Dumped g/friend on The London Experiance

[forumJunkie]

hang her!! better yet by hang her by her nipples!
then kick the other guys arse!
THEN... freak I ran out of ideas but 7 pages seems good enough to me

 

[stant093]

Originally posted by: rezinn
Stay in contact with all her friends if you can, that will make it harder on her.

screw all her friends 😀 😀 she would love that bwahahaha

 

[Abrasive]

Sounds like this man needs a litle Tom Likis 101!

You got owned!

 

[Monkey muppet]

This is it:

She is now completely out of my life:

She came around 5 mins ago to give me the money for the car and to pick up the rest of her stuff. She started crying saying "you don't deserve me, I'm sorry. You'll find someone better".

"umm.....yes that's why I kicked you out, I do deserve better"......."now can I have the money for the car, you know where the door is" and in a sarcastic tone "have a nice life".


On a different note:

My second date, last Wednesday. Damn it....it was a "let's keep up as friends" thing.


Contingency action plan number 2:

Going out on friday night. There is a friend of a friend who needs a place to kip over after the evening. I think I might be a good samaritan and offer my bed

 

[Lighthous]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Thank you, I'm not in the stage yet where I can meet people face-to-face. I don't know what I should be doing, feeling, etc.

Options:

Laugh or I'll cry
Angry - throw stuff around
Chuck her stuff out
Tell her parents (very strict catholic parents - they will kick her arse)
Track down the geezer and chop his balls off.

Track down the geezer and chop his balls off!!!

Seriously, as cool as it would be to see a fellow poster on the 6:00 news, do all of the rest. After that, invite some friends over and have a kick ass LAN party!!!

 

[Monkey muppet]

Latest update:

I've just come back from a night out (drum & bass club with my house mate and his g'friend)

There wasn't the friend of a friend for me to offer my bed too - so it's........

Contingency plan number 3:

This plan I haven't thought too much about; I've a couple of options

1) Put more effort into the first/second date (she has invited me to join her for a kung-fu session or Yoga or a buddist meditation centre) Surly if we can enjoy the same experiances then there might be something there.

2) Contact the ex and see if I can organise some 'brake-up sex' - I don't know if I'm alone on this, but after a major split, I fell horny as hell

3) Spend some time with myself (not with madam palm and her five daughters) and come to the conclusion that instead of activly seeking a 'rebound', I would find someone who would appriciate me for who I am.

4) Stop thinking about what to do, enjoy life as it comes, and stop trying to bump this topic for everyone to see

Seriously, as cool as it would be to see a fellow poster on the 6:00 news, do all of the rest. After that, invite some friends over and have a kick ass LAN party!!!

the funny thing is - as mentioned in previous topics I have to organise a 'stag party' (batchelours evening) where the groom has requested a LAN party for his last day of 'freedom'

 

[SP33Demon]

Thanks, keep us updated monkey!

 

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Thanks, keep us updated monkey!

OK: I've drank a bottrle a red wine before I left, had five beers when I was out at the club, I'm now half way though a second bottle (on my own) thinking that I'll never be able to sleep soundly again because I've spent over 190+ eveings with a naked woman by my side and I don't want to brake that routine.

Unfortunatly for me I havwn't the confidence to go on the pull (as in approaching and getting invloved on first meet) when going out.

I've chicken out and sent my ex a text message (two hours ago - no reply)

 

[Schadenfreude]

Doh! A fumble!

 

[SP33Demon]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: SP33Demon
Thanks, keep us updated monkey!

OK: I've drank a bottrle a red wine before I left, had five beers when I was out at the club, I'm now half way though a second bottle (on my own) thinking that I'll never be able to sleep soundly again because I've spent over 190+ eveings with a naked woman by my side and I don't want to brake that routine.

Unfortunatly for me I havwn't the confidence to go on the pull (as in approaching and getting invloved on first meet) when going out.

I've chicken out and sent my ex a text message (two hours ago - no reply)

Dude, you have to cut ALL communication with the EX!!!! As harsh as it may sound it's for your own good!!!! Now send her one saying, "J/K, Now rot in hell!" 😉

 

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: Jehovah
Doh! A fumble!

I believe you have to understand that I though she was 'the one' - we were talking about what to do next year, what time of the year we should raise a child, which languages we should learn together, she was even considering to buy a second comp to join me (at the same time) on my MMORPG's

 

[SP33Demon]

You will get over her, but it will take time. Your best bet is to get drunk and pass out! It will help you forget, just don't do anything stupid like call her!

 

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: SP33Demon
You will get over her, but it will take time. Your best bet is to get drunk and pass out! It will help you forget, just don't do anything stupid like call her!

Two sides to my emotions:

I know that she is in a crap place ATM (when I say crap, I mean no heating, landlord that has a history of taking advangage, etc).

I still care for her, but I know that I'll never trust her or respect her ever again.

I REALLY FVCKING HATE this ituation

 

[SP33Demon]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: SP33Demon
You will get over her, but it will take time. Your best bet is to get drunk and pass out! It will help you forget, just don't do anything stupid like call her!

Two sides to my emotions:

I know that she is in a crap place ATM (when I say crap, I mean no heating, landlord that has a history of taking advangage, etc).

I still care for her, but I know that I'll never trust her or respect her ever again.

I REALLY FVCKING HATE this ituation

Well, she pushed you away and she is the reason that she doesn't have heat right now. It's not your fault that she didn't fit the bill and decided to cheat on you and play you for the free lodging! If she is physically about to freeze into a popsicle, then tell her to buy a portable heater, she has electricity right? Otherwise I would just cut off all contact, it's the only way you can ever be happy again (to truly have time for the wounds to heal).