Damn...stuff like this really gets to me. - Sad story inside...

shiner

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Cody's influence continues

by Dana Williamson
Associate Editor
The clock on the scoreboard showed 1:32 left in the fourth quarter as 8-year-old Cody Michuel Brown took his last breath at his home in south Oklahoma City.

Just a few miles down the road, the University of Oklahoma Sooner football team was putting the finishing touches on its 52-28 victory over Fresno State.

On the sidelines, Oklahoma head coach Bob Stoops, was preparing to leave the field with his victorious team. He wore his signature OU visor. But this week that visor sported a gold pin in the shape of a looped ribbon--a childhood cancer awareness pin given to the coach by Cody Brown.

Over the previous few weeks, Cody and the OU coach had become friends. Cody and his parents spent about 10 hours visiting Stoops and his nationally ranked Sooners one day on the Norman campus. Cody was one of the first to watch a practice at the team's new indoor practice field. He got to tour the Barry Switzer center, where OU's football trophies are displayed. He visited the weight room, where he tried out all the equipment. And he mingled with the players, and posed for pictures with them. He came away with an autographed football, a signed team jersey and enough memories to last a lifetime, however short that life might be.

The day before the Fresno State game--the day before Cody died--Stoops, his wife Carol, quarterback Jason White and defensive end Jonathan Jackson came to Cody's home for a visit. Carol Stoops, herself the mother of three young children, had called earlier asking if there was anything she could bring the family, if they needed her to bring some groceries.

As the group was gathered around Cody's bed, the youngster noticed Jackson was wearing the cancer awareness pin he had given him. He turned to Coach Stoops and asked him where his pin was.

"It's on my desk, Cody," Stoops replied. "I'm not as smart as J.J. I forgot to wear it."

But Stoops hasn't forgotten it since, wearing it on his visor at every game.

Cody was diagnosed with nueroblastoma, a childhood form of cancer, when he was 3. He had surgery to remove a tumor from his adrenaline gland and was cancer free for a year. However, the disease reappeared with five tumors in his abdomen. Two of them disappeared with treatment, and the other three were surgically removed. He remained in remission for two years and four months.

"We thought since he had been in remission for so long, we had beaten it," said his mother, Tammy.
But in January, Tammy noticed a large knot on Cody's head. She thought it happened when he slid down the stairs in a laundry basket, but after it didn't go away, and Cody had continued headaches, they headed back to the doctor where they received the news that the cancer had returned.

Cody, in his eight short years, lived a fuller life than many people do who live through adulthood. He was a firefighter for a day at the Newcastle and Oklahoma City fire departments. He was featured on a local news channel riding in a fire truck. He played in the outfield for the Moore Lions T-Ball team. He was a "pilot for a lifetime" at Tinker Air Force Base. He has a field at a ballpark in Moore named after him. He was given an American flag that was flown during Operation Enduring Freedom in Iraq. And he was posthumously awarded a game ball from the Oklahoma/Fresno State game.
"Cody was a big Scooby-Doo fan, loved to shoot his paintball gun, ride his motorcycle, play his playstation 2, work on his scrapbook, math, draw, take pictures, and most importantly, tell others about Jesus," said his mother, who is divorced from Cody's father, Rick, and married Mark Dennis a year ago. "Cody understood more than the average child."

His mother and stepfather said Cody had a passion for sharing Jesus.
"He had a calling," said Dennis. "He wanted to be a preacher. In fact, he and his friend, Perry, had plans to drive a monster truck with a trailer around the world telling people about Jesus."
Tammy said Cody told her that Jesus talked to him in his dreams.
"He said, 'Jesus is going to have me out there telling people about Him,'" Tammy recalled. "That made me think even more that Cody was going to get well."

She said while he was in the hospital, and she was keeping vigil by his bed, Cody told her that everything was going to be all right.

"If I die, I'm going to Heaven and play on the golden playground every day," she recalled him telling her.

"I don't know where he came up with that," Tammy said. "I never talked to him about things like that because I wasn't a Christian then."

But Cody's faith eventually led his mother, his father and his older brother to Christ.

Tammy was saved in December 2001, and joined Oklahoma City, Eagle Heights. That's where she met Mark Dennis.
Dennis said he was at a singles meeting at the church, and feeling very low. He was sitting by himself, when Cody came by and started a conversation with him.
"I noticed he was wise beyond his years," said Dennis. "I didn't know about his cancer at the time."
From that night on, Cody and Dennis became friends, with Cody begging his mother to let him sit with Dennis in church every week.
"I'm sure Mark fell in love with Cody before he fell in love with me," Tammy said.
Dennis, who is a singles teacher at Eagle Heights, had the privilege of baptizing Cody on April 21, 2002.
"When Cody met someone, he had two questions for them," Dennis said. "Do you go to church, and have you been baptized?"
Dennis said when they moved into their new house, Cody asked the next door neighbor if he went to church.
"He told me that Cody asked the question with such force that he knew it meant a lot to him, and didn't know how to respond, because he didn't go to church," Dennis said.
The day Cody died, his father, Rick Brown, called Tammy and Mark and asked if they were going to church the next day. He said he wanted to go with them. He made a profession of faith that day.
"Every weekend when his dad picked him up for a visit, Cody asked him if he had given his life to Jesus yet," Tammy said. "Cody told him, 'you don't have to clean yourself up. Jesus will do that.'"
Dennis had the privilege of baptizing both Cody's father and his older brother, Ricky, who also made a profession of faith since Cody's death.

Cody may not have lived to fulfill his calling to be a preacher, but he did have an opportunity to preach a sermon, along with his stepfather, to a congregation at Tuttle, First in August.
"He preached about David and Goliath, his favorite Bible story," said Dennis.
Dennis said, at one point, when he and Cody were leaving the hospital after one of Cody's chemotherapy treatments, and had visited with a young boy, who was also a victim of cancer, Cody asked him a question.
"Do you think God would allow me to take that boy's cancer, and I could beat it for him?"
"Cody told me I probably wouldn't know the answer to his question, and he was right," Dennis said. "But that's the kind of kid he was. He was willing to lay down his life for a friend."
At Cody's funeral service, where a 6-year-old boy was saved, Dennis told the packed church that Jesus touched and changed lives 2,000 years ago, and lives are still being changed because of His ministry.
"Cody was a follower of Jesus Christ, and although he only walked on this Earth for eight years, he touched lives," Dennis said. "If we follow Cody's lead, what he did during those eight years could continue to change lives.

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minendo

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Originally posted by: Kalvin00
cliff notes
If you don't want to read the whole post, don't click the damn reply button asking for cliff notes.

 

shiner

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Originally posted by: Kalvin00
cliff notes
Here's somce Cliff's Notes for you:

Read the damn story...it's not that fvcking hard!!! I'm sure you have to read every day when you're working the drive thru so this shouldn't be anything new. Sure it's a bit longer than the menu and not everything starts with Mc, but I bet you can get through it.

 

minendo

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Originally posted by: tennisflip
Originally posted by: amnesiac
Originally posted by: Kalvin00
cliff notes

A CHILD IS DYING OF CANCER YOU INSENSITIVE FVCKHAT.


Damn, maybe he has ADD and doesn't want to read it all. Wouldn't that make you insensitive. Chill dude.
BS. It's called laziness.

 

Kalvin00

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Originally posted by: shinerburke
Originally posted by: Kalvin00
cliff notes
Here's somce Cliff's Notes for you:

Read the damn story...it's not that fvcking hard!!! I'm sure you have to read every day when you're working the drive thru so this shouldn't be anything new. Sure it's a bit longer than the menu and not everything starts with Mc, but I bet you can get through it.

Thanks, but I don't have a job. (14)
 

geno

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Originally posted by: amnesiac
Originally posted by: Kalvin00
cliff notes

A CHILD DIED OF CANCER YOU INSENSITIVE FVCKHAT.

So he can't ask for a short version of a sad story? Not trying to be a smartass, but I don't see it as that big of a deal.
 

amnesiac

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Originally posted by: tennisflip

Damn, maybe he has ADD and doesn't want to read it all. Wouldn't that make you insensitive. Chill dude.

No, because anyone who has this "disease"* and insists on using it as a crutch and/or having others cater to their "special needs" is a complete retard. If he can't focus on a page of text then he shouldn't bother reading it at all.


*impediment
 

shiner

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Originally posted by: Kalvin00
Originally posted by: shinerburke
Originally posted by: Kalvin00
cliff notes
Here's somce Cliff's Notes for you:

Read the damn story...it's not that fvcking hard!!! I'm sure you have to read every day when you're working the drive thru so this shouldn't be anything new. Sure it's a bit longer than the menu and not everything starts with Mc, but I bet you can get through it.

Thanks, but I don't have a job. (14)
Then you should have plenty of time to do some reading. Try it, you might find that you enjoy it even more than beating off to the sound of your parents having sex.

 

flxnimprtmscl

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Originally posted by: amnesiac
Originally posted by: tennisflip

Damn, maybe he has ADD and doesn't want to read it all. Wouldn't that make you insensitive. Chill dude.

No, because anyone who has this "disease"* and insists on using it as a crutch and/or having others cater to their "special needs" is a complete retard. If he can't focus on a page of text then he shouldn't bother reading it at all.


*impediment

Agreed. If you can't stomach your way through a few paragraphs of text you should stick to books with pictures in them and look at nothing else.
 

flxnimprtmscl

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Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
Was mildly good writing up until the drenching of religious tripe

Alright, let me preface this by saying that I'm honestly not trying to be rude or start a flame war. Well, this will be rude but it's just because this reply pisses me off so much. Anway...

First off, I think you're missing the big picture. This isn't an attempt to earn a complement from you on how well it was written. Got that so far?

Second off, this article was about the things that were important to him. Not what is important to you. Still following me? So if you're really that worked up about hearing about the completely harmless dreams of a dead child you're truly a pathetic individual. I hope I didn't lose you somewhere along the way. Just in case I did in the spirit of a few of the last responses I'll sum it up in one line.

Cliff Notes: Grow the fvck up.

*Spelling Edit*
 

Platypus

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Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
Was mildly good writing up until the drenching of religious tripe

Alright, let me preface this by saying that I'm honestly not trying to be rude or start a flame war. Well, this will be rude but it's just because this reply pisses me off so much. Anway...

First off, I think you're missing the big picture. This isn't an attempt to earn a complement from you on how well it was written. Got that so far?

Second off, this article was about the things that were important to him. Not what is important to you. Still following me? So if you're really that worked up about hearing about the completely harmless dreams of a dead child you're truly a pathetic individual. I hope I didn't lose you somewhere along the way. Just in case I did in the spirit of a few of the last responses I'll sum it up in one line.

Cliff Notes: Grow the fvck up.

*Spelling Edit*


Spare me the fvcking guilt trip. The world sucks and then you die. Some apparently earlier than others. A thread was posted saying "sad story inside." So I read the story. Following me so far? Thus I commented on how it was written. I get turned off by the ending and now I'm an insensitive person? Also don't talk down to me, I am perfectly capable of engaging in a conversation.

Cliff Notes: eat a dick.
 

flxnimprtmscl

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Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
Was mildly good writing up until the drenching of religious tripe

Alright, let me preface this by saying that I'm honestly not trying to be rude or start a flame war. Well, this will be rude but it's just because this reply pisses me off so much. Anway...

First off, I think you're missing the big picture. This isn't an attempt to earn a complement from you on how well it was written. Got that so far?

Second off, this article was about the things that were important to him. Not what is important to you. Still following me? So if you're really that worked up about hearing about the completely harmless dreams of a dead child you're truly a pathetic individual. I hope I didn't lose you somewhere along the way. Just in case I did in the spirit of a few of the last responses I'll sum it up in one line.

Cliff Notes: Grow the fvck up.

*Spelling Edit*


Spare me the fvcking guilt trip. The world sucks and then you die. Some apparently earlier than others. A thread was posted saying "sad story inside." So I read the story. Following me so far? Thus I commented on how it was written. I get turned off by the ending and now I'm an insensitive person? Also don't talk down to me, I am perfectly capable of engaging in a conversation.

Cliff Notes: eat a dick.

"The world sucks and then you die"

Ahhhh, I see. Angst present. Translation: 'My life is a miserable hell so others should, and must, have the same'. Now I get it. The AIC and Tool lyrics should have tipped me off. Quoting stuff like that always seems to makes young, acne ridden, angst filled teenagers feel better about themselves for some reason.

Well, that's fine if you feel that way I guess. Maybe when you grow up a little more you'll understand that sh!ting on the dreams of a child doesn't make you cool, but rather just pathetic. You'll figure it out.


Also, if you'd like me not to talk down to you don't give me a reason to do so. It's really that simple.
 

Platypus

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Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
Was mildly good writing up until the drenching of religious tripe

Alright, let me preface this by saying that I'm honestly not trying to be rude or start a flame war. Well, this will be rude but it's just because this reply pisses me off so much. Anway...

First off, I think you're missing the big picture. This isn't an attempt to earn a complement from you on how well it was written. Got that so far?

Second off, this article was about the things that were important to him. Not what is important to you. Still following me? So if you're really that worked up about hearing about the completely harmless dreams of a dead child you're truly a pathetic individual. I hope I didn't lose you somewhere along the way. Just in case I did in the spirit of a few of the last responses I'll sum it up in one line.

Cliff Notes: Grow the fvck up.

*Spelling Edit*


Spare me the fvcking guilt trip. The world sucks and then you die. Some apparently earlier than others. A thread was posted saying "sad story inside." So I read the story. Following me so far? Thus I commented on how it was written. I get turned off by the ending and now I'm an insensitive person? Also don't talk down to me, I am perfectly capable of engaging in a conversation.

Cliff Notes: eat a dick.

"The world sucks and then you die"

Ahhhh, I see. Angst present. Translation: 'My life is a miserable hell so others should, and must, have the same'. Now I get it. The AIC and Tool lyrics should have tipped me off. Quoting stuff like that always seems to makes young, acne ridden, angst filled teenagers feel better about themselves for some reason.

Well, that's fine if you feel that way I guess. Maybe when you grow up a little more you'll understand that sh!ting on the dreams of a child doesn't make you cool, but rather just pathetic. You'll figure it out.


Also, if you'd like me not to talk down to you don't give me a reason to do so. It's really that simple.


Hmm, why don't you go try working in a children's hospital for 3 years, watching friends and patients die every day from cancer and other illness and tell me about growing up. Why don't you have to answer the question "Am I going to die?" from a tear filled 8 year old with no hair because he's dying of cancer. In fact, since you seem to know it all, why don't you find another avenue that I can use besides music to express how I feel when there is so little hope in the world. In fact, I'm a shade away from being 20 years old and I've seen more horrible things than you can even imagine, so I don't think I need your mindless, tired, and drawn out bullshit Kent. I think I've grown up far too fast as it is. Why don't you tell me how I should feel?
 

djplayx714

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Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
Was mildly good writing up until the drenching of religious tripe

Alright, let me preface this by saying that I'm honestly not trying to be rude or start a flame war. Well, this will be rude but it's just because this reply pisses me off so much. Anway...

First off, I think you're missing the big picture. This isn't an attempt to earn a complement from you on how well it was written. Got that so far?

Second off, this article was about the things that were important to him. Not what is important to you. Still following me? So if you're really that worked up about hearing about the completely harmless dreams of a dead child you're truly a pathetic individual. I hope I didn't lose you somewhere along the way. Just in case I did in the spirit of a few of the last responses I'll sum it up in one line.

Cliff Notes: Grow the fvck up.

*Spelling Edit*


Spare me the fvcking guilt trip. The world sucks and then you die. Some apparently earlier than others. A thread was posted saying "sad story inside." So I read the story. Following me so far? Thus I commented on how it was written. I get turned off by the ending and now I'm an insensitive person? Also don't talk down to me, I am perfectly capable of engaging in a conversation.

Cliff Notes: eat a dick.

"The world sucks and then you die"

Ahhhh, I see. Angst present. Translation: 'My life is a miserable hell so others should, and must, have the same'. Now I get it. The AIC and Tool lyrics should have tipped me off. Quoting stuff like that always seems to makes young, acne ridden, angst filled teenagers feel better about themselves for some reason.

Well, that's fine if you feel that way I guess. Maybe when you grow up a little more you'll understand that sh!ting on the dreams of a child doesn't make you cool, but rather just pathetic. You'll figure it out.


Also, if you'd like me not to talk down to you don't give me a reason to do so. It's really that simple.


Hmm, why don't you go try working in a children's hospital for 3 years, watching friends and patients die every day from cancer and other illness and tell me about growing up. Why don't you have to answer the question "Am I going to die?" from a tear filled 8 year old with no hair because he's dying of cancer. In fact, since you seem to know it all, why don't you find another avenue that I can use besides music to express how I feel when there is so little hope in the world. In fact, I'm a shade away from being 20 years old and I've seen more horrible things than you can even imagine, so I don't think I need your mindless, tired, and drawn out bullshit Kent. I think I've grown up far too fast as it is. Why don't you tell me how I should feel?

ownage
 

HonkeyDonk

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Originally posted by: amnesiac
Originally posted by: minendo
Originally posted by: amnesiac
Originally posted by: Kalvin00
cliff notes

A CHILD DIED OF CANCER YOU INSENSITIVE FVCKHAT.
Did you even read the first sentence?

What are you talking about? ;)

i think the person who wrote "did you even read the first sentence" was referring to the idiot who wrote "cliff notes?"

not to you amnesiac :)
 

flxnimprtmscl

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Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
Originally posted by: flxnimprtmscl
Originally posted by: CorporateRecreation
Was mildly good writing up until the drenching of religious tripe

Alright, let me preface this by saying that I'm honestly not trying to be rude or start a flame war. Well, this will be rude but it's just because this reply pisses me off so much. Anway...

First off, I think you're missing the big picture. This isn't an attempt to earn a complement from you on how well it was written. Got that so far?

Second off, this article was about the things that were important to him. Not what is important to you. Still following me? So if you're really that worked up about hearing about the completely harmless dreams of a dead child you're truly a pathetic individual. I hope I didn't lose you somewhere along the way. Just in case I did in the spirit of a few of the last responses I'll sum it up in one line.

Cliff Notes: Grow the fvck up.

*Spelling Edit*


Spare me the fvcking guilt trip. The world sucks and then you die. Some apparently earlier than others. A thread was posted saying "sad story inside." So I read the story. Following me so far? Thus I commented on how it was written. I get turned off by the ending and now I'm an insensitive person? Also don't talk down to me, I am perfectly capable of engaging in a conversation.

Cliff Notes: eat a dick.

"The world sucks and then you die"

Ahhhh, I see. Angst present. Translation: 'My life is a miserable hell so others should, and must, have the same'. Now I get it. The AIC and Tool lyrics should have tipped me off. Quoting stuff like that always seems to makes young, acne ridden, angst filled teenagers feel better about themselves for some reason.

Well, that's fine if you feel that way I guess. Maybe when you grow up a little more you'll understand that sh!ting on the dreams of a child doesn't make you cool, but rather just pathetic. You'll figure it out.


Also, if you'd like me not to talk down to you don't give me a reason to do so. It's really that simple.


Hmm, why don't you go try working in a children's hospital for 3 years, watching friends and patients die every day from cancer and other illness and tell me about growing up. Why don't you have to answer the question "Am I going to die?" from a tear filled 8 year old with no hair because he's dying of cancer. In fact, since you seem to know it all, why don't you find another avenue that I can use besides music to express how I feel when there is so little hope in the world. In fact, I'm a shade away from being 20 years old and I've seen more horrible things than you can even imagine, so I don't think I need your mindless, tired, and drawn out bullshit Kent. I think I've grown up far too fast as it is. Why don't you tell me how I should feel?


You say that like I have no experience with cancer. For about a year and a half I watched, every day, as a good friend of mine who was like a father to me battle melanoma. He lost that fight on new years day of this year leaving behind, at 38, a wife and two young girls. I'd imagine watching someone you care about waste away is comparable to what you went though. Agree?

You had a tough life? So did I. I won't bore you with the details and I'm not after pity anyway so I'll just leave it there.

As far as your age... Were you looking for a cookie or something? I had to start growing up quick at 12 when my dad moved out. Even at my accelerated level of maturation I still grew up a HUGE amount between the age of 20 that you're at (almost) and the age of 23 which I'm currently at. You talk about growing up like it's a destination or something rather than a life long process.

Life goes bad for everyone at some point. That's not an invitation to start whining about how bad it sucks. Maybe you'd like to go sell those little girls I mentioned who lost their father your bullshit theory about how life just sucks and then you die. If you're interested I'll give you their number because I'm sure they'd just love to hear it. Despite losing one of the best dads I've ever known they're actually doing alright but I'm sure you'll set them straight right?