Dumped g/friend on The London Experiance

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: KarenMarie
MonkeyPuppet....

3 hours from London... puts you about where, in the UK?

As far as the g/f... hmmm.. seems like you have a lot invested there... time and financial ties... but I would not allow that to make you take her back. The following the heart thing is a bunch of bull... how in the world can she claim that her heart told her to pick up some guy in a club and go off with him for the night? How can she blame her heart for making her a slut for one, and a heartless b!tch for treating you that way in addition. It is a lie... anyone who would ever behave as such is better off gone... you don't need it and although it hurts like he!!... console youself with the fact that you are above it and at least you are not married.

Bristol

The financial ties are going to be a ah heck to deal with.

 

[Red Dawn]

DV cam: £105
Car hire: £120 weekend hire
Five star hotel: £280
Opera: £50.50 each seat
Meal: £40
Getting dumped by GF afterwards: Priceless

Humiliation, something money can not buy!

 

[brigden]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: brigden

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: asm0deus
burn all her stuff now

edit: and get someone else to goto the opera with you

We saw the opera before the meal and the club

I forgot to mention the suprise was for her birthday and I bought her a nice little DV camera to record the weekend.

I've just worked out in the last couple of days I spent about £500 on this suprise

A five-star hotel in London could eat up over half your budget. There is no way you could have bought a DV cam, opera tix, hire a car, and include a meal (even at McDonald's).

I call shens.

DV cam: £105 (scan.co.uk one day offer half price)
Car hire: £120 weekend hire (through work - 33% discount)
Five star hotel: £280 (Octopuss travel - advance booking 25% discount)
Opera: £50.50 each seat
Meal: £40 - family friend (sisters boyfriends, Auntie) is the chef there

That's nearly £650. Apparently you suck at math as well as relationships.

Here's what you need to do: Call up her mum and ask her out for a meal (use your reservation) to talk about things. Make sure she gobbles a few glasses of wine. Ditch the opera tix. Take her to the hotel, and fvck her brains out. Make sure you use the DV cam to video the whole thing. Then mail the slag the video of you rodgering her mother.

 

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn
DV cam: £105
Car hire: £120 weekend hire
Five star hotel: £280
Opera: £50.50 each seat
Meal: £40
Getting dumped by GF afterwards: Priceless

Humiliation, something money can not buy!

Thanks for the laugh - I needed that a lot - I'm definatly going to remeber that when I start talking face-to-face to people again to tell them what happened

 

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: brigden

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: brigden

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: asm0deus
burn all her stuff now

edit: and get someone else to goto the opera with you

We saw the opera before the meal and the club

I forgot to mention the suprise was for her birthday and I bought her a nice little DV camera to record the weekend.

I've just worked out in the last couple of days I spent about £500 on this suprise

A five-star hotel in London could eat up over half your budget. There is no way you could have bought a DV cam, opera tix, hire a car, and include a meal (even at McDonald's).

I call shens.

DV cam: £105 (scan.co.uk one day offer half price)
Car hire: £120 weekend hire (through work - 33% discount)
Five star hotel: £280 (Octopuss travel - advance booking 25% discount)
Opera: £50.50 each seat
Meal: £40 - family friend (sisters boyfriends, Auntie) is the chef there

That's nearly £650. Apparently you suck at math as well as relationships.

Here's what you need to do: Call up her mum and ask her out for a meal (use your reservation) to talk about things. Make sure she gobbles a few glasses of wine. Ditch the opera tix. Take her to the hotel, and fvck her brains out. Make sure you use the DV cam to video the whole thing. Then mail the slag the video of you rodgering her mother.

It's all a mixture of company budget, Cash, debit card and credit card.

 

[Red Dawn]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: Red Dawn
DV cam: £105
Car hire: £120 weekend hire
Five star hotel: £280
Opera: £50.50 each seat
Meal: £40
Getting dumped by GF afterwards: Priceless

Humiliation, something money can not buy!

Thanks for the laugh - I needed that a lot - I'm definatly going to remeber that when I start talking face-to-face to people again to tell them what happened

Well guy, what happened to you sucks. Too bad you can't just write her off immediately and forget about her. You should show her the same level of respect she showed you which is none. In fact when she is around you should just act like she doesn't exist because it's obvious the woman you thought you were in love with doesn't exist, just some self entitled bitch that is in her skin.

 

[KarenMarie]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: KarenMarie
MonkeyPuppet....

3 hours from London... puts you about where, in the UK?

SNIPPED

Bristol

The financial ties are going to be a ah heck to deal with.

Bristol? You are quite far South. I lived in Guisborough (TS14 6NW) for eight years. VeggieFrog moved back to the UK and goes to York Uni.

Anyway... can you afford to pay for everything without her? Perhaps your parents can help? Or you can get a roomate until you get on your feet? I know saying stuff like... you are better off without her... is meaningless while you are hurting, but in 6 months to a years time... you will be much better off... not that it helps right now, but it is something to focus on.

 

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: Red Dawn
DV cam: £105
Car hire: £120 weekend hire
Five star hotel: £280
Opera: £50.50 each seat
Meal: £40
Getting dumped by GF afterwards: Priceless

Humiliation, something money can not buy!

Thanks for the laugh - I needed that a lot - I'm definatly going to remeber that when I start talking face-to-face to people again to tell them what happened

Well guy, what happened to you sucks. Too bad you can't just write her off immediately and forget about her. You should show her the same level of respect she showed you which is none. In fact when she is around you should just act like she doesn't exist because it's obvious the woman you thought you were in love with doesn't exist, just some self entitled bitch that is in her skin.

I've spoken to a lot of her friends today and they are all on my side (they all like me which helps). hahaha when she gets back everyone is going to be saying to her WTF!!!!

I've had three invites to stay around theirs untill I can face her again (if she gets back).

I've opened my little black book (well phone sim card) best thing for me to do is have some re-bound fun

 

[Monkey muppet]

I have to go now - just got confirmation of a date tonight.

Thanks everyone for helping me rant and vent and take some of the weight off my shoulders.

I'll keep you all posted how the date went - I've no strings, no commitments, pissed off to hell and need some hot loving. Tonight could b interesting

 

[AlienCraft]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: Red Dawn
WTF and you let that happen? It's one thing if it was a date but your Old Lady taking off with some other swinging dick? Man any guy with any sort of self esteem would have kicked some ass (the dudes) and then sent that bitch packing.

What they did was totally disrespect you. If I did that to some dude I would expect to have to throw down with him. At least if they we doing it on the side they would be showing you a little respect by trying to hide it. Out in the open is like them saying "You ain't sh!t and we don't give a fsck what you think or how you look to others"

I'm over six foot (about 190-ish) but very slim - he was the same hight and build like a brick sh1t house. If I even looked at this guy funny he would've kicked my ass easily (I can hold myself in a fight fairly OK - but this guy was too much to even consider)

Dude in situations like that it's not necessary or even expected of you to fight fair. A Pool Cue or a long neck bottle to the side of his head would have been consider adequate retaliation for his offense.

Agreed, the only fair fight is one you intend to lose.
At the very least you could yell out something about her raging case of herpes.

 

[AlienCraft]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet
well nobody cares then that my g/friend of living together for six months decided to fvck off with another bloke she and stayed the night around his

Pack her stuff into boxes, send the to the parent's house.
Change the locks.
Never speak to her again.
Boink until you cvan't remember her name or what she looks like.

 

[Red Dawn]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet
I have to go now - just got confirmation of a date tonight.

Thanks everyone for helping me rant and vent and take some of the weight off my shoulders.

I'll keep you all posted how the date went - I've no strings, no commitments, pissed off to hell and need some hot loving. Tonight could b interesting

What ever you do, don't talk about what happened in London to your date. Even if she brings it up just dismiss it like it was nothing. It will make you look good plus you will be able to concentrate more on your date.

 

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet
I have to go now - just got confirmation of a date tonight.

Thanks everyone for helping me rant and vent and take some of the weight off my shoulders.

I'll keep you all posted how the date went - I've no strings, no commitments, pissed off to hell and need some hot loving. Tonight could b interesting

What ever you do, don't talk about what happened in London to your date. Even if she brings it up just dismiss it like it was nothing. It will make you look good plus you will be able to concentrate more on your date.

I've talked to her about it already - that's why she wanted to see me (we had a simi-thing going before I meet this two-timing *edited*).

I have the DV and some short MPEG4 clips if anyone wants to host I can email to them (PM me).

Wish me luck for tonight

 

[Rufio]

dude what a sh!tty move!!!!

good luck tonite!

 

[BannedTroll]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: Red Dawn
WTF and you let that happen? It's one thing if it was a date but your Old Lady taking off with some other swinging dick? Man any guy with any sort of self esteem would have kicked some ass (the dudes) and then sent that bitch packing.

What they did was totally disrespect you. If I did that to some dude I would expect to have to throw down with him. At least if they we doing it on the side they would be showing you a little respect by trying to hide it. Out in the open is like them saying "You ain't sh!t and we don't give a fsck what you think or how you look to others"

I'm over six foot (about 190-ish) but very slim - he was the same hight and build like a brick sh1t house. If I even looked at this guy funny he would've kicked my ass easily (I can hold myself in a fight fairly OK - but this guy was too much to even consider)

Dude in situations like that it's not necessary or even expected of you to fight fair. A Pool Cue or a long neck bottle to the side of his head would have been consider adequate retaliation for his offense.

Truer words were never spoken.

To take it a step further this applies to any fight. Treat any opponent like they are trying to kill you and respond accordingly and you won't have a problem. Nothing is off limits. Let him whine to his girl how unfair it was for you to hit him from behind with a bat. "Fair" fights are for boxers who get paid to take the chance of getting their ass beat.

Sorry to hear about your situation.

 

[Attrox]

Got any "interesting picture" of her taken?
Post it online or PM everyone on ATOT, that should teach her a lesson

 

[PolarNorth]

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet
I have to go now - just got confirmation of a date tonight.

Thanks everyone for helping me rant and vent and take some of the weight off my shoulders.

I'll keep you all posted how the date went - I've no strings, no commitments, pissed off to hell and need some hot loving. Tonight could b interesting

What ever you do, don't talk about what happened in London to your date. Even if she brings it up just dismiss it like it was nothing. It will make you look good plus you will be able to concentrate more on your date.

I've talked to her about it already - that's why she wanted to see me (we had a simi-thing going before I meet this two-timing *edited*).

I have the DV and some short MPEG4 clips if anyone wants to host I can email to them (PM me).

Wish me luck for tonight

..not sure what your implying about the MPEG4 stuff, but if your thinking about posting "that video", maybe you shuold think twice about it. However, posting a bunch of photos or videos where she looks messed up or in embarressing in some way would be a nice way to get revenge

 

[PolarNorth]

Also title your thread better, almost didn't open it because it seemed boring (great someone went to london and is posting there earth shattering 'observations')

 

[Schadenfreude]

Originally posted by: BannedTroll

Originally posted by: Red Dawn

Originally posted by: Monkey muppet

Originally posted by: Red Dawn
WTF and you let that happen? It's one thing if it was a date but your Old Lady taking off with some other swinging dick? Man any guy with any sort of self esteem would have kicked some ass (the dudes) and then sent that bitch packing.

What they did was totally disrespect you. If I did that to some dude I would expect to have to throw down with him. At least if they we doing it on the side they would be showing you a little respect by trying to hide it. Out in the open is like them saying "You ain't sh!t and we don't give a fsck what you think or how you look to others"

I'm over six foot (about 190-ish) but very slim - he was the same hight and build like a brick sh1t house. If I even looked at this guy funny he would've kicked my ass easily (I can hold myself in a fight fairly OK - but this guy was too much to even consider)

Dude in situations like that it's not necessary or even expected of you to fight fair. A Pool Cue or a long neck bottle to the side of his head would have been consider adequate retaliation for his offense.

Truer words were never spoken.

To take it a step further this applies to any fight. Treat any opponent like they are trying to kill you and respond accordingly and you won't have a problem. Nothing is off limits. Let him whine to his girl how unfair it was for you to hit him from behind with a bat. "Fair" fights are for boxers who get paid to take the chance of getting their ass beat.

Sorry to hear about your situation.

Nice to hear from the authorities of fighting at ATOT. :roll: It's probably for the best that you didn't do anything :thumbsup: - if that skank didn't shag this bloke, it would've been the next anyhow. :thumbsdown:

So, did you have fun at the date?

 

[LordPhoenix]

Gooday Mate.

 

[Schadenfreude]

Originally posted by: LordPhoenix
Gooday Mate.

He's in London, not Sydney you imbecile.

 

[Aharami]

this just reenforces my belief that a prenup is necessary in today's day and age b4 any marriage. you just never know when the girl's gonna have a "change of heart" and walk up and leave. the stakes are a lot higher in marriage since she can take some of your stuff with her.

good thing u 2 werent married

and i hope you had fun on your date. you deserve it!!

 

[Monkey muppet]

I've just got back from the date: I've known her for a while and we've been mates because of her being involved then me being involved, vise vera, etc, etc.

Well had a nice meal (she cooked) bottle of red, good talk about my situation. During which, my ex missus best friend called me, damn it not now!!!

But it was funny 'cos my date wanted me to put on loudspeaker, which I did - three way conversation about how my ex was being a b1tch, no respect, etc, etc. That was nice to vent with two good people I know very well.

Conversation progressed into life ambitions, security, settling down during which.............damn it only kisses and cuddles - oh, well there's always Wednesday (next date planned).


I have no "embarressing" video footage of her - put I did find one which made me think................if anyone ould host this for me it will explain a lot, and possibly re-inforce my opinion of why Saturaday night happened the way it did (shot on Friday night, we left on sat morning).

 

[Monkey muppet]

Originally posted by: Jehovah

Originally posted by: LordPhoenix
Gooday Mate.

He's in London, not Sydney you imbecile.

I'm in Bristol - was in London for the weekend

 

[Transition]

Kill the bitch.