Remember when taxation and spending debates were about the most efficient way to use government money, to get the most benefit for the smallest amount of spending? Me either, because now it mostly seems to be about pushing some silly emotion based agenda and feeling superior.
Nevermind that the economy of the eastern seaboard might have something to say about who pays for who most of the time. If the government isn't meant to handle stuff like natural disasters, then I really don't know what it should be doing. Last time I checked, "insurance" doesn't cover the power going out or streets becoming impassible or stores being unable to stock food.
But then, your tirade really isn't about practicality or logic, is it?
Who cares about the economy of the eastern seaboard? New York is all bullshit wealth leeching financial markets, New Jersey is like the only state over there on the northern half really contributing much, the southern states just leech and leech off the rest of us with their terrible ass fucking economies where they produce nothing.
IF WE CANNOT AFFORD TO PAY FOR RELIEF, THEN PEOPLE ARE SOL. Sorry, I can only give when I can give, right now I and others can't give so make do or gtfo. Sucks, but so what? Life sucks, life is hard, stop being such bitches.