Apparently the profundity of this post went by without comment Hehe, it's almost as if God entered the thread and posted and the Christians and Atheists, preoccupied by arguing among themselves, failed to notice.Our earliest experiences with guilt and shame come from a time where morality isn't something we understand. They are part of us separating from our early attachment figures, and as a mental function, literally understanding the difference between self and others and cause and effect.
Culture, religion, logic, morality, etc. are all ideas which we attach later on.
Avoidance of guilt and shame is one mechanism of promoting humans to do good. It acts in this way for the theist and atheist both.
I do think that some cultures and religions take very concrete approaches to behavior and back it up by emphasizing the risk of those feelings, and attaching them to a fear of an undesirable outcome (e.g. going to hell).
As you have observed, though, this mechanism (and others) of providing a sense of morality does not equate to any objective morality. It can be subject to radical change throughout time and radical difference between communities.
But knowing that is no endorsement for logic as a replacement. I actually find that more susceptible to distortion because the alternative must be withheld through a community rather than simply an individual.
This is why I emphasize empathy as the deficit tool in approaching the greater good. If we are able to appreciate the experience of those affected by our choices on a level of feeling, it provides cognitive dissonance when either our logic or our community rules are subject to unconscious biases.
But that failure is conditional, I would also suspect, because the wisdom you have can't be transmitted to people who lack a foundation onto which it can be visibly placed. The secret protects itself by being invisible to those not prepared to see it and if you tell them of their lack of preparation they take it as a personal offense. You didn't do that, of course. I did.
