Craving for human interaction

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digiram

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Apr 17, 2004
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Originally posted by: Agentbolt
Take a trip to the new Wegman's store, it's awesome.

Goddamn east coasters and your precious Wegman's. Why can't they move out here already? When I lived in NY the local Wegmans was basically my church.

I will trade Wegman's for Costco or Frye's any day.
 

krunchykrome

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Dec 28, 2003
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Originally posted by: moshquerade
Originally posted by: Agentbolt
really? what is it, some kind of store or something?

Not A store, THE store. Wegman's is the single greatest grocery store chain ever. Bar none. I will fight anyone who says otherwise. Anyone who's ever been to one will back up my claim.

it is the greatest. hands down.

pontifex, you sound like you are on the boat to Depression Island. :(

may i suggest you join a gym, get involved in an organization, do some volunteer work.

you need to be doing something besides work and the internet or else you are going to feel isolated and lonely... like you do.

The gym would be a good idea. Do something positive for your body with all of that time. And the money thing isnt an issue. Everyone can afford to join a gym.
 

jjzelinski

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Aug 23, 2004
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Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: manowar821
Go to a coffee shop and sit around looking for people who are also sitting around looking for people. Don't complain, if it bothers you so much, you'll leave your protective introverted shell and just strike up conversations with people. It's not that hard, and coffee is comforting, too.

what if i can't stand coffee? :)

oh, and right now's probably not the best time to be out meeting people since I can't talk properly because of the surgery I had on my mouth.

a positive personality attracts people and reduces the effort it requires to be social, which is nice because when social interaction is forced it becomes less-than-natural and generally sucks.

The reason I mentioned that is not because I'm selling self-help books door-to-door, but because from you numerous posts I've gathered that your attitude rather sucks. That's ok, it's natural. People tend to pride themselves on their ability to see the flaws in the world, but lifes a lot nicer when you take the time appreciate all the things that don't suck. It's unfotunate that this behavior is not natural to most of us, but if you make small efforts towards this everyday your percpetion of your world and therefor your ability to be a part of it will improve.
 

manowar821

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Originally posted by: jjzelinski
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: manowar821
Go to a coffee shop and sit around looking for people who are also sitting around looking for people. Don't complain, if it bothers you so much, you'll leave your protective introverted shell and just strike up conversations with people. It's not that hard, and coffee is comforting, too.

what if i can't stand coffee? :)

oh, and right now's probably not the best time to be out meeting people since I can't talk properly because of the surgery I had on my mouth.

a positive personality attracts people and reduces the effort it requires to be social, which is nice because when social interaction is forced it becomes less-than-natural and generally sucks.

The reason I mentioned that is not because I'm selling self-help books door-to-door, but because from you numerous posts I've gathered that your attitude rather sucks. That's ok, it's natural. People tend to pride themselves on their ability to see the flaws in the world, but lifes a lot nicer when you take the time appreciate all the things that don't suck. It's unfotunate that this behavior is not natural to most of us, but if you make small efforts towards this everyday your percpetion of your world and therefor your ability to be a part of it will improve.

QFT.

Also, coffee shops have more than coffee. :p
 

jjzelinski

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Aug 23, 2004
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Originally posted by: manowar821
Originally posted by: jjzelinski
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: manowar821
Go to a coffee shop and sit around looking for people who are also sitting around looking for people. Don't complain, if it bothers you so much, you'll leave your protective introverted shell and just strike up conversations with people. It's not that hard, and coffee is comforting, too.

what if i can't stand coffee? :)

oh, and right now's probably not the best time to be out meeting people since I can't talk properly because of the surgery I had on my mouth.

a positive personality attracts people and reduces the effort it requires to be social, which is nice because when social interaction is forced it becomes less-than-natural and generally sucks.

The reason I mentioned that is not because I'm selling self-help books door-to-door, but because from you numerous posts I've gathered that your attitude rather sucks. That's ok, it's natural. People tend to pride themselves on their ability to see the flaws in the world, but lifes a lot nicer when you take the time appreciate all the things that don't suck. It's unfotunate that this behavior is not natural to most of us, but if you make small efforts towards this everyday your percpetion of your world and therefor your ability to be a part of it will improve.

QFT.

Also, coffee shops have more than coffee. :p

You know I've got to admit though, sitting by myself staring at othe people sitting by themselves sounds a like a reaaaaally awkward thing to do. lol I know what you're saying, but I can't help but get the image of pont (though I have no idea what he looks like) sitting in some chic coffee bar staring at people and "waiting for friends to happen" out of my head :D
 

BurnItDwn

Lifer
Oct 10, 1999
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Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: Chryso
I wonder if we could get Pontifex on Queer Eye.

why would i want to be on that?

It would probably get you chicks? Even if it was just a pity fvck or two, I bet it would change your life for the better ...
 

oiprocs

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Jun 20, 2001
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Originally posted by: krunchykrome
Originally posted by: buck
You want to come over play halo 3? :D

When you guys are ready to play a real man's game, stop by for some Madden.

Sorry man, NFL2K owns Madden.

*praying that EA's license is not renewed after Madden 2010*
 

JEDI

Lifer
Sep 25, 2001
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Originally posted by: pontifex
I'm guessing its because there's hardly anyone here and really nothing to do, but I am really craving human interaction right now.

I don't get much face to face type interaction to begin with but for some reason I'm feeling really lonely right now. I'm bored out of my skull.

I believe its even affecting me at home as well, because I can't seem get into much of anything right now. I can't play a video game for more than a few minutes, TV shows or movies can't hold my attention.

this sucks!

your depressed

buy a revolver
put in a bullet
spin chamber
u know the rest

guarenteed to get you out of your downdrums
 

pyonir

Lifer
Dec 18, 2001
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Originally posted by: JEDI
Originally posted by: pontifex
I'm guessing its because there's hardly anyone here and really nothing to do, but I am really craving human interaction right now.

I don't get much face to face type interaction to begin with but for some reason I'm feeling really lonely right now. I'm bored out of my skull.

I believe its even affecting me at home as well, because I can't seem get into much of anything right now. I can't play a video game for more than a few minutes, TV shows or movies can't hold my attention.

this sucks!

your depressed

buy a revolver
put in a bullet
spin chamber
u know the rest

guarenteed to get you out of your downdrums

I'm such a failure i fired 5 times with nothing, and the gun jammed when trying to fire the 6th time. :(
 

StageLeft

No Lifer
Sep 29, 2000
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Sad. Get a hobby. And I don't mean fvcking video games. Go to the gym right now, get a membership and vow to get in shape and do a triathlon next year. Join a triathlon club. Take some rock climbing lessons. Pick a marathon to train for. You are doing what most people do which is burn up hours that turn to days, weeks, years and then you die and you've done nothing of merit. What is your passion? Get one and don't make it video games, they are the path to nothingness and a distraction. Use them when you are in the mood or otherwise winding down, but don't center your free time around them.
 

pontifex

Lifer
Dec 5, 2000
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Originally posted by: mattocs
Where at in PA are you? I live north of Pittsburgh.

45 minutes North of Harrisburg. So basically I have to drive minimum 45 minutes if I want to find anything to do, unless its something outdoorsy.

 

pontifex

Lifer
Dec 5, 2000
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Originally posted by: JEDI
Originally posted by: pontifex
I'm guessing its because there's hardly anyone here and really nothing to do, but I am really craving human interaction right now.

I don't get much face to face type interaction to begin with but for some reason I'm feeling really lonely right now. I'm bored out of my skull.

I believe its even affecting me at home as well, because I can't seem get into much of anything right now. I can't play a video game for more than a few minutes, TV shows or movies can't hold my attention.

this sucks!

your depressed

buy a revolver
put in a bullet
spin chamber
u know the rest

guarenteed to get you out of your downdrums

I didn't realize ATOT advocated suicide...
 

zinfamous

No Lifer
Jul 12, 2006
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Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: krunchykrome
eharmony?

and we come to another issue...women...i need one...

i did do the free thing at eharmony but they couldn't find a match for me in the entire world.
i have tried other sites as well, but never get any contacts and if i make the first contact, they never respond or say they aren't interested.


screw Eharmony, they're free on CL.
 

zinfamous

No Lifer
Jul 12, 2006
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Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: krunchykrome
eharmony?

and we come to another issue...women...i need one...

i did do the free thing at eharmony but they couldn't find a match for me in the entire world.
i have tried other sites as well, but never get any contacts and if i make the first contact, they never respond or say they aren't interested.

Are you at all surprised. I haven't met you in person but from what you've told us of yourself in your 20k + postings......I can't recall a single quality about you that anyone would find remotely attractive. So you can do as others have said before.......improve yourself and your circumstances or continue you to whine and post here looking for pity.

no, i was actually surprised it took you so long to post it.

i'm not posting looking for pity. i'm trying to start discussion because bored.


I don't know about that. the OP was driven by self-pity.
Try Myspace?