I hear ya OP. I live in a pretty traffic congested city - and you get traffic even on the weekends here, not just rush hour. It's sad. I totally understand trying to phase out when you're driving.
Personally though, I try to take public transit. We have a "park and ride" bus system that lets the busses take the HOV lanes - you just go to the park and ride and... park and sit on the bus. Then I walk to work. But that's only if you work downtown like I do. As much as I find $7 for a round trip on a bus to be a complete ripoff, I guess it's still better than sitting in traffic in my car... burning gas, burning up maintenance, etc..
What sucks is when I have a client that is in town.... Then I don't have a choice and have to sit through traffic.
Some people simply don't have a choice here. You have to go where the jobs are these days.