Lying comes so easily to your sort, as if their integrity had zero value, even according to themselves.
In any sort of legitimate system of justice, there's some attempt at making victims of crime whole. Via the perps of course if possible, but regrettably it falls to the responsibility of the the rest if not. Various minorities are rather special cases, the consequences of their historical subjugation plain not just in all data but plain to the naked eye. That's why this "affirmative" action your hatred of alludes to was created in the first place, due to the recognition that waiting for victims to be made whole with the passage of even more historical time was unconscionable to ethical people. So recognize that what you're paying today is the debt left by old bigots who we didn't feel compelled to particularly punish (by tracking down their heirs, estates, etc all who benefited from another tier of second class citizens), so if you personally don't feel so generous, you should support efforts to make the perps & such pay more of their share.