Do you tell your SO when you are hit on?

[TallBill]

Originally posted by: thomsbrain
absolutely not. you're only telling for YOUR benefit, either to brag or to get it off your mind. and hearing about it can only be a negative experience for your SO. so if you care about their feelings, you'll just keep it to yourself. you didn't cheat, so there's nothing for anyone to worry about, but your poor SO will worry anyway.

i would compare it to seeing a dead deer on the highway. i didn't like seeing it, and i'd like to talk about it with her, but i know she loves animals and it would only upset her to hear about it. so i keep it to myself.

I'll point it out if a girl is checking me out while my wife is there. She actually takes it as a positive thing, like "yeah, he's mine". Its a win-win situation.

Why try to hold back the truth? I'll openely make comments about girls to my wife, as well as comment on guys she might be checking out. Like another poster said, we're still going home together and not with anyone else.

 

[necine]

Originally posted by: leftyman
I like to bust the guys checking out my wife when we are in the gym working out. The looks on their face is priceless when they look up from sneeking peeks at my wife and they see me looking at them.

looking never hurt anything. take it as a compliment

 

[iroast]

Could be interpreted as:

1. You're bragging
2. You're trying to make her jealous

 

[K1052]

Yep, I take it as a compliment when it happens.

We both still check other guys out, but that's what guys do. We point out the cute ones to each other.