• We’re currently investigating an issue related to the forum theme and styling that is impacting page layout and visual formatting. The problem has been identified, and we are actively working on a resolution. There is no impact to user data or functionality, this is strictly a front-end display issue. We’ll post an update once the fix has been deployed. Thanks for your patience while we get this sorted.

Ever been "Hit on" by a member of YOUR sex?

B

Brutuskend

Lifer
If yes, did it change your view on gays?

Myself, I got hit on quite a bit in my younger days. Most of them were OK people once I said I wasn't interested. A very few were NOT.

And NO I never sampled their life style.
 
Nope. But I live in a place where you better be careful about that sort of thing, lest Bubba the Redneck mess you up.
 
yes... walking outta the gym wearing a wifebeater.
Initially i was all confused, i wasnt sure if i knew the guy or not. When i got to my car it finally hit me...
 
Yes, all the time unfortunately. Theres a gay kid at school who is a little more than fond of me. 🙁

Changed my views quite a bit actually...Now I'm just afraid. 🙁
 
There were flyers at my school that either said "WEAR JEANS ON MONDAY IF YOU ARE GAY" or "WEAR JEANS ON MONDAY IF YOU SUPPORT GAY RIGHTS." I really dont' remember which one. But I've always supported gay rights because being anti-gay is no better than being a racist. But my gay friend asked me if I wore jeans on Monday and I gave an enthusiastic "Yeah!" But afterwards, I thought about it and I wondered if he asked me because he thinks I was gay. If he did, my eager response doesn't make me sound so straight. Later, same guy tickled me - I really don't think he was flirting with me because I was falling asleep when I should have been studying for a test the next day...I just think he was just being goofy. Regardless, I felt uncomfortable as hell. But when he transferred college (Berkeley of all places..hahaha), I still hugged him and consider him my friend.
 
Occassionally, some guys will hit on me. Maybe once a month. The worst was on my 21st birthday in December. I was too drunk to remember anything, but my friends took pics.....I might put them up.
 
i was gasing my truck this summer and a 40ish male hit on me.

it made me want to go to a strip club, get really drunk and puke everywhere just to feel like a guy again.

😀
 
Yes, once even in front of my wife. 😱 I've never been rude though, I just politely turn them down and go on about life.
 
A few times. Back in college I had a 10 minute neither one of us would give up wrestling match in my skivvies in the hallway of my college dorm with about fifty people watching and cheering with a guy I was later told was gay. I am not sure how I felt about that??
 
Twice... don't remember the circumstances of the first one, but the second one called me at work and told me he was at home with a bottle of champagne. A $6 bottle of champagne. It didn't change my views on homosexuals, but I sure as heck avoided that guy.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

TRENDING THREADS

Back
Top