jews in germany or the cr@p in bosnia. we don't push our starbucks on people, they buy the coffee all by themselves if some get disgruntled, thats the price of progress, you can never make all people happy all the time. the backwards nations are the ones that are slow to adopt our values.
"The backwards nations are the ones that are slow to adopt our values"
That is the cause of september the 11th, IMO. Who are we to push our values everywhere? The biggest, most powerful nation in the world, that's who!!
"We help people all over the world, with billions of dollars in aid, and this is the thanks we get?"( I didn't read it in this thread, but I have heard it before

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Our aid ALWAYS comes with strings attached. The U.S. has never given freely without supporting some kind of agenda. Any thinking person in these countries has seen this as meddling in the affairs of another, and many resent it.
I am not espousing isolationism, merely trying to show another's viewpoint. The U.S. has meddled in the affairs of countless nations, supporting corrupt regimes because it suited our current cold war strategy, or politico-economic regional plan.
Then, we meddle some more, overthrowing the opressive and criminal governments we just helped establish!!
If you need names, do searches on Saddam Hussien, Manuel Noriega, "Papa Doc" Duvalier. Thes are just a few leaders the U.S. put into power, only to oust them later for crimes and human rights violations.
The cold war is over, but the repercussions will haunt us for generations. Our nation would do anything to counter the soviets, and there are generations of people all over the world who resent our involvement.
"So what? This is the most powerful nation in the world, and we are right, to boot!"
That kind of attitude will get our tourists killed, and cause neverending resentment around the world.
The only thing that will help is some very thoughtful study, and measured action. The U.S. cannot continue to manipulate the third world like they did in the 50's and 60's, and it will take generations for the aftereffects of our past policies to subside.
Edit: We haven't ousted Saddam
Yet