Sgt Pepper, I phrased it inappropriately. According to several cost calculators that I looked at, I would have to make $100,000 in NY, NY to maintain the same standard of living that I have here in Iowa off of $45,000.
Workin', $45,000 might not sound like much, but when I can buy a brand new house w/ over 2500 square foot and a two stall garage for $135,000 and then only pay 1500 a year in property taxes, in all considerations, Iowa is a much cheaper place to live than most other places. What sort of house can you buy in Milwaukee for 135k? What does your car insurance run there? How about state tax and then city tax?
Yeh, $45,000 might sound small compared to $75,000, but when my car insurance is $1500 cheaper a year, my property taxes are $1500 cheaper a year, and a mortgage runs $800 a month instead of $1600 a month, then $45,000 doesn't sound too bad does it? While I'm at it, I may as well mention that it only takes me 17 minutes to drive 15 miles instead of 20 minutes to drive 2 miles. As they say - time is money.
Also, take into consideration that I graduated with only a 4 year degree in a generic CS degree just 7 months ago.