Caught my friend's gf in a lie, end of a 1 year relationship

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Toasthead

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haha nice... people never learn...you need to have your lies thought out WAAAY ahead of ever needing them.
 

Ilmater

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Originally posted by: Qosis
Haha, beautiful.
Ummm... I have to disagree here. She was clearly out cheating on him or otherwise having her fun on the side. That he found out only shortened the amount of time she could spend fvcking him over.
 

PingSpike

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Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
just a question....

How do you know that she did not leave the phone there and some workers got a hold of it? The place might have closed at 11PM but the workers would still be there cleaning up and doing sidework... if she called the place, after closing and asked for her phone... they would most likely let her pick it up... even after closing. You friend left her a message and did not actually speak to her so she might be pissed off that he did not trust her and wont call him back. And we would often wap up the music while doing stuff.

Not saying this is what happened... but is it possible?

And they waited around for 2 hours after closing for her to come back for it? And Applebee's sounds like a club after closing? It sounds highly unlikely that the girlfriend is innocent.

no, i am not saying that they waited for her. i know a lot of places that will still have employees on the premises for 2 hours after closing. because they close at 11PM, get everyone out by 11:30ish... then they have to clean their stations, roll their silver and do their sidework. that can take 1.5 hours more times than not.

i am not saying she is innocent. i dont know her, i was not there... but from reading the op, i am wondering if it is possible.

I might be willing to entertain such notions if she hadn't suddenly reinstituted a condoms policy with her boyfriend even though she has her tubes tied.
 

jlbenedict

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Originally posted by: Frackal
Originally posted by: ViRGE
Originally posted by: Frackal
I know; they were together for a year and she has her tubes tied so you can imagine there was a bit of unprotected sex, but thankfully they were using condoms lately according to him
She had her tubes tied? How old is she?

27 w/ 2 kids, divorced (not his)

Yes, I'm trying to keep her from taking her back (which he won't I'm almost sure), he said its ok to post a pic so I'll have one in 1 sec (non nude though sorry)


Seems like she is one of those women on the Maury show, claiming they slept with 50 guys, and she doesn't know who the father is type of hooch!!
 

PingSpike

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Originally posted by: jlbenedict
Originally posted by: Frackal
Originally posted by: ViRGE
Originally posted by: Frackal
I know; they were together for a year and she has her tubes tied so you can imagine there was a bit of unprotected sex, but thankfully they were using condoms lately according to him
She had her tubes tied? How old is she?

27 w/ 2 kids, divorced (not his)

Yes, I'm trying to keep her from taking her back (which he won't I'm almost sure), he said its ok to post a pic so I'll have one in 1 sec (non nude though sorry)


Seems like she is one of those women on the Maury show, claiming they slept with 50 guys, and she doesn't know who the father is type of hooch!!

I usually watch an episode of that show or Jerry Springer about once a month, just to boost my selfesteem.
 

minendo

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Originally posted by: Frackal
Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
Originally posted by: minendo
You and your friend are both tools. Maybe you should give him a reach-around the next time you see him.
I knew there was something I liked about you.
I never could quite put my finger on it.
;)


Maybe you could stick it up his ass instead

Is that how you and your dumped friend spend your weekends together?
 

olds

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Originally posted by: minendo
Originally posted by: Frackal
Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
Originally posted by: minendo
You and your friend are both tools. Maybe you should give him a reach-around the next time you see him.
I knew there was something I liked about you.
I never could quite put my finger on it.
;)


Maybe you could stick it up his ass instead

Is that how you and your dumped boyfriend spend your weekends together?
fixed

 

Ricemarine

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Originally posted by: PingSpike
Originally posted by: jlbenedict
Originally posted by: Frackal
Originally posted by: ViRGE
Originally posted by: Frackal
I know; they were together for a year and she has her tubes tied so you can imagine there was a bit of unprotected sex, but thankfully they were using condoms lately according to him
She had her tubes tied? How old is she?

27 w/ 2 kids, divorced (not his)

Yes, I'm trying to keep her from taking her back (which he won't I'm almost sure), he said its ok to post a pic so I'll have one in 1 sec (non nude though sorry)


Seems like she is one of those women on the Maury show, claiming they slept with 50 guys, and she doesn't know who the father is type of hooch!!

I usually watch an episode of that show or Jerry Springer about once a month, just to boost my selfesteem.

Where's the pic?
 

Polish3d

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Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
Originally posted by: minendo
Originally posted by: Frackal
Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
Originally posted by: minendo
You and your friend are both tools. Maybe you should give him a reach-around the next time you see him.
I knew there was something I liked about you.
I never could quite put my finger on it.
;)


Maybe you could stick it up his ass instead

Is that how you and your dumped boyfriend spend your weekends together?
fixed



Couldn't fantasize about the other version eh
 

kinev

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Originally posted by: dug777
Originally posted by: Amused
Originally posted by: Pepsei
what a see-u.n.t!

No matter how you "spell" it, it is still wrong. We warned the members about calling women this word, and now you have won a 2 week vacation.

Watchful Mod

Just curious... is there a genital slur you can call a man that gets one a vacation as automatically as this word does?

i doubt it ;)

Of course not, where would the double standard be in that?
 

Polish3d

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Pic is on page 2


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UPDATE::

Well, they have been dancing around each other for the past 3-4 weeks.. she continued to swear up and down that her story was true, and actually blamed him for the breakup... (not atypical female behavior.) ... so he decides against my advice to attempt to reconcile and he brought her a really nice bouquet of flowers and some balloons in front of everyone at her work, very romantic, well done...(this was yesterday)

Anyway, I thought things were looking up for them...


He swung by her house today to surprise her and ask her to dinner and to go to a place they that was special to them...

Anyway, apparently a 30-something year old guy answered the door, she came out and admitted that she's been seeing this guy for awhile...

So essentially she cheated on him, lied about it, lied about what she was doing that night, continued to lie by saying her story was true, lead him on and lied about having a bf, until he finally found out tonight...

I was out w/ some friends when he called and the guy was ****** bawling, I don't think I've heard him cry before, ever...


BTW, in my experience this pattern of behavior is not atypical of females... unfortunate really.


So that's how it ended.


 

gentobu

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Originally posted by: Pepsei
what a see-u.n.t!

No matter how you "spell" it, it is still wrong. We warned the members about calling women this word, and now you have won a 2 week vacation.

Watchful Mod
So a woman can cheat on a guy, lie about it, mess with his head, and it's still wrong to call her "that word"? Lame.:roll:
 

Polish3d

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TTT for anyone who read this earlier and would be curious about an update... the saga is probably most interesting to me obviously but what the hell
 

hypn0tik

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Originally posted by: Frackal
TTT for anyone who read this earlier and would be curious about an update... the saga is probably most interesting to me obviously but what the hell

So hurry up and update then.
 

Polish3d

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Update 1 for those who missed it:

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Well, they have been dancing around each other for the past 3-4 weeks.. she continued to swear up and down that her story was true, and actually blamed him for the breakup... (not atypical female behavior.) ... so he decides against my advice to attempt to reconcile and he brought her a really nice bouquet of flowers and some balloons in front of everyone at her work, very romantic, well done...(this was yesterday)

Anyway, I thought things were looking up for them...


He swung by her house today to surprise her and ask her to dinner and to go to a place they that was special to them...

Anyway, apparently a 30-something year old guy answered the door, she came out and admitted that she's been seeing this guy for awhile...

So essentially she cheated on him, lied about it, lied about what she was doing that night, continued to lie by saying her story was true, lead him on and lied about having a bf, until he finally found out tonight...

I was out w/ some friends when he called and the guy was bawling, I don't think I've heard him cry before, ever...


BTW, in my experience this pattern of behavior is not atypical of females... unfortunate really.


So that's how it ended.




MY FRIEND IS A MORON!!!!! UPDATE 2:

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ARGH!! I'm so pissed off right now.

The friend from my other thread just called me and told me that the girl who cheated on him called and "Wants to talk." She is "confused" and he is actually meeting her to talk...

I seriously want to beat his ass... that night when he brought that expensive bouqet and balloons (that actually sing a poem when they move) she told him she would call him after work ... she didn't, and that's when he went over to her house to see wtf was going on and the guy was there w/ her little kid on his lap (this stupid bitch lets all these guys meet her kids). This was when he found out she'd been cheating.

So he's been devastated but now her mood has changed and she's "confused" and "wants to talk."

AND HE IS ACTUALLY GOING TO SEE HER.

THIS IS SO OBSCENELY ABSURD THAT I HONESTLY WISH TO PUNCH HIM IN THE FACE AND SCREAM "WAKE UP ASSHOLE!"

Anyway if he takes her back he deserves to get crapped on imo. freaking jackass
 

arcenite

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Man, the advice I want to give got me a warning last time. Just use your imagination!
 

Ricochet

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Good gawd, man! Tell your friend there are plenty of other women who are better looking and have no kids. For a former male stripper, he seriously lacks some balls.
 

totalcommand

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Originally posted by: Pepsei
what a see-u.n.t!

No matter how you "spell" it, it is still wrong. We warned the members about calling women this word, and now you have won a 2 week vacation.

Watchful Mod


rofl. the mod called him out, but didn't delete his post??? :disgust: