I know it's fun/easy/popular to hate on social networks right now, but let's have a moment of honesty. There are plenty of legitimate, quality reasons to use one. I'll give you mine.
But, if I don't hate on social networks,... what ELSE will I bash on my hourly Youtube show? Because, that's how extreme my crusade against social networks is. I even follow around Mark Zuckerberg and scream on the top of my lungs at him.
Also, at night,... I carve "Dislike" into my forearms with a rusty knife,....
1. I keep in touch with a lot of former co-workers/friends through daily chit-chat.
2. My fantasy football leagues have groups on facebook for good shit-talking
3. I have a group with close friends/family where we can post funny shit we find on the internet, its a source of entertainment, just like anandtech.
Now, do I agree with the idiots who post "going to work" on their stream or post have naked shots of themselves? No. But just because a ton of dumbasses use social networks for the wrong purpose, doesn't mean there aren't people who have legitimate quality reasons to use it.
Cold medicine is used for legitimate reasons as well.
A few years ago, a bunch of druggies came up with a way to make X out of it (or something, I don't remember exactly). Now, there are rules and regulations on how much and to whom you sell cold medicine to.
Also, meth can be made with ingredients you can buy from any medical supply company. Since the emergence of the drug, there are tighter regulations on who can buy what, when and for why.
Human weakness ruins MANY good things. A good portion of the people on FB (not all) are assholes. Attention seeking assholes (vanity).
Not you. Not people who have reasons just as you have stated. But, the pricks that post pictures of their tied up children. The girl who posts spread eagle shots of herself. The guy who posts pictures of him fingering a passed out girl at a party. And all of these are examples that are in the news, gossip sites and forums.
And, what is the ultimate benefit? You think the Mark Zuckerbergs of social networking did it to ensure you keep in touch with the people you love and enjoy being in your life? Nope - it's to harvest your information, identity and activity,... and sell it.
It doesn't make ANY sense to support and host such a huge success for free - the Marks have to make money. And, people wouldn't really pay for "it" (
but, they seem to be gorging on facebook video game micro transactions,...). But, FB thrives on pretty much the ugly part of humanity - again, vanity.
I agree with you that there are legitimate reasons for you to take part in social networking. So, go ahead and dismiss my ramblings - but, the reality is this;
you are now public. And, you are not free. You are bought and sold by the people who own the social network platform. Further more, you are held accountable by employers, family, friends and strangers on your image.
Your image is clearly clean and legit. But, just as the OP has stated, having being checked on by a prospective employer does make it feel like it's bullshit.
More power to you and whoever has found the good in social networking. And, place aside the being "bought and sold" point - but, you still have to realize that the rotten dirt bags who have done bad things on social network sites, have caused another layer of approval that is now required by prospective employers. Your intentions and actions of doing normal things on social networks now has to be reviewed and approved, because someone posted pictures of their junk on FB at 2am.