Originally posted by: jjzelinski
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: manowar821
Go to a coffee shop and sit around looking for people who are also sitting around looking for people. Don't complain, if it bothers you so much, you'll leave your protective introverted shell and just strike up conversations with people. It's not that hard, and coffee is comforting, too.
what if i can't stand coffee?
oh, and right now's probably not the best time to be out meeting people since I can't talk properly because of the surgery I had on my mouth.
a positive personality attracts people and reduces the effort it requires to be social, which is nice because when social interaction is forced it becomes less-than-natural and generally sucks.
The reason I mentioned that is not because I'm selling self-help books door-to-door, but because from you numerous posts I've gathered that your attitude rather sucks. That's ok, it's natural. People tend to pride themselves on their ability to see the flaws in the world, but lifes a lot nicer when you take the time appreciate all the things that don't suck. It's unfotunate that this behavior is not natural to most of us, but if you make small efforts towards this everyday your percpetion of your world and therefor your ability to be a part of it will improve.