Spend your bored time searching for a place you can volunteer...a soup kitchen, reading to the elderly anything........that would be better use of your time than your pity me, whiney postings.
Spend your bored time searching for a place you can volunteer...a soup kitchen, reading to the elderly anything........that would be better use of your time than your pity me, whiney postings.
Not A store, THE store. Wegman's is the single greatest grocery store chain ever. Bar none. I will fight anyone who says otherwise. Anyone who's ever been to one will back up my claim.
That was the same thing I thought until I hit up my first Wegman's in Cornell. It's tough to explain, you'd just have to go in one to understand.
You and me. 3 o'clock, flagpole outside the school. WHAT DO YOU WANT ON YOUR TOMBSTONE?!?!?!
Iceberg, I'm by no means a fan of Pontifex. He gives as good here, so he should be able to take it back. Still though, when you hit a slump like this it's easier said than done to "Snap out of it and make it better.".
OP, we all hit slumps. Me personally I usually go through something similar once a year or so, but it's self induced. I reach a point where I'm SICK of human interaction and I just withdraw. Don't feel like talking to friends, don't feel like going out, don't feel like putting in work on a relationship or tail chasing.
You gotta change your patterns somehow. Do the fight club thing and just start showing up to random support groups. I actually thought about doing this last night as I took my son to the local church for his cub scout meeting. In the room next door was a support group meeting of some kind (couldn't figure out what). There were a few smoking hot girls in there. Aptly enough I was in a church at the time I prayed it was a sex addicts support group, but knowing my luck it's "living with herpes" or some crap like that.
Either way no one here's gonna help you by doing this for you. You gotta take care of yourself.
OP, we all hit slumps. Me personally I usually go through something similar once a year or so, but it's self induced. I reach a point where I'm SICK of human interaction and I just withdraw. Don't feel like talking to friends, don't feel like going out, don't feel like putting in work on a relationship or tail chasing.
You gotta change your patterns somehow. Do the fight club thing and just start showing up to random support groups. I actually thought about doing this last night as I took my son to the local church for his cub scout meeting. In the room next door was a support group meeting of some kind (couldn't figure out what). There were a few smoking hot girls in there. Aptly enough I was in a church at the time I prayed it was a sex addicts support group, but knowing my luck it's "living with herpes" or some crap like that.
Either way no one here's gonna help you by doing this for you. You gotta take care of yourself.
Go to a coffee shop and sit around looking for people who are also sitting around looking for people. Don't complain, if it bothers you so much, you'll leave your protective introverted shell and just strike up conversations with people. It's not that hard, and coffee is comforting, too.
Come down to Toronto and I'll be your friend for $500/day.
Just to clarify, I don't mean friend as in sonz70. I don't swing that way.
Just to clarify, I don't mean friend as in sonz70. I don't swing that way.
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pontifex, you sound like you are on the boat to Depression Island.
may i suggest you join a gym, get involved in an organization, do some volunteer work.
you need to be doing something besides work and the internet or else you are going to feel isolated and lonely... like you do.
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