Don't buy a diamond. Ever.

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tnitsuj

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Originally posted by: Rainsford
Women: "I won't belive you really love me until you buy me a ring with a stone that I'm supposed to want for some reason."
Man who is not a tool: "Guess our love really doesn't mean that much then."
Most men: "Sure, I can't think of a better way to spend hundreds of dollars!"

Personally I think those smarmy commercials are to blame. They've managed to convince entire generations of people that love can only be represented by a shiny rock on a ring. Kind of sad if you think about it.

Hundreds??? Try thousands. I know a guy who just got engaged who bought is fiancee a $6000 ring. He makes $37,000 a year. That is 16% of his income right there, and he had to borrow the money from his parents.
 

DrPizza

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Originally posted by: Rainsford
Women: "I won't belive you really love me until you buy me a ring with a stone that I'm supposed to want for some reason."
Man who is not a tool: "Guess our love really doesn't mean that much then."
Most men: "Sure, I can't think of a better way to spend hundreds of dollars!"

Personally I think those smarmy commercials are to blame. They've managed to convince entire generations of people that love can only be represented by a shiny rock on a ring. Kind of sad if you think about it.

Bingo... too many people are too lazy to think about what message advertising is giving them.
 

RyanM

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Originally posted by: theNEOone
anyone want to get together and pull off the biggest heist in history? what's my attack plan? well, we can start with either this or this. the rest is cake....

Don't think I haven't thought about writing a movie script about a band of commandos who decides to topple De Beers and totally and utterly kill the diamond trade. I mean, hey, what better way to take a jab at De Beers than by attacking them in the very medium they used to brainwash everyone with?

You heard it here first. ;-) Hey, and I'll join in on the "Take Out De Beers" raid. It'd be sweeter if it was based on a true story. ;-)
 

AlienCraft

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Originally posted by: Eli
I didn't read your post in full.. but it sounds to me like you're saying diamonds are worthless, when they clearly are not. :p

They are worth $ because they're rare and considered precious gems. Same principal as Gold.

I just won't buy any diamonds from De Beers. :p
The diamond is made of carbon, the most common substance on this planet.
Other gems are far more rare, sapphires, emeralds in gem quality are far more scarce.
The value of the stones is artificially supported in that most diamond sales are through the De Beers cartel and only under controlled conditions.
If you buy a diamond in the retail market, it's from DeBeers. Most custom stones are also.
Someone would be marketing any "Cartel Free" stones as such as well, I would think.


 

Mallow

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I wonder how the canadian diamonds are priced compared to other diamonds.
 

aphex

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My girlfriend has already pointed out the ring she wants.... A $15k solitare set in platinum from Tiffanys....... I farted in her general direction...
 

KC5AV

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Originally posted by: pukemon
Ahh yes I've read this before some time back. I agree completely however, facts won't changed time honored tradition, and it sure as heck isn't going to change the mindset of the just about the entire world's female population.

So basically, suck it up fellas, a diamond is forever(tm).
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On the other hand (no pun intended), a cubic zirconia might not be forever, but most people can't tell the difference anyway.
 

Storm

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Originally posted by: MachFive
Originally posted by: Bootprint
What about Canadian Arctic Diamonds?

By buying a diamond at all, you're contributing to the "demand" side of the economics, and although that diamond may not have blood on it, you're nonetheless supporting the diamond industry as a whole, which includes De Beers.

Originally posted by: Whade
Try telling that to your spouse...

Perhaps if more women knew how many people have been killed by the diamond cartels, they'd think differently. Unfortunately, few people seem to know this. Every time I bring it up, I get scoffed at.

People are willing to sit outside of fashion shows and protest the cruel treatment of animals and the "evil" of fur coats, but when f*cking humans are being killed in civil wars funded by the diamond trade, nobody gives two sh!ts.

It's repulsive.

Frankly I didnt know anything about this... Not to knock you or anything do you have sources that give more info? Maybe a bibliography of magazines or books or something?
 

Eli

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Originally posted by: AlienCraft
Originally posted by: Eli
I didn't read your post in full.. but it sounds to me like you're saying diamonds are worthless, when they clearly are not. :p

They are worth $ because they're rare and considered precious gems. Same principal as Gold.

I just won't buy any diamonds from De Beers. :p
The diamond is made of carbon, the most common substance on this planet.
Other gems are far more rare, sapphires, emeralds in gem quality are far more scarce.
The value of the stones is artificially supported in that most diamond sales are through the De Beers cartel and only under controlled conditions.
If you buy a diamond in the retail market, it's from DeBeers. Most custom stones are also.
Someone would be marketing any "Cartel Free" stones as such as well, I would think.
I realize what diamonds are made of. That doesen't change the fact that they're still rare.

Shrug. I'm sure theres another side to the story.
 

Dacalo

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Yea I learned about thhe truth about diamonds about 8 years ago, but women still dig them. Think of them as sentimental value I guess
 

Mani

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Originally posted by: aphex
My girlfriend has already pointed out the ring she wants.... A $15k solitare set in platinum from Tiffanys....... I farted in her general direction...

HIGH MAINTENANCE. :p
 

RyanM

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Originally posted by: Eli
Originally posted by: AlienCraft
Originally posted by: Eli
I didn't read your post in full.. but it sounds to me like you're saying diamonds are worthless, when they clearly are not. :p

They are worth $ because they're rare and considered precious gems. Same principal as Gold.

I just won't buy any diamonds from De Beers. :p
The diamond is made of carbon, the most common substance on this planet.
Other gems are far more rare, sapphires, emeralds in gem quality are far more scarce.
The value of the stones is artificially supported in that most diamond sales are through the De Beers cartel and only under controlled conditions.
If you buy a diamond in the retail market, it's from DeBeers. Most custom stones are also.
Someone would be marketing any "Cartel Free" stones as such as well, I would think.
I realize what diamonds are made of. That doesen't change the fact that they're still rare.

Shrug. I'm sure theres another side to the story.

They're not rare. Diamonds are among the most abundant "gem" stones in the earth, the problem is, almost all of the mines are in Africa - Under the control of De Beers.

If tomorrow morning, a small group of mercenaries decided to launch an attack and was able to destroy De Beers infrastructure and liberate their diamond reserves, to flood the market with them....their value would fall the tens of dollars, instead of the thousands.
 

Dacalo

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Yea I learned about thhe truth about diamonds about 8 years ago, but women still dig them. Think of them as sentimental value I guess
 

911paramedic

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TORONTO - Aber Diamond Corp. said Wednesday it sold its first parcel of diamonds from the Diavik mine in the Northwest Territories for $4.1 million. Diavik is Canada's second diamond mine, continuing the growth of an industry expected to become one of the world leaders in upcoming years. An Aber news release said the total sale of 42,619 carats of diamonds fetched an average price of $96.22 a carat.
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I remember watching something about this a while back. The mine sells the diamonds for about $100 a carat, and you pay $1,000 to $8,000 retail for that same diamond. (the mine sells them by the pound, or kilo, if I remember correctly)
 

Dacalo

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Originally posted by: Eli


They are worth $ because they're rare and considered precious gems. Same principal as Gold.

I believe gold is a bit different than diamonds. They actually have value, as it can be used as currency. Correct me if I am wrong?
 

Jzero

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Originally posted by: aphex
My girlfriend has already pointed out the ring she wants.... A $15k solitare set in platinum from Tiffanys....... I farted in her general direction...

HA HA
My gf is a big Tiffany's fan, yet she was futzing around on some "Design your own ring" website and the "dream ring" she coughed up was only $1600....I was quite surprised. I was quite expecting her "dream ring" to be similar to yours :)

As for the diamond cartel, it's true, but the same crap goes for a lot of big business. OPEC oil funds so much of the crap going on in the middle east, but how many of us are still driving cars and using other petroleum products?

Also this article must be somewhat outdated since it mentions Zaire instead of Dem. Rep. of Congo...
 

RyanM

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Ah...another good one.

Oil is a commodity. It is a fuel. It is used in everything from cars to plastic. If we stopped using oil today, our society would crumble.

Oil is an unnecessary evil, but a temporary one.

Diamonds serve NO purpose whatsoever. Don't you feel awful that you've been brainwashed into believing that giving diamonds was some sort of long-standing tradition, when in reality, it's younger than your grandparents?
 

tnitsuj

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Originally posted by: Jzero
Originally posted by: aphex
My girlfriend has already pointed out the ring she wants.... A $15k solitare set in platinum from Tiffanys....... I farted in her general direction...

HA HA
My gf is a big Tiffany's fan, yet she was futzing around on some "Design your own ring" website and the "dream ring" she coughed up was only $1600....I was quite surprised. I was quite expecting her "dream ring" to be similar to yours :)

As for the diamond cartel, it's true, but the same crap goes for a lot of big business. OPEC oil funds so much of the crap going on in the middle east, but how many of us are still driving cars and using other petroleum products?

Also this article must be somewhat outdated since it mentions Zaire instead of Dem. Rep. of Congo...

But oil actually serves a usefull purpose. It is the engine of our economy. When it comes down to it, diamonds serve no practical purpose other than cutting things.
 

RyanM

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That makes me wonder - How much would manufacturing costs decrease if the ability to get ahold of high-grade natural diamonds became 1000% cheaper?
 

RyanM

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Originally posted by: Deeko
Originally posted by: Whade
Try telling that to your spouse...

Bingo.

"Honey, I read a fascinating article today that detailed the horrors the diamond trade. It was eye-opening. Here's a copy."

It's not that freaking hard.
 

Jzero

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Originally posted by: MachFive
Ah...another good one.

Oil is a commodity. It is a fuel. It is used in everything from cars to plastic. If we stopped using oil today, our society would crumble.

Oil is an unnecessary evil, but a temporary one.

Diamonds serve NO purpose whatsoever. Don't you feel awful that you've been brainwashed into believing that giving diamonds was some sort of long-standing tradition, when in reality, it's younger than your grandparents?

Ahh, ok. So it's ok to sacrifice the lives of brown people in north africa/middle east because the result of their death has more meaningful benefit to our society. I think I follow the logic ;)

BTW, according to this, diamond engagement rings have been in use for hundreds of years. DeBeers created the idea that a diamond ring was the ONLY ring, but giving diamonds did not start in the 1930s.
 

GrumpyMan

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When I have Debeers I usually like to have Dechips or Depeanuts to go with them. :beer: