Originally posted by: Vic
Originally posted by: badnewcastle
Personally, I don't care if gays marry or not but the issue was put to voters before and the outcome was the same.
My issue with the entire thing is that this has more to do with the court essentially making the first vote invalid and it's another attempt to legislate from the bench.
I also do not believe that this is not a civil rights issue and thus it is not uncostitutional for marriage to remain between a man and a woman.
We already have civil unions in CA which afford gays the same benefits. With this alternative they get the same rights and I believe it takes seperation of church and state off the table.
This is very reasonable. It would IMO be just as wrong to force (for example) the Mormon church to marry gays against its will as it would be to deny gay couples the legal benefits of marriage against their will.
The problem surrounding this issue is that IMO there are few reasonable people on both sides, but instead we have 2 sides with unreasonable black and white views. On one side, you have people saying it's bigotry if certain churches don't want to marry gays and that govt should force them to perform and/or recognize such marriages. That's not right or reasonable. However, OTOH you have people saying that gay couples should be denied any of the legal benefits involved with govt performing and recognizing marriages. And that's not right or reasonable.
The simple solution is to let churches marry or not marry whoever they want, while having govt recognize any and all civil unions between any and all consenting adult couples. And what exactly is so wrong about that?