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cousin's husband turned out to be gay...

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My hot neighbor used to date a guy who was probably a repressed homosexual. She used to gripe about how he never wanted to get physical with her and kissed her "like he kisses his mother." One day she was complaining to me that he could probably come home & find her in lingerie in the kitchen and not do anything about it. I wanted to tell her that she could come cook half-naked in my kitchen any time...
 
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OP: Your cousin should get tested ASAP. Cowardly closet cases are likely to make a lot of other dumb decision like have unprotected sex on the down-low.
 
He just finally had enough of the lie most likely. Thought he could try so called "normal" and was only able to take it so long. Now he wants to be who he truely is. Sucks for the wife though.
 
SagaLore said:
The American family was destroyed as soon as we became an industrialized nation.

The only time we really had an American family was when a guy and a girl nearly killed themselves trying to farm new land and lost half their kids to stupid diseases. You were too busy trying to stay alive to care much about your own personal needs, while procreating without any form of birth control was your only retirement plan.

The ideal American family unit has been a figment of our collective imaginations.
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That's a nice positive outlook. 😎
 
NikolaeVarius said:
Just another example of how making homosexual marriage legal is destroying the American family by making divorce and remarriage to another partner even easier.
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or perhaps if gay marriage is legal he would not have married her, rendering the divorce non existent?
 
Fritzo said:
Of course they don't suddenly wake up one day and realize they're ga.....hmmmm, some penis sounds really good right now.
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Rugby Player Has Stroke, Wakes Up Gay 😛

Chris Birch, 26, told the UK's Daily Mail that after he awoke from a stroke he suffered after trying to do a flip at the gym (and failing, and breaking his neck): "It sounds strange but when I came round I immediately felt different."
"I wasn't interested in women any more. I was definitely gay."
"I had never been attracted to a man before -- I'd never even had any gay friends. But I didn't care about who I was before, I had to be true to my feelings."
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It's most likely the person finally grew up enough to be his own man instead of what others want him to be.

The shedding of oppression.
 
ichy said:
OP: Your cousin should get tested ASAP. Cowardly closet cases are likely to make a lot of other dumb decision like have unprotected sex on the down-low.
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???

Anything to back up your claims?

"Cowardly closet cases" is a weird term.
 
I was chatting with my cousin last night. One of his best friends just recently came out. The kid (19 y/o) was immediately disowned by his family and they're preaching about how the fires of hell are waiting for him.

OP, gays stuck in an environment like that often end up repressing it 'til they turn out like your ex cuz-in-law.
 
lxskllr said:
A lot of it is due to religion. I imagine some hope to get through life as "normal", and then bail part way through. They were gay all along, whether they cared to recognize that or not.
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You're one of those people that's all "I don't understand it, therefore, Religion" aren't you.
 
Sometimes I believe in these situations the person may have experimented and just like being with a same sex person better.
 
classy said:
Sometimes I believe in these situations the person may have experimented and just like being with a same sex person better.
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Might just be kinky too. I have two friends from college that I later found out went both ways because they were into freaky sex. Maybe lack of love while growning up or something, not sure. They had no interest in having relationships with males, but liked dude sex.
 
SillyOReilly said:
He's been sucking dick on the downlow from the beginning.
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Tell the wife (ex-wife?) to check internet history for craigslist ads...

If you ever want to read some funny/fucked up shit, check out Craigslist casual encounters and the m4m section for your city. There are so many "I love to suck dick/get fucked, but my wife/gf doesn't know. I want to just come to your place or meet somewhere in public to suck you off/have you bang me."
 
Let me guess, he's a hot looking guy, which is why the lady fell for him in the 1st place. Nothing wrong with physical attraction. But something is really wrong when she didn't pick-up hints that he's super gay while he was kissing his "best friend" on the mouth, or checking out guy asses while going out, or come home after a night out with the guys with a bruised anus.
 
DisgruntledVirus said:
Tell the wife (ex-wife?) to check internet history for craigslist ads...

If you ever want to read some funny/fucked up shit, check out Craigslist casual encounters and the m4m section for your city. There are so many "I love to suck dick/get fucked, but my wife/gf doesn't know. I want to just come to your place or meet somewhere in public to suck you off/have you bang me."
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In Maryland there's an old abandoned fort (Fort Armistead for those who're curious) that's somehow turned into a cruising spot for gay men. I took a girl there on a date once (I only knew about the fort at the time, not the cruising bit!) and there were all these middle aged guys just kind of hanging around. It was extremely weird. To add to the odd atmosphere there's also a feral cat colony there, so there were all these stray cats to go with the suburban closet cases.
 
DisgruntledVirus said:
Tell the wife (ex-wife?) to check internet history for craigslist ads...

If you ever want to read some funny/fucked up shit, check out Craigslist casual encounters and the m4m section for your city. There are so many "I love to suck dick/get fucked, but my wife/gf doesn't know. I want to just come to your place or meet somewhere in public to suck you off/have you bang me."
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I'd bet that a good portion of those are fake, though.

there's a total "forbidden fruit" thing going on.

if I were desperate for a hookup like that, I bet my post responses would go up dramatically if I just dropped a line like "my girlfriend is out of town and I really want to try experimenting with a guy"
 
ichy said:
Craigslist is passe. According to Dan Savage the action nowadays is on Grindr & similar places.
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it's definitely for the older crowd who doesn't know better.

at least in NYC, it's all about grindr or its app/website-based clones like adam4adam.
 
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