Caught my friend's gf in a lie, end of a 1 year relationship

[The Stigenator]

Okay .. from teh rules of leykis..

first why is he dating a single mother?

now that she has cheated.. leave her alone.. leave her the fsck alone.. just move on.. she isnt worth it. If she made the mistake of haivng a kid before, she will make it again.. and more so she isnt mature enough to have a kid.. just move on.. kidnap your friend and keep him away.. women like that are not worth it.

 

[spidey07]

hahahaha,

OP - you're friend is getting setup to get royally worked over. All the cards are setup and he is a willing participant in the all too common game.

you're right though...he deserves everything that is coming.

 

[Pepsei]

i'm sorry for using that word, i should've use something more descriptive to describe this person, like smelly vulva or rotting uterus (a major female reproductive organ of most mammals)

 

[mugs]

Originally posted by: Pepsei
i'm sorry for using that word, i should've use something more descriptive to describe this person, like smelly vulva or rotting uterus (a major female reproductive organ of most mammals)

Edit: What was the result of their "talk" from Update #2?

 

[jagec]

He's a male stripper,
She's divorced, with kids,
She's "very inconsistent"
Asked him to start using a condom, out of the blue, even with tied tubes,
Got caught cheating...twice...

Sounds like a recipe for a solid relationship to me.

 

[Polish3d]

LOL... well he's a young guy, he did stripping at 20, he's a personal trainer now.


They are pretty much over from what I can see... it seems likely she was cheating on him throughout the relationship. I wasn't around during the last year they were together but I suspect I would have caught it. He was blinded by infatuation to some extent... he was faithful to her the entire time also.

However, here is what happened in the last week, still pretty crazy ******.

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He trained her at the gym during their relationship. Apparently she really liked the results and was disappointed to lose them.

She asked him to meet her at the gym to talk and train about a week ago.

They do, then they go back to his house and apparently he f ucks her and they're talking about getting back together.

Before she leaves she asks him to email her the entire workout and eating plan, and says she'll call him that night.


She doesn't call. LOL ... They haven't spoken since...


So, she has now cheated on her NEW boyfriend who may have been her BF during the time my friend and her were together also (who knows), and it could be argued that she allowed him to "hit it" so she could get the workout plan.

In the last week he has done some thinking and realized that she probably has been cheating on him for a long time.

She went to Mexico last summer for a week and never called him, said she went with her "step-sister," whom my friend has never met and doesn't believe exists due to what he knows about her family.

She often used the step-sister excuse apparently... "I can't come over tonight, me and step-sister are going to do something."

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Anyway, my friend really showed some blindness here but its his first love and he'll learn from it I hope.

Really quite the saga.

I told him, man, girls are generally somewhat unstable as it is, and when you have a girl who is as screwed up as Eva is (her name), these results are not suprising.


I think he may finally be over her now enough to not try to get back with her.


lol

 

[AznMaverick]

damn, she is dumb, she should've come up with a better excuse than that...

 

[Pepsei]

is this the same person?