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Can a women tell that you just glanced at her chest?

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Originally posted by: guoziming
put yourself in the shoes of the girl. how would you feel then?


Um.. turned on. Most guys don't care and actually like it when a woman checks them out!
 
Originally posted by: Viperoni
Not when I do it 😉

of course, how are they going to know someone is looking at them through that 2 way mirror or that hole in the wall or the hidden camera in the bathroom stall?
 
Originally posted by: essasin
If you want to look at a womans chest COMPLEMENT the top she is wearing and it will give you a couple seconds to check her out without looking like a perv


Nice, I like your style.

I often each lunch with two female coworkers that I have known for several years. In fact they used to report to me, now we are just friends as I have changed job titles.

One of them has pretty nice sized breasts and wears a lot of shirts that show a bit of cleavage. Nothing inapropriate but still distracting. She is attractive, but since she had her baby she has put on some weight. Which I can tell really bothers me and has lowered her self esteem

She has caught me looking a few times and as actually pulled closed her sweater once. Which makes me feel like crap, but its not me that is showing the boobs. And its not like I am some creepy stranger, and its not like I'm not a attractive person ( if I do say so myself). Not like am am threatening since we are both married.

I would think this would be flattering, especially since she is feeling all unatractive after her baby, that I am checking her out.
 
Originally posted by: creedog
Originally posted by: essasin
If you want to look at a womans chest COMPLEMENT the top she is wearing and it will give you a couple seconds to check her out without looking like a perv


Nice, I like your style.

I often each lunch with two female coworkers that I have known for several years. In fact they used to report to me, now we are just friends as I have changed job titles.

One of them has pretty nice sized breasts and wears a lot of shirts that show a bit of cleavage. Nothing inapropriate but still distracting. She is attractive, but since she had her baby she has put on some weight. Which I can tell really bothers me and has lowered her self esteem

She has caught me looking a few times and as actually pulled closed her sweater once. Which makes me feel like crap, but its not me that is showing the boobs. And its not like I am some creepy stranger, and its not like I'm not a attractive person ( if I do say so myself). Not like am am threatening since we are both married.

I would think this would be flattering, especially since she is feeling all unatractive after her baby, that I am checking her out.

rofl, i like your style.
 
I talked to a user of one of my apps before, and I glanced down at her security badge (it didn't look a thing like her <she looks caucasian in the picture>), she gave me a look. 😱 Embarrassing, but I didn't mean to look there, I was trying to figure out if that was her in the picture.
 
Originally posted by: DaShen
I talked to a user of one of my apps before, and I glanced down at her security badge (it didn't look a thing like her <she looks caucasian in the picture>), she gave me a look. 😱 Embarrassing, but I didn't mean to look there, I was trying to figure out if that was her in the picture.

Umm yea...I look at people's name tags allll the time
 
Impossible to read a clever saying on a t-shirt when it's all stretched out like that.

I swear, i wasnt staring!!!

 
Originally posted by: creedog
One of them has pretty nice sized breasts and wears a lot of shirts that show a bit of cleavage. Nothing inapropriate but still distracting. She is attractive, but since she had her baby she has put on some weight. Which I can tell really bothers me and has lowered her self esteem

Maybe they go hand in hand? Eh? Bueller?
 
I had one of my vendors in my office the other day, who was wearing a low cut blouse. I had to compliment her on how beautiful her necklace went with her blouse. As I kept looking, I asked what kind of pendant is that on your necklace? She started explaining all about it, as she was grinning at me. She was totally onto me, and was actually enjoying the attention, I could tell. 😉
 
I love asking women what the writing on the front of their shirt says. They usually offer a more open view so I can "pretend" to read it.

I think they can tell, but it doesn't keep me from looking.

 
Originally posted by: pontifex
Originally posted by: Bryophyte
We do, and we like it (unless you're creepy.)

We notice them too. And sometimes point them out to our SOs.

define creepy?

Simple. Thumbs down. Women decide a man's possible chances in the first glance. Immediate thumbs down is what they call "creepy."
 
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