: cr4zymofo
All the time, when I was in Italy, I used to get free drinks from guys... and my friends use to laugh at me. (I was in the Marines at the time). Not any more though (I missed the free drinks)
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That's when I got hit on most of the time as well, when I was in the Marines. Although it was in So Cal in the 70's.

But to be fair, I must admit I WAS cute!! 😉 I also had a MAJOR baby face. I looked about 10 years younger than I was. Well, maybe not 10 years, that would make me look about 8 😕 Damn pedophiles. 😉
 
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
No but then I don't look like a Sodomite
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And I suppose I do?

(damn kids!) 😉
 
Yeap and it annoyed the hell out of me!!!

It was like a year ago, and I had a job at a clothing/watch store called Fossil. These two guys came in and wanted to look some watches. I was near the T-Shirt wall refolding the t-shirts and this chubby dude with a pig like face, kept staring at me. He did that tongue motion where the tip of you tongue is touching your upper lip. It was so gross and all I kept thinking to myself was, holy crap, a dude is annoying the crap out of me and all I wanna do is punch him. But hey, I'm a nice guy. Have a shady day!!!
 
Hehe,

i remeber the time my wife (then GF) sic'd one of her friends (a guy) on me. I didn't know who he was, but he was... charming I guess... It was rather bewildering having this guy hit on me, and I couldn't help but chuckle... Of course, he couldn't keep a straight face (hah, get it... STRAIGHT... I kill me..😛) so i figured something was up... So then I started hitting on him, and you should have seen his face... it was an amusing blend of shock, and horror... Of ocurse, my gf then comes sputtering out from behind a door, and I burst out laughing..

No it didn't change my views... I couldn't care less if someone is gay, so long as they understand that I'm not..
 
yes, at school.
i was in a computer lab one night, and hte lab monitor was walking around monitoring and noticed i was using IRC.
so he messaged me, said hes looking at me. described what i was wearing etc.
freaked me out so i left, came back some other day and i put two and two together, i saw him smiling at his desk when i kept looking around the lab.
he said i dressed gay, i was like wtf, i was wearing a hoodie and jeans.
but he was pretty cool. we were friends for a semester, before he moved.
 
Originally posted by: atom
I used to live in GayTown USA (AKA San Francisco), guess what my answer is...........
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I used to work in Hollywood (West Hollywood is probably the gayest part of Los Angeles, well that and parts of Long Beach) but I don't recall anyone ever expressing interest in me. I think they have what is called "Gaydar" so they only hit on guys that they think might be gay. So, to anyone who has had guys hit on them, you must be gay!!! :light:

ROTFLOL!!! 😀
 
all the time. For example:

- I got invited for an "interview" by a gay tv show producer (he gave me his business card). I left the card at my friend's dad's car 🙂

- was trying out clothes at Gap with two girl friends. The clerk was being really chatty and flirty (it was obvious). The last straw was that he gave me capri pants to try on :Q
 
Originally posted by: dquan97
all the time. For example:

- I got invited for an "interview" by a gay tv show producer (he gave me his business card). I left the card at my friend's dad's car 🙂

- was trying out clothes at Gap with two girl friends. The clerk was being really chatty and flirty (it was obvious). The last straw was that he gave me capri pants to try on :Q
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HAHAHAHAH ROFL this is one of the funniest things i have read here in a long time! capri pants.!!!
 
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