Don't buy a diamond. Ever.

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rjain

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Diamonds are durable and look pretty (sparkly), just like gold (one of the least reactive metals and it looks shiny). If you buy a ring with a piece of glass on it, it'll probably last a few years and then need to be cut again to look as clean and new as before (but it'll be smaller). If you buy a diamond, it will last for hundreds (thousands?) of years needing just some polishing.
 

ElFenix

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Originally posted by: Spikesoldier
you guys are right, fsck the diamond, im givin my woman a PLATINUM CHAIN

thats the chain that she keeps you with right?
 

Rob9874

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Originally posted by: Glitchny
Originally posted by: Eli
I didn't read your post in full.. but it sounds to me like you're saying diamonds are worthless, when they clearly are not. :p

They are worth $ because they're rare and considered precious gems. Same principal as Gold.

I just won't buy any diamonds from De Beers. :p

they arent that rare if De Beers is hoarding them... they are only rare to find in the market since someone already has all of them

Then that makes them rare. Regardless of the integrity of the scarcity, they're valuable. You'll never get stuck with a quality diamond you can't sell. Whether they're actually rare or not, someone will pay market value for it.

 

RyanM

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Great article.

Yet women told us, even if they had preferred the look of the imitation, they'd still rather be given the diamond. "It just makes you feel like you're special," said one woman. "I know what I want on my finger, and it has to be the real thing."

So basically, what you're saying is that you do place value in the object instead of the sentiment.

That's what I call High-Class Whores.
 
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Originally posted by: Mears
Funny you brought that up. Today in class, some girls were discussing engagement rings and decided that at least 2 months of the male's yearly gross should be allocated to the ring.

Were these girls, by any chance, from a region of land lower than the others?

(Subtitle - Valley Girls?)

- M4H
 

ElFenix

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theres also nearly no second hand market for diamonds.
 

RyanM

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Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: Mears
Funny you brought that up. Today in class, some girls were discussing engagement rings and decided that at least 2 months of the male's yearly gross should be allocated to the ring.

Were these girls, by any chance, from a region of land lower than the others?

(Subtitle - Valley Girls?)

- M4H

Thanks for the subtitle. Had you not included it, I'd have no idea what you were implying. :p
 

AlienCraft

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Originally posted by: Rogue
I guess my question got lost in the shuffle, so I'll ask again. Is it not true that a majority of the killing and maiming and murdering going on in those countries is a result of religion rather than diamonds? Diamonds are just a way to finance both sides of the coin, right? So if we're gonna stop buying diamonds because a company inadvertently takes advantage of a situation and people die as a result, why not also hold religious beliefs accountable? I think this entire thread has turned into a display of fanaticism, not far removed from that of the warring factions involved in the diamond trade. Having a little tirade about your personal beliefs and telling everybody else not to do something is called "fanaticism" and/or "brainwashing". People don't see things the way you do, get over it.


Some people do agree with him.

A copy of a FRONTLINE piece on Gunrunning and Diamonds
YET More stuff to read about violence, diamonds, warfare.
 

VTrider

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If your just tuning in.....

#1: DeBeers sucks
#2: Understand the history of the "DeBeers Diamond/Marriage" marketing saga and realize once again we are sheep-like consumers!
#3: Diamonds are nothing special, far from it, very ordinary and represent some companies 'marketing product' / false meaning.
#4: DeBeers sucks

-VTrider
 

Feldenak

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Originally posted by: rh71
Yes yes, DeBeers is evil... they're ammunition for those who don't want to get their spouse a diamond engagement ring (or at least a size they would love)...

With that said...

Originally posted by: Whade
Try telling that to your spouse...
I gave my fiance a 1.06 carat diamond and it made her the happiest lady on Earth. That's all I care about.

I'd love it if she bought me an X5 4.6is, it'd make me damn happy. Same difference. It's not about cost, it's about want/have --> happiness. It just so happens that you give it to someone you love the most.

Well, I didn't give my fiancee a 1.06 carat stone, but it was a diamond and I'm sure the reaction was the same. :)
 

iamwiz82

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would you people not consider OPEC to be the same way? Blood is on their hands, along with artifically high prices due to low supply and high demand.
 

bozack

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Originally posted by: Rob9874
Then that makes them rare. Regardless of the integrity of the scarcity, they're valuable. You'll never get stuck with a quality diamond you can't sell. Whether they're actually rare or not, someone will pay market value for it.

Ding ding ding...that's right Rob, as long as Debeer's controls the primary supply of them and people still want them then the price will remain high since they control supply and the item is in high demand.

Again I cannot stress the fact that even though they were a heavily marketed item no one ever held a gun to someone's head and made them buy a diamond or anything else...society decided they liked diamonds hence why the popularity. I have seen plenty of heavily marketed products that have failed due to a lack of demand.

Should the market get flooded with diamonds from another source I do see the price going down initially, however I do not see their popularity decreasing, if anything more people who were reluctant to buy because of price will go out and take advantage of the savings, eventually it will get to the point where a few companies are selling and controlling the flow and they will work together to price fix. I also don't see people just abandoning the idea of using some kind of a gem or jewelry as a symbol for their commitment as Mach seems to be in favor of (he would have us all buy MP3 players or new video cards), gems, diamonds, rubies and other "precious" substances have been coveted for hundreds and thousands of years, I don't see that changing in my lifetime....

I guess I am not surprised with the range of opinions here, this is a tech related site and all so it does make sense, however I must say viva le difference, I am glad that I can find value and understand why some would appreciate something they had to work hard for that is a symbol of a bond and can become something which a memory is attached...I know I would not feel happy if I gave my fiancee a nice shiny new computer, or as that article mentioned a toaster in lieu of a "useless" piece of jewelry and in a few years time it became obsolete and was replaced by something new, there is no long term emotional and sentimantal value in objects such as those...they are disposable, which seems to be something that is a common trend...
 

kranky

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Originally posted by: Spac3d
Originally posted by: everman
You know what's funny is that you really can't tell the difference from a real and fake one from looking at it from a foot + away. I know someone that will sometimes wear a fake ring (costume jewelry, looks real) and you wouldn't know the difference. You'd think she's filthy rich and the ring costs thousands.

What I'm getting at is that people can still get the same "status, look at me I'm rich " effect with a fake just as easily.
That isn't true at all. People can tell how you are dressed if you have the real thing or not. People doubt that I have real diamonds (I got them at age 17), but I know they are real and when the light hit the ice .... it twankle and glisten.

"People can tell how you are dressed if you have the real thing or not"?! Sorry, that's just not true. I have two well-off friends who only buy cubic zirconia. Their other well-off friends are always drooling over the latest "diamond" jewelry they bought. They buy CZ because (1) they know people can't tell, and (2) they save money on insurance and don't have to worry about theft.

My own experience with CZ is with two one-carat CZ stones I bought from a jewelry store for $25. I had them mounted in earrings and my wife wore them a few times. No one thought they were fake.

I guess if I sunk a pile of money into real diamonds, I'd want to believe people could tell the difference.
 

ElFenix

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Originally posted by: iamwiz82
would you people not consider OPEC to be the same way? Blood is on their hands, along with artifically high prices due to low supply and high demand.

theres so much cheating in OPEC, plus theres many oil producing countries that aren't in it, that comparing its market power to debeers is kinda funny. also, oil demand is largley inflexible as its the basis for our economy, while the diamond supply could be cut off tomorrow and the only people who would suffer much is jewelers.
 

kranky

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Another key difference between DeBeers and oil is that DeBeers controls the distribution. OPEC only controls production (or tries to). DeBeers has such a stranglehold on the distribution of diamonds that it is difficult for other producers to get their product to market.
 

iamwiz82

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my point in posting that was to show people that there are better battles to fight. Look at the millions of people that have died for oil. Personally, i think that is something more important than diamonds. Just my opinion, though.
 

StageLeft

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My recommendation to the guys: When you're about to get married don't try and get out of buying a diamond ring with this argument :)

Trying telling a woman that diamonds have no value :Q
 

Double Trouble

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The obvious point that a lot of folks are missing is that value is in the eye of the beholder, not simply in the intrinsic value of an item. A diamond engagement ring has become an item that holds a value of saying "you are special, I want us to be together forever, and this diamond is symbolic of that". Whether or not the actual stone is worth that much or not is irrelevant.

If your wife (to be) prefers some other token or symbol of your feelings, that's fine. It's not that the women (at least not most of them) are strictly materialistic, it's the fact that they can show their friends how "special" they are to someone that the person is willing to invest such a large amount in buying them something special. It's as simple as that.

Perhaps people can't tell the difference between CZ and the real thing -- so what?? You know you have cheap junk that's meaningless, and that's what matters.
 

kranky

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Originally posted by: tagej
If your wife (to be) prefers some other token or symbol of your feelings, that's fine. It's not that the women (at least not most of them) are strictly materialistic, it's the fact that they can show their friends how "special" they are to someone that the person is willing to invest such a large amount in buying them something special. It's as simple as that.

Is that not exactly what "materialistic" means?

 

wyvrn

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I told my wife about this yesterday. She was like "wow", but there is no way in hell she will stop wanting diamonds. I just bought her a diamond tennis bracelet for our anniversary. Like it or not, diamonds are going to be a girl's best friend for a long long time.
 

wyvrn

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Yes it is. In my experience, the majority of women are materialistic. Gotta have the diamonds and gold or no marriage for you!

Originally posted by: kranky
Originally posted by: tagej
If your wife (to be) prefers some other token or symbol of your feelings, that's fine. It's not that the women (at least not most of them) are strictly materialistic, it's the fact that they can show their friends how "special" they are to someone that the person is willing to invest such a large amount in buying them something special. It's as simple as that.

Is that not exactly what "materialistic" means?