Do you think it's acceptable to hide things from others on your computer?

[oniq]

Originally posted by: K1052
Nobody other than me uses my main pc, ever.

If friends or family what to use something they can take the laptop.

Sounds like you got a lot of sh!t you don't want people seeing

 

[Fausto]

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: oniq

Originally posted by: Nanotech

Originally posted by: oniq
If you have to hide your conversations from your significant other, than obviously you aren't supposed to be having said conversations. If you are so "in need" of porn, you need to leave your sig. other and have fun playing with yourself. She shouldn't be subjected to your perverted ways.

Your right she shouldn't be subjected she should embrace your perverted ways!

Why should she embrace your corrupted ways? You need to see a psychologist if you think being a pervert is ok.

Don't start this assinine argument again. Stop preaching your beliefs and accept the fact that some people like sex. Hell, you may even like sex, but of course, you would have to get laid first.

Methinks oniq is just stirring the sh*t.....again. :roll:

 

[oniq]

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: oniq

Originally posted by: Nanotech

Originally posted by: oniq
If you have to hide your conversations from your significant other, than obviously you aren't supposed to be having said conversations. If you are so "in need" of porn, you need to leave your sig. other and have fun playing with yourself. She shouldn't be subjected to your perverted ways.

Your right she shouldn't be subjected she should embrace your perverted ways!

Why should she embrace your corrupted ways? You need to see a psychologist if you think being a pervert is ok.

Don't start this assinine argument again. Stop preaching your beliefs and accept the fact that some people like sex. Hell, you may even like sex, but of course, you would have to get laid first.

Okay, no need for personal attacks there, buddy. :| My girlfriend and I are quite happy with the sex WE have. Why should I care for other people having sex? Thats twisted.

 

[TitanDiddly]

Originally posted by: Red

Originally posted by: PhasmatisNox

Your computer, your data, your privacy.

Once again, this may not apply to you, but I'll ask. If your sig. other disapproved of porn or chatting with others, would you lie to her about it and not allow her to look on your computer and say its matter of privacy?

I don't have an SO, problem solved. I guess.

 

[K1052]

Originally posted by: oniq

Originally posted by: K1052
Nobody other than me uses my main pc, ever.

If friends or family what to use something they can take the laptop.

Sounds like you got a lot of sh!t you don't want people seeing

Horse/dog/cow/goat on woman porn seems looked down upon for some reason.

Mainly its so that nobody can fvck up my system except for me. Only I have that right.

 

[oniq]

Originally posted by: Fausto

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: oniq

Originally posted by: Nanotech

Originally posted by: oniq
If you have to hide your conversations from your significant other, than obviously you aren't supposed to be having said conversations. If you are so "in need" of porn, you need to leave your sig. other and have fun playing with yourself. She shouldn't be subjected to your perverted ways.

Your right she shouldn't be subjected she should embrace your perverted ways!

Why should she embrace your corrupted ways? You need to see a psychologist if you think being a pervert is ok.

Don't start this assinine argument again. Stop preaching your beliefs and accept the fact that some people like sex. Hell, you may even like sex, but of course, you would have to get laid first.

Methinks oniq is just stirring the sh*t.....again. :roll:

WTF are you guys talking about? AGAIN?

 

[minendo]

Originally posted by: oniq

Originally posted by: minendo

Originally posted by: oniq

Originally posted by: Nanotech

Originally posted by: oniq
If you have to hide your conversations from your significant other, than obviously you aren't supposed to be having said conversations. If you are so "in need" of porn, you need to leave your sig. other and have fun playing with yourself. She shouldn't be subjected to your perverted ways.

Your right she shouldn't be subjected she should embrace your perverted ways!

Why should she embrace your corrupted ways? You need to see a psychologist if you think being a pervert is ok.

Don't start this assinine argument again. Stop preaching your beliefs and accept the fact that some people like sex. Hell, you may even like sex, but of course, you would have to get laid first.

Okay, no need for personal attacks there, buddy. :| My girlfriend and I are quite happy with the sex WE have. Why should I care for other people having sex? Thats twisted.

Get off your high horse and quit being concerned about others choice to look at porn. That was my point.

 

[Linflas]

I don't go looking through my wife's computer, wallet, or purse and likewise she does not go searching through my computer or wallet. It is a simple respect of personal space.

 

[jjones]

My wife is a walking computer hazard; she knows better than to get within spitting distance of my computer. She has her own computer which she can fsck up to her heart's content. That being said, no, I don't hide anything from her and we don't mistrust each other either. If we couldn't have trust and respect for each other, we wouldn't be married.

 

[Jzero]

Originally posted by: oniq
Why should she embrace your corrupted ways? You need to see a psychologist if you think being a pervert is ok.

If you think masturbation is perverted, I think you're the one that needs counselling.

Besides, if she was snooping on your computer and found porn, she subjected HERSELF to it, not the other way around.

 

[Red]

Right, I'm glad you all have as much trust in your SOs as I do. However, if you're not doing anything questionable and you have so much trust, and let's say you were completely comfortable with your SOs ability to not mess up your computer settings, why are you so adamant about your privacy? Almost seems defensive.

 

[nageov3t]

in college, I had all my porn password protected (my friends would have thanked me for it if they knew... as if they'd want to open up my gay porn by accident. lol).

no passwords on my home pc, though, since I'm the only one with access to it.

 

[hzl eyed grl]

I don't hide anything from HayZeus. He knows who I talk to, e-mail, etc. We both like porn, so that's no biggie. I think there's something wrong with the relationship if you feel the need to hide something from the other person.

 

[Jzero]

Originally posted by: Red
Right, I'm glad you all have as much trust in your SOs as I do. However, if you're not doing anything questionable and you have so much trust, and let's say you were completely comfortable with your SOs ability to not mess up your computer settings, why are you so adamant about your privacy? Almost seems defensive.

There is two concepts here - openness and trust, and they are the complementary to each other.

Openness is all well and good, but I'm trusting her not to snoop in my stuff, regardless of what she may find. I trust her and I don't go snooping through her stuff. I expect the same in return.

If she's snooping, the relationship is dead in the water because she has no trust.

 

[StageLeft]

Originally posted by: Shelly21
You shouldn't hide anything in a relationship.

I don't necessarily agree. I mean if you have a fetish for, say, farm animals, and it's not causing you any problems, and you never actually engage in it, but you dream about goats in a naughty manner, do you think that your SO will really benefit from that knowledge?

 

[Vette73]

Originally posted by: Red
Looks like a couple of threads have surfaced about sig. others finding AIM convo's, porn, and other things that people did not want them to see.



Maybe it's just me, but don't you think you're in the wrong by hiding something? If you want to watch porn or engage in AIM coversations with other females/males, then tell your sig. other you are doing so and deal with it at that point. If they don't want you to watch porn or engage in conversations with other people, then either tell them to fvck off and deal with it, or stop hiding things from them.



Hiding things is basically lying IMHO.

AGREED.


And SOME people wonder why divorce rate is like up to 60%+ now.

 

[Shelly21]

Look, If I tell my SO, that I don't want him to look at any kiddie porn, it would be wrong for him to try to hide them from me.

I would not invade his privacy to look for them, because I'm going to trust him not to do it. Now, if I accidently catches him watching it. I'll explode.

 

[spidey07]

i remember the wife laughing at some of my book marks. All 100 sites under the folder "nookie"

 

[StageLeft]

Originally posted by: Shelly21
Look, If I tell my SO, that I don't want him to look at any kiddie porn, it would be wrong for him to try to hide them from me.

I would not invade his privacy to look for them, because I'm going to trust him not to do it. Now, if I accidently catches him watching it. I'll explode.

You shouldn't have to tell a person to not look at kiddie porn.

 

[EXman]

It is Your computer pervert!

 

[Shelly21]

Originally posted by: Skoorb

Originally posted by: Shelly21
You shouldn't hide anything in a relationship.

I don't necessarily agree. I mean if you have a fetish for, say, farm animals, and it's not causing you any problems, and you never actually engage in it, but you dream about goats in a naughty manner, do you think that your SO will really benefit from that knowledge?

Well, let's say if we are dating, and after awhile, you told me that you love looking at rape fantasy pics. And If I have no problem with that as long as it's just a fantasy. Then you won't be hiding anything from me.

(Oh yeah, you'll have to tell your wife about our relationship thou)

 

[Fausto]

Originally posted by: Marlin1975

Originally posted by: Red
Looks like a couple of threads have surfaced about sig. others finding AIM convo's, porn, and other things that people did not want them to see.



Maybe it's just me, but don't you think you're in the wrong by hiding something? If you want to watch porn or engage in AIM coversations with other females/males, then tell your sig. other you are doing so and deal with it at that point. If they don't want you to watch porn or engage in conversations with other people, then either tell them to fvck off and deal with it, or stop hiding things from them.



Hiding things is basically lying IMHO.

AGREED.


And SOME people wonder why divorce rate is like up to 60%+ now.

Out of curiousity, are you married?

 

[rocadelpunk]

if you were completely honest in a relationship, I"m sure at sometime you wanted to tell your sig other to stfu please.

: )

wonder how long it'd take to recover from that?

 

[Vette73]

Originally posted by: Fausto

Originally posted by: Marlin1975

Originally posted by: Red
Looks like a couple of threads have surfaced about sig. others finding AIM convo's, porn, and other things that people did not want them to see.



Maybe it's just me, but don't you think you're in the wrong by hiding something? If you want to watch porn or engage in AIM coversations with other females/males, then tell your sig. other you are doing so and deal with it at that point. If they don't want you to watch porn or engage in conversations with other people, then either tell them to fvck off and deal with it, or stop hiding things from them.



Hiding things is basically lying IMHO.

AGREED.


And SOME people wonder why divorce rate is like up to 60%+ now.

Out of curiousity, are you married?

Nope, but I have had a couple very long relationships (longer then some peoples marriages) and they did NOT end because of lying, cheating, or not being honest with each other.
Does not take a genius to see that doing any of those things are wrong, and trying to tell yourself they are not should be your first sign that it is.

 

[Nanotech]

Originally posted by: Skoorb

Originally posted by: Shelly21
You shouldn't hide anything in a relationship.

I don't necessarily agree. I mean if you have a fetish for, say, farm animals, and it's not causing you any problems, and you never actually engage in it, but you dream about goats in a naughty manner, do you think that your SO will really benefit from that knowledge?

Goats are so cute aren't they? They're just asking to be....wait WTF?