Personally, I don't care as long as the person isn't hurting another person. Who cares if dude wants to be a wolf or the woman wants to be a cat? How does that hurt you or yours?
Certain species abandon weak young offspring.
While I personally view abortion as a form of abandonment, and support child abandonment even after birth, under the context of liberty of the mother to not be conscripted to child-rearing by the government, there are many liberals and conservatives who do not. Some may say this is what makes us human, she wants to be recognized as not human, maybe not feline, but at the very least not human. Are we to afford her what her nature demands of her to do? Which would be to abandon weak offspring in order to preserve her own resources towards her stronger offspring? Should we be tolerant of that part of her feline nature?