How about instead of trying to make it about Hillary or me, just cut to the chase and explain why a voter in WY having roughly 3 times the voice compared to a CA voter is "fine"? The presence and effects of swing states occurs regardless of who is running, can we agree on this?
I actually give you props for that, it's far more than I get out of most with admitted leanings to the right. Allow me to craft a wobbly response with a car analogy: I understand this old ride means a lot to you, that through good times and bad she's still kept moving and done her job. But that tranny bruh, I hear it. I'm not saying she's due for the compactor. I'm saying let's rebuild that transmission and keep the car going instead of ignoring it, until it fails catastrophically one day.
Look how toxic things have become. Now consider a scenario where instead of the popular being off by about 3 million, it's off by 30 million (or more). Adjusting our Constitution to fit the times has been done before and will likely need to happen again, despite how frustrating it might be for you.
Change is necessary because things that don't adapt die out. Gerrymandering needs to go, no doubt, but so does the EC.