can't believe it...

Braves

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being a teen sucks... i'm a junior at my high school and my sisters a senior, and I always thought she was pretty much drug/alcohol free. Was invited to a party tonight that I didn't want to goto cuz 1) the cops will probably break it up within 5 minutes 2) there's gonna be drugs/alcohol there and i dont do or wnat to be around that kind of sh!t

I knew my sister was going out tonight but only when she was going out the door did I realize where she was going... dunno if she does that kind of stuff but the fact that she's going in the first place makes me a little bit suspicious. I know for a fact that a couple of her friends do marijuana but I thought my sister was smart enough to stay away... I guess not :(
 

tweakmm

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<< I know for a fact that a couple of her friends do marijuana but I thought my sister was smart enough to stay away... I guess not :( >>


:Q
not marijuana!
:disgust:
why would she ruin her life that way? I mean, next thing you know she's going to get addicted and then not go to college and sit on her ass all day smoking grass. You need to try to save her before its too late, I thought you said she was smart!
 

Braves

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i can't confirm if she does drugs or just has friends that do em, but either way i'm pretty mad at her right now.
 

Danman

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That sucks......you should just go there and see if she is really smoking a fattie.
 

tweakmm

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<< i can't confirm if she does drugs or just has friends that do em, but either way i'm pretty mad at her right now. >>


as well you should be! We all know where drugs lead in life. Straight do the gutter, at least thats what Ashcroft told me!
 

johnjohn320

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<< :Q
not marijuana!
:disgust:
why would she ruin her life that way? I mean, next thing you know she's going to get addicted and then not go to college and sit on her ass all day smoking grass. You need to try to save her before its too late, I thought you said she was smart!
>>



I think you're being sarcastic, in which case: LOL. :)
 

zippy

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Just because you're at a party with drugs/alcohol doesn't mean you have to do the said substances.

Why not talk to her? It's obviously bothering you.
 

Braves

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probably should... I kinda feel like i dont' even know who she is anymore because I honestly never even thought about the possibility of her doing drugs until this very moment.
 

tweakmm

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<< probably should... I kinda feel like i dont' even know who she is anymore because I honestly never even thought about the possibility of her doing drugs until this very moment. >>


heaven forbid that she would actualy use drugs:Q
She may as well be doing a line of coke. They are the same thing right? All of that drug money goes straight to those terrorists :|
 

Braves

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i realize the world that we live in today is pretty much like this everywhere, because hell I know that 1/2 my friends drink alcohol and have done some stuff before, just never thought it would spread into my family. next thing I know i'll find out my oldest sister does the same things
 

tweakmm

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<< i realize the world that we live in today is pretty much like this everywhere, because hell I know that 1/2 my friends drink alcohol and have done some stuff before, just never thought it would spread into my family. next thing I know i'll find out my oldest sister does the same things >>


:disgust::Q
 

HombrePequeno

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Is it the end of the world if she drinks or smokes? You know you could always ask her. If she trusts you she'll probably tell you.
 

Ryan

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All of my friends smoke pot, and drink, I am with then every time they do. I don't. All i say is "Nah man", it's as simple as that. Plus, I'm the designated driver :) Not to mention my LITTLE sister does both (but not in my presence).
 

gopunk

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oh well, consider it a lesson in life, nobody's perfect and most people are far from it.
 

johnjohn320

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Listen dude, I'll lay it out flat for you. Your sister isn't gonna die from smoking a joint or a having a little bit to drink at a party. Let her live life, and stop being an over-protective mother. ;) If you don't do those things for your own reasons then that's cool, but don't over-dramatize other people's lives...
 

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Maybe she went just to have fun and doesn't go for the drinks and drugs.I can't really say too much about parties though I have never been to one and am in college and neither have I done or do drugs.I can't stand the taste of beer but thats just me.
 

tweakmm

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I have a confession to make:
my previous posts in this thread were extremely sarcastic. :D

braves,
you sister is not going to die from smoking a joint, nor is she from having a few drinks. You are really really overdramatising the situation and making it into a dynasty thing "Why is she doing this??? She is going to destroy herself along with our entire family!!!"
The fact is, most of the stuff that you have heard about pot is not true. Its not addictive nor does it kill brain cells.
 

HappyFace

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Pot is good for you! Er okay maybe not, but from what people tell me it makes you very relaxed and is not addictive. I'm not sure whether or not to believe these people. Guess I'll just stick to the safe stuff like heroine and crack cocaine;)
 

gopunk

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Its not addictive nor does it kill brain cells.

i don't think pot is evil or necessarily as addictive as other drugs, but i do think it adversely affects the brain. do you have any information that suggests otherwise?
 

tweakmm

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<< Its not addictive nor does it kill brain cells.

i don't think pot is evil or necessarily as addictive as other drugs, but i do think it adversely affects the brain. do you have any information that suggests otherwise?
>>


I never said that it adversly affects the brain. I just said that it doesn't kill braincells :)
this was all i could dig up now
 

Ionizer86

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Pot is good for you!

So is cyanide, arsenic, and aqua regia ;)

Anyway, if you do trust your sister and stuff, just ask her what she does at these parties. If you do tend to get along, she should be willing to talk. Tell her that you're concerned, and you just want to make sure that she's still clean of funky substances, such as cyanide and arsenic. :)
 

CSoup

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There is not much you can do about it. You probably don't want to know the truth anyways because it will freak you out. She probably does a lot worse. I know a guy who caught his younger sister at a party... lets say doing favors for guys. Took her home to the parents.
 

gopunk

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I never said that it adversly affects the brain. I just said that it doesn't kill braincells :)
this was all i could dig up now


so if you recognize that it adversely affects the brain (unless you want to deny that), then why are you making fun of him? it's his sister for god's sake... for example, if you had a sister, and you found out she was giving bj's to every guy she met, even if you knew that she didn't have any stds, wouldn't you still be disturbed? it's just one of those things. there's nothing *wrong* about giving bjs, it's just disturbing to know that a close family member does it regularly.
 

tweakmm

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<< I never said that it adversly affects the brain. I just said that it doesn't kill braincells :)
this was all i could dig up now


so if you recognize that it adversely affects the brain (unless you want to deny that), then why are you making fun of him? it's his sister for god's sake... for example, if you had a sister, and you found out she was giving bj's to every guy she met, even if you knew that she didn't have any stds, wouldn't you still be disturbed? it's just one of those things. there's nothing *wrong* about giving bjs, it's just disturbing to know that a close family member does it regularly.
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Well, all that I was saying was that the effect on the mind was overexagerated. Smoking pot occasionaly has almost no adverse affects. READ