Clarification and Addendum to the "No Insults" Rule

Page 3 - Seeking answers? Join the AnandTech community: where nearly half-a-million members share solutions and discuss the latest tech.

Moonbeam

Elite Member
Nov 24, 1999
74,446
6,688
126
Correct, you use three or more paragraphs to insult and denigrate the positions you do not agree with whereas I summarized it into one sentence.

The result is the same, you insult and denigrate the positions you do not agree with whether it be with one sentence or three paragraphs.

Of course that's how it looks to you and the only thing you need to justify that you see things truthfully is your sense of truthiness, which can be said in a few words. I, on the other hand, have to show you your defective thinking by laying out the scientific theory, hypothesizing how you will respond theoretically, and then point to the results that what I said would happen did. You, by your defective thinking, gave me the shitty end of the stick. And I don't exactly disagree with your positions so much because they are not really reasoned views or actual positions, but statements of emotional certainty. You don't present positions but fantastical representations caused by defective thinking. You might profit, I don't know, by instead of going OMFG three paragraphs, and instead read them, think about them and give they some time to soak in.
 

cybrsage

Lifer
Nov 17, 2011
13,021
0
0
You, by your defective thinking...

You just proved my point. When faced with a view you disagree with, you insult and denigrate. It is what you do, you just like to use several paragraphs to do it so you can feel good about doing it.
 

CallMeJoe

Diamond Member
Jul 30, 2004
6,938
5
81
You just proved my point. When faced with a view you disagree with, you insult and denigrate. It is what you do, you just like to use several paragraphs to do it so you can feel good about doing it.
You are either the master of the ironic post, or the master of the hypocritical post. I'm not yet sure which.
 

Moonbeam

Elite Member
Nov 24, 1999
74,446
6,688
126
You just proved my point. When faced with a view you disagree with, you insult and denigrate. It is what you do, you just like to use several paragraphs to do it so you can feel good about doing it.

But this is so unfair. You get to revel in your martyrdom complex with all the joy of outrage and all I get to do is shake my head.
 

Dude111

Golden Member
Jan 19, 2010
1,495
5
81
I always say this

"YOU CAN ATTACK THE IDEA BUT NOT THE PERSON"

If you can stick to this,there shouldnt be any problems!
 

SNC

Platinum Member
Jan 14, 2001
2,166
202
106
I have to agree with the poster that titled this the "hurt feeling rule". Rules are created because of a perceived need to modify behavior, if you create a rule and then modify it because you find it to hard to enforce or didn't fit: the rule creator didn't have a grasp on the problem. That or the minions are just being assholes and are taking to extreme the letter of the rule to prove their point about it not being enforceable. (I have been known to be the latter when faced with a new rule I didn't agree with.)
 

Moonbeam

Elite Member
Nov 24, 1999
74,446
6,688
126
I always say this

"YOU CAN ATTACK THE IDEA BUT NOT THE PERSON"

If you can stick to this, there shouldnt be any problems!

"What a stupid idea."

Ideas can be like personality traits. You can attack them in a way that implies you are attacking the person. The problem I see is that some people offer ideas that apply reason to attack an idea, and some people just throw shit at the idea intending that shit for the idea maker. (See quoted above) And much of what is offered as ideas is parrot regurgitation and not ideas at all.

Thus we can have intelligent discussions between people open to other rationally presented ideas, what I think we would hope to see, and people angrily and often desperately defending sacred cows. Here the difficulty is that those who are defending sacred cows do not see it. They are in denial as to their motivation because it is invisible to them and it is invisible because they use the sacred aspect of their cows to ameliorate pain. For some folk, to think would feel like to die. How I see it anyway.
 

a777pilot

Diamond Member
Apr 26, 2011
4,261
21
81
Hi Folks,

In addition to the recently announced vacation penalty that are to be handed out for members who insist on posting insults and making personal attacks, we are instituting one more caveat to the "no insults" rule - only the person or persons being insulted by a poster may report the post/poster as far as the moderators are going to be concerned when it comes to enforcing the "no insults" rule.

Basically it will be aligned with the same way we handle the "no intentional misquotes" rule in which it is solely up to the individual being misquoted to decide whether or not the misquoting is a problem for them at a personal level. This is also how we generally manage member callouts in sigs.

So too is how personal attacks and insults in P&N will be handled going forward.

We are having too many third-party members reporting posts as being personal attacks only for us moderators to spend time contacting the two other parties involved and discover it was an inside joke/sarcasm/banter/etc.

So...please don't report posts as being insults or personal attacks unless you are the victim of the attack or insult.

This thread is being left open as an open mic thread for members to discuss the specifics of the enforcement "no insults rule". Please do not derail this thread. If you seek clarification on the rule then you may seek it here instead of Moderator Discussions.

Do not turn this thread into a mod-challenge/mod-callout thread, do not turn this thread into a member-callout thread.

Administrator Idontcare

Outstanding!

I for one, love insults (directed at me that is), especially if they are unique and well thought out.

That is one of the best polices I've seen on these forum sites. Thanks.
 

Moonbeam

Elite Member
Nov 24, 1999
74,446
6,688
126
Outstanding!

I for one, love insults (directed at me that is), especially if they are unique and well thought out.

That is one of the best polices I've seen on these forum sites. Thanks.

Comparing the OP and your response, I don't understand what you are saying. The idea of the OP seems to be to reduce the work load of other than those attacked reporting them. How does that relate to what you said. How does your love of attacks against you come into the issue? Want to help me understand?
 

LunarRay

Diamond Member
Mar 2, 2003
9,993
1
76
Comparing the OP and your response, I don't understand what you are saying. The idea of the OP seems to be to reduce the work load of other than those attacked reporting them. How does that relate to what you said. How does your love of attacks against you come into the issue? Want to help me understand?

While waiting for the Coaster one day I witnessed a person slam his fist into a concrete wall.. no doubt busting a number of bones... It's been awhile and I've not figured out if the pain he felt overwhelmed the anger or not... it was motivated by anger, I'm sure...
I'd have hit a balloon or brought a soft fluffy pillow but then I'm sure the anger would not have been overshadowed by the punching of the pillow....
 
Last edited:

Moonbeam

Elite Member
Nov 24, 1999
74,446
6,688
126
While waiting for the Coaster one day I witnessed a person slam his fist into a concrete wall.. no doubt busting a number of bones... It's been awhile and I've not figured out if the pain he felt overwhelmed the anger or not... it was motivated by anger, I'm sure...
I'd have hit a balloon or brought a soft fluffy pillow but then I'm sure the anger would not have been overshadowed by the punching of the pillow....

Under the anger was enormous sorrow and pain he wanted to feel in his hand rather than in his heart. The martyr takes a similar route as well as those who enjoy self flagellation or peeing into the wind. People seek abuse because the they are armed for it having lived their lives in that expectation. It is love that makes them crap in their pants and of course, at anybody who shows it.
 

LunarRay

Diamond Member
Mar 2, 2003
9,993
1
76
Under the anger was enormous sorrow and pain he wanted to feel in his hand rather than in his heart. The martyr takes a similar route as well as those who enjoy self flagellation or peeing into the wind. People seek abuse because the they are armed for it having lived their lives in that expectation. It is love that makes them crap in their pants and of course, at anybody who shows it.

I wonder what our friend Gurdjieff would think of our other friend who has all them 7's that he pilots about...

I'd think Gurdjieff would say that our friend's body is totally bound by the unconscious to the point where the conscious is simply asleep. Not to worry about an operation of the appendix.... even if he looked wide awake... he ain't. Quite unlike the Maharaja.
 

cybrsage

Lifer
Nov 17, 2011
13,021
0
0
Comparing the OP and your response, I don't understand what you are saying. The idea of the OP seems to be to reduce the work load of other than those attacked reporting them. How does that relate to what you said. How does your love of attacks against you come into the issue? Want to help me understand?

It really is rather easy to understand.

He likes well thought out and witty attacks upon him. Under the previous rules, such things would be reported by others (as they should have been) and the poster received infractions. Under the new rules, only he can report the person.

Therefor, if the insult is well thought out and witty, he will enjoy it and not report the person.
 

cybrsage

Lifer
Nov 17, 2011
13,021
0
0
And as masterfully demonstrated here, you do mentally. OMFG, Sometimes I just tickle myself pink. ;)


You only used two sentences, I am reporting your account as having been hacked. That is twice in the same thread you did not use several dozen sentences to say something.
 

Idontcare

Elite Member
Oct 10, 1999
21,110
59
91
Have X and Z been vacationed yet for abusing the <Report> button, or at least sanctioned? When I brought this up in the Open Mic thread, that a small number of people would bury you in complaints, either you or Perk said such behavior could also be sanctioned. It would seem to solve the problem without impacting all the other members who can handle themselves just fine without crying to moderators.

No, the situation was not limited to a handful of members using the reported post function in volume, it is a volume of members using the reported post feature in small numbers.

No one did anything wrong, it is just that the situation was untenable and something had to change.

Like I said, I really don't buy this. I can't think of one time I've seen this happen on this forum.
yeah, you are right, you called my bluff. I was just making all this up to entertain myself, ya know, because I have oodles of time to not only deal with the overflowing reported-post queue but also because I have oodles of time to make up stuff and take the time to post it up. You called me out, got me dead to rights.
Out of curiosity, how many posts did you report that had nothing to do with you?

Just to be clear, this isn't really about any one individual doing anything wrong or in excessive on their own. We aren't looking at 2-3 people abusing the system. The system simply isn't workable as it was implemented.

So we need to tweak it on the fly to see if we can make it workable. The alternative is even more extreme - mass bannings until the membership is pruned back to the volumes we can manage with the resources we are allocated, or we just close the subforum entirely and tell folks to go talk politics on another forum dedicated (and resourced appropriately) to servicing such discussions.

In the face of those two options we are currently choosing door #3, tweak the current rule and see if we can iterate ourselves to the point of something being efficient and functional.

If you folks try really really hard though, I am quite positive that you could succeed in convincing us that nothing short of the extreme alternatives are viable...as has always been the case, the community gets the subforum it deserves.
 

Idontcare

Elite Member
Oct 10, 1999
21,110
59
91
Just to put data to words, and to highlight just how out-of-balance the resource demands are for P&N versus all the other subforum combined, here is a pareto chart of the most recent 200 reported posts across the entire forum:

ParetoreportedpostsMay222012.png


This subforum consumes nearly half of all our resources allocated to the reported-post queue.

That is unacceptable for a number of reasons - including the fact that we are supposed to be a tech-facing forum, not a politics and news outlet, and our resource allocation ought to reflect our priorities as a business. Right now it is hard to argue that this is the case.
 

dank69

Lifer
Oct 6, 2009
37,049
32,362
136
I have an easier solution:

If you report a post in P&N you get an automatic ban. :D
 

fskimospy

Elite Member
Mar 10, 2006
87,616
54,563
136
Just to put data to words, and to highlight just how out-of-balance the resource demands are for P&N versus all the other subforum combined, here is a pareto chart of the most recent 200 reported posts across the entire forum:

ParetoreportedpostsMay222012.png


This subforum consumes nearly half of all our resources allocated to the reported-post queue.

That is unacceptable for a number of reasons - including the fact that we are supposed to be a tech-facing forum, not a politics and news outlet, and our resource allocation ought to reflect our priorities as a business. Right now it is hard to argue that this is the case.

Perhaps that is a sign that a reduction in moderation is the answer, not an increase? There are certain things that would clearly merit a moderator's response such as threats, blatant hate speech, spam, etc. Other than that, I would just let it be.

People already have ways of skirting most of the personal conduct rules. Instead of personally insulting someone they just make generalized insults that they know apply to the person they wish to antagonize, things like that. What constitutes a personal insult is a grey area anyway and will always require extra moderator time. Additionally, eliminating personal insults removes what I consider to be a valuable tool of community sanction for badly behaving members.

This 'no being mean' thing was a bad idea from the start.
 

cybrsage

Lifer
Nov 17, 2011
13,021
0
0
The problem is that with so many reports, they have to sift through all of them to find the ones which are threats, blatant hate speech, spam, etc.
 

Idontcare

Elite Member
Oct 10, 1999
21,110
59
91
This 'no being mean' thing was a bad idea from the start.

Considering that the "no being mean" thing is actually in the forum-wide posting guidelines because the forum owner wanted it there...I would not go down the path of saying it was a "bad idea from the start".

AnandTech Forum Guidelines said:
Do not use our Forums to post any material, or links to any material, which is knowingly false and/or defamatory, inaccurate, abusive, vulgar, hateful, harassing, obscene, profane, sexually oriented, threatening, invasive of a person's privacy, or otherwise violative of any law. Special exception to the restrictions on vulgarity and profanity are granted ONLY in the social forums. Additionally, special exception to the restriction on sexually oriented material is granted ONLY in the Love & Relationships forum.

The conclusion from the top would more likely be "since our forum is a tech forum, and we cannot allow hateful, harassing, obscene or threatening posts, and we cannot seem to provide people the opportunity to discuss politics and news without those same people degrading their environment to the point where it is no longer managable by our limited moderator resources, this 'lets have a P&N subforum' thing was a bad idea from the start".
 

fskimospy

Elite Member
Mar 10, 2006
87,616
54,563
136
Considering that the "no being mean" thing is actually in the forum-wide posting guidelines because the forum owner wanted it there...I would not go down the path of saying it was a "bad idea from the start".

Why not? Forum owners are just as capable of having stupid ideas as anyone else. It was a rule that clearly didn't function well in P&N which is why it was ignored for a long time. This new decision to enforce it again is, as I said, a bad idea from the start. Even if you continue to enforce it for now I anticipate it will eventually go away through moderator apathy. Instead of the on again off again moderation, I encourage a more consistent approach.

The conclusion from the top would more likely be "since our forum is a tech forum, and we cannot allow hateful, harassing, obscene or threatening posts, and we cannot seem to provide people the opportunity to discuss politics and news without those same people degrading their environment to the point where it is no longer managable by our limited moderator resources, this 'lets have a P&N subforum' thing was a bad idea from the start".

Well that clearly hasn't been the case for years, but if something has changed at the top then maybe you should close it down. If that were to be true however, I find it unlikely that you would have created it on the basis of a community vote. You're fighting against the very nature of political forums, it's silliness.