Originally posted by: moshquerade
"Nobody"? I have to disagree. There are plenty of members here who get treated with respect and are respectful.Originally posted by: So
Originally posted by: LolaWiz
To be honest, i did think it did help quite a bit. Maybe not in the day to day normal trolling or flames, but in general it did.
And, i do feel it was not just about respecting the women on here, but a mutual respect to everyone... the sad thing is, it should not have to had been said. The old "treat others as you want to be treated" still should hold true.
Nobody treats anyone with respect around here -- too many noobs who don't know who's who. Some of the trolls check their tongues out of fear these days, but it's easy to see the same old shenanigans seething right below the surface in those cases.
I guess I've been on plenty of boards where it is ALOT worse than here. So find this place pretty tame.Originally posted by: So
Originally posted by: moshquerade
"Nobody"? I have to disagree. There are plenty of members here who get treated with respect and are respectful.Originally posted by: So
Originally posted by: LolaWiz
To be honest, i did think it did help quite a bit. Maybe not in the day to day normal trolling or flames, but in general it did.
And, i do feel it was not just about respecting the women on here, but a mutual respect to everyone... the sad thing is, it should not have to had been said. The old "treat others as you want to be treated" still should hold true.
Nobody treats anyone with respect around here -- too many noobs who don't know who's who. Some of the trolls check their tongues out of fear these days, but it's easy to see the same old shenanigans seething right below the surface in those cases.
True. I meant the general populace -- as a percentage, the noobs/casual posters who are full of vitriol and rhetoric are far more numerous than the kind ones, IMO -- but it could be a case of 'the great silent majority', the noisy ones drowning my impression.
I guess I've been on plenty of boards where it is ALOT worse than here. So find this place pretty tame.Originally posted by: moshquerade
True. I meant the general populace -- as a percentage, the noobs/casual posters who are full of vitriol and rhetoric are far more numerous than the kind ones, IMO -- but it could be a case of 'the great silent majority', the noisy ones drowning my impression.
Originally posted by: So
Originally posted by: moshquerade
"Nobody"? I have to disagree. There are plenty of members here who get treated with respect and are respectful.Originally posted by: So
Originally posted by: LolaWiz
To be honest, i did think it did help quite a bit. Maybe not in the day to day normal trolling or flames, but in general it did.
And, i do feel it was not just about respecting the women on here, but a mutual respect to everyone... the sad thing is, it should not have to had been said. The old "treat others as you want to be treated" still should hold true.
Nobody treats anyone with respect around here -- too many noobs who don't know who's who. Some of the trolls check their tongues out of fear these days, but it's easy to see the same old shenanigans seething right below the surface in those cases.
True. I meant the general populace -- as a percentage, the noobs/casual posters who are full of vitriol and rhetoric are far more numerous than the kind ones, IMO -- but it could be a case of 'the great silent majority', the noisy ones drowning my impression.
Originally posted by: dirtboy
The change only happened because a high posting woman complained to her now husband moderator about how it was here, so to make her happy she is now a mod who is trying to make a place that started as a male centric forum into one that is female friendly.
It hasn't worked other than to see the mods make fools out of themselves.
There are plenty of forums... I say let this one be what it is and just worry about moderating the people that really need it.
Now we're not a blog, but I'm sure if you looked at the basis of most posts, they are somewhat blog in nature.
This shouldn't come to anyone as a suprise. When you get a bunch of old cronies together to moderate a youthful forum, you get this.
Of course the hypocracy of the moderating staff is a whole seperate issue...
Originally posted by: loki8481
what change of culture?
Originally posted by: Mucho
Originally posted by: loki8481
what change of culture?
Yea, when did it happen
Originally posted by: Fausto
Yes, people left and the forums got really, really boring.
Originally posted by: acemcmac
Originally posted by: Fausto
Yes, people left and the forums got really, really boring.
You still post? Haven't seen you in a while...
Originally posted by: yllus
Would be nice to get a sizeable batch of new moderators added, and to for once and for all time spell out a list of rules to be pinned in OT and all other forums. I agree that people should simply act out of common sense, but that's not quite a fair statement when you have some old members basically trolling and getting away with it - displaying an example of behaviour that a newcomer would expect to get away with him/herself. With a discrete list of rules, they can override that impression and go by the rulebook instead.
Originally posted by: rh71
didn't get any worse.
I'll tell you what though... this has never been a place where you could say to your gf... come join AT and be yourself... she could be called a big fvckin' idiot within 10 posts. There's no "friendly" atmosphere to speak of... and that's pretty sad. Pins & needles.
Originally posted by: yllus
...and to for once and for all time spell out a list of rules to be pinned in OT and all other forums.
I fully concur with the above assessment.Originally posted by: Platypus
oh snap
but then some came back.Originally posted by: Fausto
Yes, people left and the forums got really, really boring.
