College guys: how trustworthy are they?

[Hammer]

if you know the guy and he seems ok, then yes I guess it would ok.
Iif not, like has been suggested, meet him at the library or some other public place.
use your best judgement.

 

[randomlinh]

at the first sign of physical resistance, the guy should back off.. then you know she's not playing "hard to get."

but to the original question, I'd be weary... depending on what class this is. I mean, he could be genuinely trying to get to know you. but since he asked to go over to his place... i'd be leaning towards he's trying to get in your pants, or completely ignorant of what he just said. if after suggesting another location, and he continues to insist on his place... i'd say avoid him.

 

[Red Dawn]

Bring a bar of soap and some Stridex with you and you should be safe.

 

[Hayabusa Rider]

Remembering way back when, the typical male student was in this context as trustworthy as a cobra in your underwear.

 

[ElFenix]

Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Bring a bar of soap and some Stridex with you and you should be safe.

garlic and cross for pimple farmers, eh red?



go to a library. and not the top floor where no one would see you behind all the racks of books. though if the danger of getting caught appeals to you...

 

[dirtboy]

It it's a guy from ATOT you have nothing to worry about, because odds are they've never had sex, let alone touched a woman. If you're unsure, meet in a public place.

 

[Zenmervolt]

Originally posted by: MiataGirl
hypothetically speaking..if you're a girl, and a guy invites you over to his place and asks you to study..should you be cautious that he wants to do more than just study? i mean, i'm sure most of you guys here are nice and innocent, based on lots of posts that i've read..but i'm wary that not all guys out there are as altruistic as you all may be..

Personally, if I'm studying with a girl whom I don't know very well, I always suggest a public place to study (usually either the library or one of the quiet areas in the Union). It works for me because then I don't have to clean my dorm room, and it works for her because she's not nervous. I'd say that the girl should show a preference for a public place, and if the guy keeps insisting on studying in his room then the girl ought to be cautious.

ZV

 

[geno]

In general, we suck I'm one of the better ones, my gf will contend to that I'd say the odds of coming in close contact with a creep are slim, but they're there

 

[HeroOfPellinor]

Lets just generalize as much as possible here folks.

Have you BEEN to college? Guys get so much sex from girls who are "exploring life" that they come to feel they're owed it.

 

[cliftonite]

Instead of his room, why dont you guys study at a library or something?

 

[Azraele]

You might want to stick with the "better safe than sorry" idea. Perhaps you should make it a group study? Or study in a public place such as the library?

 

[Viper GTS]

Believe it or not the majority of guys (college included) are not assholes.

That being said, as a girl caution is your friend. Don't trust us until you know us, not because we're all out to get you but because there are a few that are.

As others have said, if you're not comfortable with him study elsewhere.

Better to be overly cautious than naive.

Viper GTS

 

[vi edit]

[Generalized response]

from one who was an RA -

DO NOT go alone into a football, wrestler, most basketball players or fraternity members room. Also, be advised of PE majors as well.

[/generalized response]

 

[TCPpacket]

i'm with the majority of the guys here. can't be too safe. just meet at a public place to study. you never knows what can happen these days.

 

[WinkOsmosis]

Originally posted by: Zenmervolt

Originally posted by: MiataGirl
hypothetically speaking..if you're a girl, and a guy invites you over to his place and asks you to study..should you be cautious that he wants to do more than just study? i mean, i'm sure most of you guys here are nice and innocent, based on lots of posts that i've read..but i'm wary that not all guys out there are as altruistic as you all may be..

Personally, if I'm studying with a girl whom I don't know very well, I always suggest a public place to study (usually either the library or one of the quiet areas in the Union). It works for me because then I don't have to clean my dorm room, and it works for her because she's not nervous. I'd say that the girl should show a preference for a public place, and if the guy keeps insisting on studying in his room then the girl ought to be cautious.

ZV

Union.. quiet places.. UT?
Those quiet places are nice.

 

[stev0]

why do girls always thing that all a guy is about is sex?! all i really want to do is cuddle... and know your feeling....

 

[WinkOsmosis]

Originally posted by: vi_edit
[Generalized response]

from one who was an RA -

DO NOT go alone into a football, wrestler, most basketball players or fraternity members room. Also, be advised of PE majors as well.

[/generalized response]

I wouldn't go anywhere with a PE major either. There is this one girl in my anthro section who is just plain scary.

 

[AShadeOfClear]

PE = ?

 

[pulse8]

hypothetically speaking..if you're a girl

Hypothetically? That sounds about right.

 

[Viper GTS]

Originally posted by: pulse8

hypothetically speaking..if you're a girl

Hypothetically? That sounds about right.

She probably is a girl, no guy could feign hatred of his own gender so well.

Viper GTS

 

[vi edit]

Originally posted by: AShadeOfClear
PE = ?

PE = Physical Education. Usually occupied by football players, basketball players, wrestlers. Not exactly the cream of the college crop.

 

[imported_Tomato]

Bring a friend from the same class along with you.

Peace,
Dezign

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: tcsenter

According to our orientation, 1 out of 4 girls at Ole Miss is raped or forced into having sex of some sort.

heh, yeah. More like, '1 out of 4 girls at Ole Miss get sloppy ass drunk and don't remember enthusiastically volunteering for a DP. The return of sobriety also marks the return of the inhibitions to and shame of engaging in such behavior, they almost cannot believe they did it, so instead of having to face the consequences of their own horrible judgement, they pretend it did not happen consentually.'

I saw that happen a dozen times.

College guys are no more or no less criminal than the general male population.

It's not as simple as that. Was the woman consenting and cognizant of her actions? I would say that if she wasn't completely aware of her surroundings, regardless of the answer she gave, actions like that are more easily construed as rape.

 

[Cyberian]

I have a real original idea - why don't you study at the library?

 

[gopunk]

Originally posted by: Zakath15

Originally posted by: tcsenter

According to our orientation, 1 out of 4 girls at Ole Miss is raped or forced into having sex of some sort.

heh, yeah. More like, '1 out of 4 girls at Ole Miss get sloppy ass drunk and don't remember enthusiastically volunteering for a DP. The return of sobriety also marks the return of the inhibitions to and shame of engaging in such behavior, they almost cannot believe they did it, so instead of having to face the consequences of their own horrible judgement, they pretend it did not happen consentually.'

I saw that happen a dozen times.

College guys are no more or no less criminal than the general male population.

It's not as simple as that. Was the woman consenting and cognizant of her actions? I would say that if she wasn't completely aware of her surroundings, regardless of the answer she gave, actions like that are more easily construed as rape.

i dunno.... what if both people are drunk... is that like mutual rape or something?

not to mention... girls know what's going to happen when they get drunk. unless they're somehow dumber than everybody else... yet they still do it. i can only conclude that they're just looking for an out... they can be as slutty as they want and blame it on the booze.