Ever been "Hit on" by a member of YOUR sex?

Brutuskend

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Apr 2, 2001
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If yes, did it change your view on gays?

Myself, I got hit on quite a bit in my younger days. Most of them were OK people once I said I wasn't interested. A very few were NOT.

And NO I never sampled their life style.
 

Spoooon

Lifer
Mar 3, 2000
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Nope. But I live in a place where you better be careful about that sort of thing, lest Bubba the Redneck mess you up.
 

halik

Lifer
Oct 10, 2000
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yes... walking outta the gym wearing a wifebeater.
Initially i was all confused, i wasnt sure if i knew the guy or not. When i got to my car it finally hit me...
 

Voip

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Aug 5, 2003
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Yes, all the time unfortunately. Theres a gay kid at school who is a little more than fond of me. :(

Changed my views quite a bit actually...Now I'm just afraid. :(
 

NFS4

No Lifer
Oct 9, 1999
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Brutuskend, remember that time you grabbed my ass?? I DID NOT find that funny!!:|:|
 

atom

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Oct 18, 1999
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I used to live in GayTown USA (AKA San Francisco), guess what my answer is...........
 

QueHuong

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Nov 21, 2001
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There were flyers at my school that either said "WEAR JEANS ON MONDAY IF YOU ARE GAY" or "WEAR JEANS ON MONDAY IF YOU SUPPORT GAY RIGHTS." I really dont' remember which one. But I've always supported gay rights because being anti-gay is no better than being a racist. But my gay friend asked me if I wore jeans on Monday and I gave an enthusiastic "Yeah!" But afterwards, I thought about it and I wondered if he asked me because he thinks I was gay. If he did, my eager response doesn't make me sound so straight. Later, same guy tickled me - I really don't think he was flirting with me because I was falling asleep when I should have been studying for a test the next day...I just think he was just being goofy. Regardless, I felt uncomfortable as hell. But when he transferred college (Berkeley of all places..hahaha), I still hugged him and consider him my friend.
 

tweakmm

Lifer
May 28, 2001
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Yes I have and I take it as a compliment. I just tell the hitter that I don't swing that way and it's all good.
 

krunchykrome

Lifer
Dec 28, 2003
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Occassionally, some guys will hit on me. Maybe once a month. The worst was on my 21st birthday in December. I was too drunk to remember anything, but my friends took pics.....I might put them up.
 

stev0

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Dec 9, 2001
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i was gasing my truck this summer and a 40ish male hit on me.

it made me want to go to a strip club, get really drunk and puke everywhere just to feel like a guy again.

:D
 

Kelvrick

Lifer
Feb 14, 2001
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I was hit on by one of the opposite sex that looked just like one of my sex though. Does that count?
 

Megatomic

Lifer
Nov 9, 2000
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Yes, once even in front of my wife. :eek: I've never been rude though, I just politely turn them down and go on about life.
 

tnitsuj

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May 22, 2003
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A few times. Back in college I had a 10 minute neither one of us would give up wrestling match in my skivvies in the hallway of my college dorm with about fifty people watching and cheering with a guy I was later told was gay. I am not sure how I felt about that??
 

Schadenfroh

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Mar 8, 2003
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Yes, i ignored him, first time i ever got asked out was by a male flute player at a band clinic i attended
 

mugs

Lifer
Apr 29, 2003
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Twice... don't remember the circumstances of the first one, but the second one called me at work and told me he was at home with a bottle of champagne. A $6 bottle of champagne. It didn't change my views on homosexuals, but I sure as heck avoided that guy.