I live in Delaware (though not from here). The state motto should be "It's not as bad as you think". I'm not gonna sit here and defend it but the job market is pretty good. Tons of businesses are incorporated here because we tax less than others, the net benefit being that everyone incorporates here (ever look at where you mail your credit card payments? This is the credit card capital.) and we get tons of tax money therefore we have no sales tax. Social scene is kinda meh these days...few good clubs have closed down. From where I live I can be in PA, MD, or NJ in 20 minutes or less. I can be in Philly in 35-45 minutes, I can be in Baltimore in just over an hour and NYC in like 2-2.5.
Oh and for those bitching about the tolls, we put those there for the people from out of state who are too stupid to figure out you can get off the exit before and get back on the exit after. If you want some serious tolls try driving in MD between DE and Baltimore..