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Do girls that normally reject you become touchy feely? *FINALLY AN UPDATE!*

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When a girl tells you she can't date you because she has to find herself, it probably means she'd rather masturbate than have sex with you.
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HAHAHAHAHAHA!...exactly right.

I'm married with two daughters, and i can vouch that women are all crazy.
They don't know what they want.

They want people to want/like/adore them..but they may or may not want to reciprocate (changes all the time)

I guess you have to look at the situation as it is (not as you imagine or hope it will be), and decide whether you like the way it is currently. if so, continue to be friends with her, enjoy the moment, don't humiliate yourself and grovel for more than it is. If/when she decides she wants more, she will tell you outright. we (men) tend to read to much into what these women do (because we are generally always thinking about sex). They (women) only occasionally think of sex, and we think that all their actions are sexual in nature..not true.

if you don't agree with me, i just don't care.,
 
Originally posted by: Skoorb
Don't get played like a cheap piano!
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lol

Well, just confront her about it. I must say, the only thing that'll get you anywhere is communication. Be vocal. Otherwise they won't know, won't realize what you think or how you feel, and generally won't act (depends on the girl). But judging from what you've said, she does have some interest in you - so inquire further about it. Like indicated in this thread, grab her boobs, if slapped, $tab her. 😛 hehe.. i found that funny too for some reason. 😛
 
HAHAHAHAHAHA!...exactly right.

I'm married with two daughters, and i can vouch that women are all crazy.
They don't know what they want.

They want people to want/like/adore them..but they may or may not want to reciprocate (changes all the time)

I guess you have to look at the situation as it is (not as you imagine or hope it will be), and decide whether you like the way it is currently. if so, continue to be friends with her, enjoy the moment, don't humiliate yourself and grovel for more than it is. If/when she decides she wants more, she will tell you outright. we (men) tend to read to much into what these women do (because we are generally always thinking about sex). They (women) only occasionally think of sex, and we think that all their actions are sexual in nature..not true.

if you don't agree with me, i just don't care.,
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not only do i agree with you, but i urge you to write a book dude..
 
if she does it to other people shes just being friendly and shes a flirt...be afraid
if she only does it to you...she wants you and shes scared to come out and say it
 
She rejected you, but she wants you to win her over. Instead of "prying her fingers off" when she grabs your pants, try showing (not just telling) her that you're interested in her. Do things with her, engage her in lively conversational banter. Flirt with her.
 
this girl wants you. next time something like that happens, you should just calmly kiss her. do it slowly though, don't be all pushy. if she kisses back, you're good to go! 😉
 
Without reading all the replies:

Jesus Dude! How many cues does she need to give??? She totally wants to be with you and was probably impressed by the "Then I'll wait for nothing..." line. Just make a move. I was in a similar experience my sophomore year of college with a girl. In the end I invited her to my place, and cooked her dinner. I sat her down at my computer (It was an efficiency apt.) and put on Bon Jovi - Always whilst I went and set the table.

Cheesy and Cliche' yes, but it worked. When I turned back to her she had tears in her eyes, then grabbed and kissed me rather passionately.

Make a move. She doesn't know what she wants, so make up her mind for her.

Either that or you've become her pet.
 
i dont know why... but just thinking about this whole situation (not your's personally - the whole situation of all these people coming on atot for girl advice) just made start cracking up.
 
oh, and when she grabs onto something/some part of you again...try to tickle her or something of that sort. That'll kind of initiate anything if there is anything to be initiated 😛
 
haha.. i'm 22 and she's almost 21
it's pretty interesting really... she changes her tune a lot... like today i went to her house and she wasn't touchy at all.. but when i left her house, before she closed the door, she zipped up my jacket pocket, then as i was leaving she poked me... then i said "uh nights" then she told me to call her when i got home. nothing much to think here really. heh. i think it's kinda funny.

 
Based on your description of the events, I think she had a change of tune after she rejected you. Possibly for the 'will wait for nothing' line as mentioned earlier, or possibly for something else you've done or are doing. IOW, as most folks have mentioned... she now wants you.

Now, I don't know this girl at all, but, some just won't "ask" you out. You must ask them. Even though you already did. Now you have to again... she's (probably) trying to get you to make her the offer again. I agree w/ other folks that you should make the offer in a more concrete way, such as with a kiss when she's being touchy feely. Maybe after doing some nice things like bringing her flowers, making dinner, and/or watching a movie together.

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OTOH, My personal advice is to leave this one behind. She's got issues.



 
Dude, she sounds like she's flirting with you heavily and may be reconsidering. She may even want to date you for a little while before giving this a "title".
 
You need to start masterbating. That solves alot of these problem.

Atually, it seems like she likes you. Just give it time and don't rush her. just let things progress naturally. That is don't force anything to happen sooner than she is ready for.
 
it just sounds like she wants to be around someone, maybe shes lonely. or is having some personal problems(family?) and just doesnt wanna be alone, & you happen to be there.
 
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