Decline in people wearing suits and is it a bad thing?

[NetWareHead]

Couldn't agree with you more. It's a sign that the event is important to you to take the time to get dressed in a nice suit.

I also agree. It does show the event is important to the person and you didn't just roll out of bed and show up. My sister got married and everyone was in suits, a nicely dressed crowd of people. Then we had this one asshole that shows up in a Hawaiian shirt and khakis. Wtf dude, where is the respect for the event, the people getting married and the church it was held in?

 

[surfsatwerk]

That's another thing, I don't do churches.

 

[JulesMaximus]

I also agree. It does show the event is important to the person and you didn't just roll out of bed and show up. My sister got married and everyone was in suits, a nicely dressed crowd of people. Then we had this one asshole that shows up in a Hawaiian shirt and khakis. Wtf dude, where is the respect for the event, the people getting married and the church it was held in?

My sister and her husband got married on a beach in NC. I don't think anyone even had shoes on and there were no ties anywhere. :biggrin:

 

[Jeeebus]

Rocking a sexy suit today.Never like putting on a tie, but you may as well look good doing it.

 

[Oyeve]

I wish double-breasted suits would come back. I have around 4. I loved the guido look.

 

[Red Storm]

I've never worn a suit to a funeral. I wear slacks and a dress shirt. I think the dude who looks like he spent more time picking out his outfit and slicking his hair than he did thinking about the person who died comes off as a douche.

Wedding attire is kinda up to the couple getting married. I've seen invitations that specify what to wear, cause some are in churches, others on the beach, etc.

Job interview I will wear a suit.

 

[alien42]

fuck suits, never worn one and never plan to. you know, it is possible to dress up and look presentable and respectable without a monkey suit.

 

[NetWareHead]

My sister and her husband got married on a beach in NC. I don't think anyone even had shoes on and there were no ties anywhere. :biggrin:

We are talking about two obviously different atmospheres. I would think that a wedding on a beach is far different than a church and to demand everyone wear suits is silly.

 

[Ryland]

The only time I put on a suit.

Those three and "a very important customer is coming in and I have to meet with them" are the four times I wear a suit. Other than those Im in jeans/tshirt 99% of the time.

Edit: I personally hate putting on suits and think the whole reasoning behind them "You can read a book by its covers" is stupid and I would love to see suits end up on the history pile.

 

[Broheim]

I wish double-breasted suits would come back. I have around 4. I loved the guido look.

oh they're back, I'm a two button man myself but I've seen the double-breasted around in the newer collections.

 

[nickbits]

Dressed up for me is a polo shirt. That's what I wear to weddings or job interviews. Never been to a funeral but I wouldn't wear a suit for that either. I hate dressing up so I don't do it unless absolutely necessary.
The only times I have worn a suit was when I was best man in my brother's wedding and for formal night on cruises.

 

[foghorn67]

oh they're back, I'm a two button man myself but I've seen the double-breasted around in the newer collections.

I do wish double-breated stayed dead. I am glad three-button is sticking around.

 

[Broheim]

I do wish double-breated stayed dead. I am glad three-button is sticking around.

I can wear a 3 button because I'm tall but I've always preferred a 2 button.

the double breasted is definitely the least versatile suit around, more for the highpowered CEO or gentlemen's club.

 

[Rakehellion]

But maybe I am slipping into the 'damn kids these days' phase of my life

Yep. Personally I wouldn't care if someone showed up to my wedding/funeral/job wearing ripped jeans as that has no bearing on who they are as a person.

 

[Rakehellion]

Suits are stupid. It's the Apple form over function model.

I don't think Steve Jobs was much of a suit-wearer.

 

[Schfifty Five]

Spending a large amount of money on a set of garmets you will rarely wear seems like a bad idea to me.

You can find good 3 piece suits for like $150 during sales at department stores (Macy's for example), and it will last you for years since you won't be using it too often.

Every guy should own at least 1 suit that fits.

 

[mammador]

yay, the inherent good in suits. let's go back to top hats, tricorns and long wigs 😉

That said, I've always wondered when the neck tie will go out of fashion. it's been over 100 years since it became standard.

 

[Murloc]

this guy (oscar giannino) expresses himself despite of the fact that he's always wearing suits:

 

[T9D]

People really have a lack of class and respect and it really shows these days. They don't want to even take pride in themselves either. But yet at the same time think they are to good to dress up and "conform".

Especially weddings, it's a special time. And lot of time, patience, money, and talent went into setting an entire mood for this special occasion. Then some clown shows up in crappy attire it just shows a lack of respect and ruins the whole feel and flow of it. It's like having a beautifully done shakespeare play and some clown shows up honking his own horn.

Same with funerals. It brings dignity and respect to the occasion. You took the time to get dressed up and look nice because the person means something to you or how they mean to others. It's not YOUR day. It's other people's time. Show some respect to that or just don't go.

As far as church. This is becoming really bad these days. People showing up in shorts and shirts. Just rolled out of bed and went. You obviously believe in God. And believe he's the highest being in the universe or they wouldn't be there. But people can't even show enough respect to look presentable. You come before God and look like a slouch.

Sadly it's just a part of the downhill slide of Society. The product of "me first" generations. And the entitlement attitude.

 

[Gunslinger08]

I don't find formal wear appealing to wear or look at, but I know it's expected at the big 4, so I wear it for these occasions:
1. Weddings
2. Funerals
3. Job interviews
4. Churches

I don't wear a tie except to #1 and possibly #3. When I have to be presentable for work, I wear dress pants and a polo or button up shirt. I really don't understand businesses that require anything over business casual and I'm lucky to work somewhere that supports casual attire everyday. The color, material, and length of my pants/shirt (sleeves) doesn't affect my productivity. If anything, I'm more productive when I can wear what I want.

 

[T9D]

yay, the inherent good in suits. let's go back to top hats, tricorns and long wigs 😉

That said, I've always wondered when the neck tie will go out of fashion. it's been over 100 years since it became standard.

Ties are one of the best things about suits. The many styles and colors is what really makes them unique and interesting to wear. They can bring it all together and are what ultimately can give you the look you want. That's the one part that makes it interesting or even fun.

 

[alien42]

blah blah blah

you represent a big chunk of what's wrong with people today and i happily don't associate with people like you. btw, i have no sense of entitlement.

 

[shadow9d9]

only people who don't know how to wear a suit looks like a clone...

you can express yourself through a suit in so many different ways.

I've seen thousands. They are everywhere. You are a clone.

 

[shadow9d9]

Ties are one of the best things about suits. The many styles and colors is what really makes them unique and interesting to wear. They can bring it all together and are what ultimately can give you the look you want. That's the one part that makes it interesting or even fun.

Yes, wear a noose. It totally doesn't make you look like a fool.

 

[Gunslinger08]

People really have a lack of class and respect and it really shows these days. They don't want to even take pride in themselves either. But yet at the same time think they are to good to dress up and "conform".

Especially weddings, it's a special time. And lot of time, patience, money, and talent went into setting an entire mood for this special occasion. Then some clown shows up in crappy attire it just shows a lack of respect and ruins the whole feel and flow of it. It's like having a beautifully done shakespeare play and some clown shows up honking his own horn.

Same with funerals. It brings dignity and respect to the occasion. You took the time to get dressed up and look nice because the person means something to you or how they mean to others. It's not YOUR day. It's other people's time. Show some respect to that or just don't go.

As far as church. This is becoming really bad these days. People showing up in shorts and shirts. Just rolled out of bed and went. You obviously believe in God. And believe he's the highest being in the universe or they wouldn't be there. But people can't even show enough respect to look presentable. You come before God and look like a slouch.

Sadly it's just a part of the downhill slide of Society. The product of "me first" generations. And the entitlement attitude.

There is a thin line between taking pride in your appearance and vanity.

As far as dressing for church, I would not wear something that is too out of line with the tradition of the church, but trying to tie it back to respect for God is kind of stupid. You are not supported by the Bible - look up Luke 12:22-23 and 1 Peter 3:3-4. Basically, it doesn't make a shit what you wear.