- Jan 15, 2011
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Been trying to figure out a way to bring this up. I'm tempted to leave it only with respect to politics but I think the issue is far deeper and becomes tied quickly into economics. Let me start with a story about some family friends and their SO's visiting from the states these last 2 weeks. One of the older ladies in particular was a real treat.
First we had a gay couple over for dinner along with a bunch of other friends as a kind of welcome party.
Her: "Tonight is going to be real tough for me"
Me: "Why, I'll speak English and so will others. You'll be fine."
Her: "That's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about them"
I left the room disgusted that people still think like this.
There was lots of "They need more religion in their lives" or "If they had religion in their lives they wouldn't have this problem". This lady in particular only had friends from church and this was her world view.
During a discussion about why I left the USA to live in Europe I simply responded "Because I'm European" so as to not get into a long convoluted conversation that I wasn't interested in having. I was immediately met with "America is going to hell because of the black man". I tried to avoid this obviously racist comment with "I love my country but want to live in Europe now". She kept going on about the "black man" as if I was supposed to understand that this was the problem. I played dumb to call her out and said "I don't know what you're talking about". "Oh you know. That black man in the white house".
This devolved quickly into a comment "You don't want to hear this (since I had blown off all her religious comments) but I firmly believe that Obama is the anti-christ". Now I'm not familiar with what the Anti Christ really is to religious people (or anyone for that matter) but I calmly said "What evidence do you have to support that Obama is the anti-Christ?". She then went into a tirade about how Obama wastes money and has too many limousines and people working for him in the white house and this is the reason that the economy is in the dumps. At that point I wasn't really sure how to respond but I gently pointed out that all Presidents have staff and motorcades and so do all other world dignitaries. Furthermore I pointed out that Congress is in charge of paying our bills so she should look at the Legislative branch a bit closer before going on about the Executive branch. I was firmly met with a ridiculous comment about how she worked for the Federal government for 15 years. She did and she made something like $5 an hour answering phones somewhere which I don't really think qualifies her to make such comments.
Now this whole fiasco was very embarrassing and I got a nice apology about it yesterday but it's not the first time I've seen things like this. I know there's a religious slant here but let me move on to the financial one.
I'm going to assume that a lot of the crazy things I hear are talking points on talk radio. When I hear something about money wasted on a limousine I can pretty much guess that they didn't come up with this on their own. I have casually mentioned over and over again the the real issues are not these small dollar amounts but bigger things such as Medicare/Medicaid, Education, Military Spending, Social Security, Tort Reform, etc. These issues generally get blown off though. I was recently met with a "Nobody should go to college since Americans are already passing up on hundreds of thousands of jobs". Now I had no idea what she was talking about but apparently she felt that nobody is too good for a job and someone who used to make $100,000 a year should not hold out for a job when there's a perfectly reasonable $8/hr job out there waiting for them. It's really tough for me to swallow this kind of thinking so I generally respond with something about us needing to create more high end jobs instead of catering to the lowest common denominator. Now in this particular case I was met with a rant about the audacity of cities around the country being forced to have $10/hr minimum wage as if that's some kind of crime. When I point out that our minimum wages, even at $10/hr, are barely livable wages. You might be able to get by in the Midwest but it would be by the skin of your teeth. It's not something we should aspire to. The moment you start taking your experienced, educated, and skilled workers and having them "pick strawberries" as she suggested is the moment you're in real trouble.
Been met all too often with "I don't read the news. If there's something I need to know then someone will tell me. I don't want to hear about all these murders and bad news everyday." This one really scares me. These people, and some of them are my friends, are downright ignorant. Scary ignorant. They're pretty much getting all their information from facebook updates and talk radio and this is making them very uninformed.
Basically, I feel like we have a system in place that is currently dividing and conquering by following a simple formula:
All news outlets should report doomsday material and shock news rather than objectively discuss current events. This will make people less likely to read the news and if they do they won't get any useful information. Rather than discuss big relevant issues we get diverted with stories about shootings or Benghazi. Why discuss our failing education system when we can discuss 4 deaths in Libya? Rather than discuss hard issues we get talking points about limousines and use derogatory terms to describe people. Think about how often you hear "Progressive, Liberal, or Right Wing". It's very important that we dehumanize who we're talking to or about.
What are we left with? We're left with incredibly uninformed people who are getting bad information from talk radio, church, and facebook and meanwhile the middle class erodes, the rich get richer, we have dynasties of politicians in office, fewer people vote, and the real problems never get solved.
Think about it if you were rich and had power. What possible benefit would it be for you to have tort reform, improve social security, reduce military spending, increase literacy rates, bring people out of poverty, strengthen the middle class, etc? None. In fact you want these things to fail since you want cheaper labor and more money in your own pocket. If you don't have to give people benefits, higher salaries, and can simply sue people out of existence you're in great shape.
First we had a gay couple over for dinner along with a bunch of other friends as a kind of welcome party.
Her: "Tonight is going to be real tough for me"
Me: "Why, I'll speak English and so will others. You'll be fine."
Her: "That's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about them"
I left the room disgusted that people still think like this.
There was lots of "They need more religion in their lives" or "If they had religion in their lives they wouldn't have this problem". This lady in particular only had friends from church and this was her world view.
During a discussion about why I left the USA to live in Europe I simply responded "Because I'm European" so as to not get into a long convoluted conversation that I wasn't interested in having. I was immediately met with "America is going to hell because of the black man". I tried to avoid this obviously racist comment with "I love my country but want to live in Europe now". She kept going on about the "black man" as if I was supposed to understand that this was the problem. I played dumb to call her out and said "I don't know what you're talking about". "Oh you know. That black man in the white house".
This devolved quickly into a comment "You don't want to hear this (since I had blown off all her religious comments) but I firmly believe that Obama is the anti-christ". Now I'm not familiar with what the Anti Christ really is to religious people (or anyone for that matter) but I calmly said "What evidence do you have to support that Obama is the anti-Christ?". She then went into a tirade about how Obama wastes money and has too many limousines and people working for him in the white house and this is the reason that the economy is in the dumps. At that point I wasn't really sure how to respond but I gently pointed out that all Presidents have staff and motorcades and so do all other world dignitaries. Furthermore I pointed out that Congress is in charge of paying our bills so she should look at the Legislative branch a bit closer before going on about the Executive branch. I was firmly met with a ridiculous comment about how she worked for the Federal government for 15 years. She did and she made something like $5 an hour answering phones somewhere which I don't really think qualifies her to make such comments.
Now this whole fiasco was very embarrassing and I got a nice apology about it yesterday but it's not the first time I've seen things like this. I know there's a religious slant here but let me move on to the financial one.
I'm going to assume that a lot of the crazy things I hear are talking points on talk radio. When I hear something about money wasted on a limousine I can pretty much guess that they didn't come up with this on their own. I have casually mentioned over and over again the the real issues are not these small dollar amounts but bigger things such as Medicare/Medicaid, Education, Military Spending, Social Security, Tort Reform, etc. These issues generally get blown off though. I was recently met with a "Nobody should go to college since Americans are already passing up on hundreds of thousands of jobs". Now I had no idea what she was talking about but apparently she felt that nobody is too good for a job and someone who used to make $100,000 a year should not hold out for a job when there's a perfectly reasonable $8/hr job out there waiting for them. It's really tough for me to swallow this kind of thinking so I generally respond with something about us needing to create more high end jobs instead of catering to the lowest common denominator. Now in this particular case I was met with a rant about the audacity of cities around the country being forced to have $10/hr minimum wage as if that's some kind of crime. When I point out that our minimum wages, even at $10/hr, are barely livable wages. You might be able to get by in the Midwest but it would be by the skin of your teeth. It's not something we should aspire to. The moment you start taking your experienced, educated, and skilled workers and having them "pick strawberries" as she suggested is the moment you're in real trouble.
Been met all too often with "I don't read the news. If there's something I need to know then someone will tell me. I don't want to hear about all these murders and bad news everyday." This one really scares me. These people, and some of them are my friends, are downright ignorant. Scary ignorant. They're pretty much getting all their information from facebook updates and talk radio and this is making them very uninformed.
Basically, I feel like we have a system in place that is currently dividing and conquering by following a simple formula:
All news outlets should report doomsday material and shock news rather than objectively discuss current events. This will make people less likely to read the news and if they do they won't get any useful information. Rather than discuss big relevant issues we get diverted with stories about shootings or Benghazi. Why discuss our failing education system when we can discuss 4 deaths in Libya? Rather than discuss hard issues we get talking points about limousines and use derogatory terms to describe people. Think about how often you hear "Progressive, Liberal, or Right Wing". It's very important that we dehumanize who we're talking to or about.
What are we left with? We're left with incredibly uninformed people who are getting bad information from talk radio, church, and facebook and meanwhile the middle class erodes, the rich get richer, we have dynasties of politicians in office, fewer people vote, and the real problems never get solved.
Think about it if you were rich and had power. What possible benefit would it be for you to have tort reform, improve social security, reduce military spending, increase literacy rates, bring people out of poverty, strengthen the middle class, etc? None. In fact you want these things to fail since you want cheaper labor and more money in your own pocket. If you don't have to give people benefits, higher salaries, and can simply sue people out of existence you're in great shape.
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