BoberFett
Lifer
Who is still looking to do that in this day and age? The science is pretty clear in showing that it leads to a worse prognosis for the kids, who are more disposed to being violent and dishonest as compared to kids who are not physically punished. I was spanked as a kid but I would never do that to my own kids.
Clearly you've turned into a violent monster after such abuse...

http://www.scientificamerican.com/article.cfm?id=to-spank-or-not-to-spank
The task force was not unanimous in its conclusion. Psychologist Robert E. Larzelere of Oklahoma State University argued that the research is flawed and that the evidence against spanking is “faulty.” In the few studies that have compared spanking with other forms of punishment, such as restriction of privileges, grounding and time-outs, all the punitive measures examined resulted in similarly negative outcomes in children, Larzelere said. He recom*mended that parents use spanking as a backup when gentler forms of pun*ishment are not working. “Premature bans against spanking may undermine loving parental authority,” Larzelere said.
I'm not claiming you should beat your children regularly for fun. I'm not even saying it should be the first choice. I'm saying it's a tool for parents. Sometimes a swat on the butt is what they need to know you're serious. I never had to with my daughter but, and I know this will come as a shock to you, every child is different.
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