Do girls that normally reject you become touchy feely? *FINALLY AN UPDATE!*

Chrono

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there's this girl that i like and she knows how i feel about her... i asked her if she wanted to try out our relationship and she said that something was preventing her, which is she wants to find herself or be alone for now. ok so a day passes from our discussion and i told her i'd wait and stuff.. and she told me what if you're waiting for nothing... so i go then i wait for nothing.. blah blah..
these are some things that she has done with me.. makes me curious why sometimes since she says she wants to find herself..
she also said one time that she "doesn't have feelings" for me... but my other friend (who talks to her) found out that she did but just denied them.

here are some examples:

#1 when wanting to use the mouse of a computer for example, normally i'd say "hey i wanna see something" then i'd take my hand and move it close to the mouse, then she'd move her hand away and i'd use the mouse. (and vice versa). but recently she did something different... and instead of waiting for me to move my hand, she'd quickly grab onto my hand and the mouse... and move the mouse. Same when we were watching tv... normally she'd throw me the remote or i'd throw the remote/hand it to her. The last time she gave me the remote... she took my hand... put the remote in my hand and told me to turn the channel, but instead of removing her hand, she held onto my hand and told me to change the channel.

#2 she calls me up to talk to her on the phone every night... even though we have nothing to say sometimes.. she just stays on.. if i tell her to sleep she doesn't want to (even though she's 3/4th's asleep or something) i know, i know, doesn't mean much really does it? it's just strange. for instance if i leave her house, she'd tell me to call her when i get home. (i'm not her b/f or anything... just a friend?) very strange

#3 she also likes to put her head against me a lot of times... for instance we were playing cards.. she took my glasses off and asked if i could play cards without em'.. i was like "why not.. err" so we played.. but she kept staring at me.. weird i say.. but anyway.. after playing a few games.. she then put her head against the side of me and kept it there... i finished passing out the cards and then tapped her with her cards.. but she just stayed on the side of me... strange...

#4 also when i was leaving her house recently... i told her that i was leaving and so i got up.. she said "ok" so as i walked off from where she was she grabbed onto my carpenter pants (the side of the jeans with the lil thing where you could put hammers through to hold) .. she wouldn't let go... (course she could be playing/messing around) but she wasn't giggling/laughing or anything... she just stared at me.. and kept holding onto the side of my pants... after i pryed her hands off.. and attempted to walk out of her room.. she grabbed onto them again... over and over.. never laughing though... so weird...

ok so these are some of the examples. what are your insights of what she's doing? is she leading me on?


WELL WELL... finally after so many months? She's my girlfriend now. :)
that's the update.
 

slycat

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she's starting to purr on u
and ur an idiot if u don't act on it soon
g'luck
 

N8Magic

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OMG SHE TOUCHED YOU! :Q

I think she must want you reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeal bad.
 

Originally posted by: Jugernot
Dude, too much reading into it... she is just being friendly me thinks.

Grabbing onto a guy's pants is generally a sign that a girl wants your nuts.

Okay, I'm REALLY gonna start this essay now.
 

MainFramed

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Originally posted by: JuMpR629
Originally posted by: Jugernot
Dude, too much reading into it... she is just being friendly me thinks.

Grabbing onto a guy's pants is generally a sign that a girl wants your nuts.

serioulsy, dude dont be prude and recact...its time you step up and show her whos boss:p

 

pulse8

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When a girl tells you she can't date you because she has to find herself, it probably means she'd rather masturbate than have sex with you. :p
 

Grminalac

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I advise you to partake in substances with this girl that will induce a lowered mental state; booze et al. Then see what occurs.
 
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'no feelings for you' means 'not turned on by you'

Everything can change.
Dress nice, some discrete cologne, fat wallet and pimped out ride.

"..... and he scoooooores"
 

bleckywelcky

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lmao, how old are you/is she? Sounds like stuff that 8th/9th graders do. I remember girls back then messing around like that because of new found emotions running around in their heads. Sort of like they were testing the waters, but being ambitious or something. This could extend through the rest of high school, although by 12th grade I remember it being gone pretty much. Past that, she wants you bad, but is shy or something. Get a little alcohol flowing one night and watch a movie and chat while just chillin on the couch. See what she says then.

Pics? :)

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